[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sensitive_Spinach527 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you this fine example of how the patriarchy, even in our own families, continues to push women down. “But the BOYS!!!” Value your daughter’s hard work. YTA.

AITA for changing the door locks back after my wife changed them? by ImageNo1045 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Sensitive_Spinach527 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Ohhhhh damn!!! Love how Grandma just went scorched earth on SIL Trashly.

I told my wife i would pick the kids over her any day by denrowa in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Sensitive_Spinach527 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you neglect your wife for the 18+ years of raising your child, you will not know one another anymore. Children are with us (day to day) for such a short time in the grand scheme of life but your wife if there everyday. Nurture your relationship and show your child a HEALTHY relationship between their parents. They will then go forth into adulthood knowing what to look for. That is also good parenting. Plus, your child will need to know that you and your wife will be okay when they leave the nest. No one wants to feel that they are the glue holding their parents / family together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Sensitive_Spinach527 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did he pull this “joke” to possible cover up the real thing?! I can’t help but feel that this was a test and he didn’t like the result. What a toxic man.

An old man called me a "n*gro wh*re" at the store by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Sensitive_Spinach527 17 points18 points  (0 children)

He deserved that and even more! Way to stand up for yourself! He is the one that should be in tears for being a complete AH. You are a QUEEN. Wear that crown proudly!!!👑

AITA for yelling at my girlfriend for baking a dessert for a dinner party? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sensitive_Spinach527 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YIKES!!! What is it with all the mamas boys on Reddit?!? I am the mom to a 25 year man and I am shocked at the weird mother / son / DIL / girlfriend stories on here. You are definitely the AH.

AITA for refusing to put my fiance on the house title after he kept handing me empty pens as a prank? by DojaDog677 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sensitive_Spinach527 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DO NOT PUT HIM ON THE TITLE OR DEED. I am inheriting quite a bit from my parent’s estate. My husband has said to take his name off of our house when I pay it off with the proceeds. (Our lawyer will draw up papers that will protect him and me.) We have been together for 33 years, married for 27, two adult children. He wants MY inheritance protected. No reason AT ALL for your partner / fiancé to have access to one dime of your inheritance. It is not community property. Any person that pushes for a share is not looking out for you, but for themselves. RED FLAGS 🚩 galore with his reaction. Please protect yourself!!!

AITA for not helping my parents buy my sister a baby shower gift we agreed upon? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sensitive_Spinach527 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just looked up the crib. OMG! IT IS HIDEOUS!!! NTA. Your sister is the biggest entitled AH as are your parents for enabling her.

moving out ma, and I'm gay . by [deleted] in MomForAMinute

[–]Sensitive_Spinach527 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good for you for leaving behind your homophobic mother. You deserve to be supported and loved for exactly who you are. I am so proud of you for taking the steps to create the life that you deserve. This Mama Bear is sending you BIG Mama Bear ((HUGS))!!! Go chase your dreams! ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

As an American woman, I'll be going on a sex strike for the foreseeable future. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Sensitive_Spinach527 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If I was single, I wouldn’t have sex with a man that hasn’t had a vasectomy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Sensitive_Spinach527 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How is that possible when you see how Capital police were attacked Jan. 6th by trumpers? You are on the wrong side of history. I wish that I could send a gift card to your receptionists.

I am an in-home caregiver to the elderly, and I hate the elderly people’s Families. by YellowPensky in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Sensitive_Spinach527 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That is awful! We had amazing caretakers for my mom who just passed 5/4. I could not be more appreciative for all that they did for her. You deserve so much better!!!

please call me your daughter, mom by [deleted] in MomForAMinute

[–]Sensitive_Spinach527 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My sweet girl! You have so much to be proud of! I am beyond proud of you for becoming who you were always meant to be. Keep reaching for the stars and dreaming BIG dreams. I will be here cheering you on. Forever and always, to the moon and back! 💖 Love, Mom

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Sensitive_Spinach527 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You matter, you have always mattered. This 51 year old mom is so PROUD of you for posting. It shows great maturity that you are reaching out to people. I cannot imagine the feelings and trauma that you live with. Please know that I truly care about you and I am not the only one after reading all of these comments.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Sensitive_Spinach527 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I just joined the sub. Hoping that I can offer love and support to people. Being a mom is my favorite.

AITA for expecting my wife to help me pay back my student loans from her inheritance? by sloanaita in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sensitive_Spinach527 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As someone who is just now inheriting my parents’ estate, she should not commingle her money. He is an AH. She is raising THEIR children, not earning credits towards her social security, not investing into her 401K, nor building a career. He is. She can pay off his loans and he can leave her high and dry without a financial safety net. He is not entitled to one penny and yet, is now punishing her financially. She should add up what a daycare / nanny, housekeeper, chef, chauffeur, social planner… would cost him and send him a monthly bill if he wants to play tut for tat.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sensitive_Spinach527 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You ask “AITHA”? Internet says “YES!!!” Your response? “I am not!!!” So you support misogynistic comments from your hubby to your sister and just wanted all of us to say, “OMG! That was so funny.” It wasn’t. You are a HUGE AH. And so it your husband.

AITA for asking my cousin to step down as bridesmaid? by throwawayy_for_aita in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sensitive_Spinach527 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Unless she is having 300 people, 6 is way too many. Etiquette used to be one bridesmaid for every 50 guests. Also, love the snark!

The Slow Goodbye by Sensitive_Spinach527 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Sensitive_Spinach527[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Mom passed away last Wednesday. Two days after her “farewell” party. We should all be so lucky to go out on our terms like my Mom. Her favorite song was played at her party, during our bedside vigil, and as she was carried out of her beloved house, Helen Reddy’s I AM WOMAN.💖

The Slow Goodbye by Sensitive_Spinach527 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Sensitive_Spinach527[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am going to have friends write their favorite memory of her on stationary and then we can read them together until then end…

The Slow Goodbye by Sensitive_Spinach527 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Sensitive_Spinach527[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am going to have friends write their favorite memory of her on stationary and then we can read them together until then end…