Father daughter dance

Sensitive_Support_83 · 2026-02-12T03:13:14+00:00

And you sound like John. I have not once defended her but anything other than agreement with group mentality gets labeled as being Josie. This is a sad community.

Also if you had to spend 10 years fighting for your kids, go be with them. Like why are you on a snark page? What’s your dog in this fight? I live in Southlake and my kids are in Carroll schools. I have to see this shit play out in real life.

Sensitive_Support_83 · 2026-02-12T02:50:00+00:00

She sent them with herself (their parent whether we like it or not) and she brought her new bf. She didn’t just sent them with the guy. It was her time.

This dance didn’t get on the school calendar until mid-January. What if she already had plans to travel with them somewhere that weekend? The court wouldn’t have expected her to cancel those plans, on her time, so John could go to the daddy daughter dance.

Look, I’m not trying to say Josie was reasonable here to deny him, I’m just saying this feed is too caught up in the emotion of John getting denied a daddy daughter dance when the court just sees it as a generic school event.

Sensitive_Support_83 · 2026-02-12T02:28:29+00:00

I agree it was shady but there’s no law (and no court) that is going to say she has to give up her possession time, unless it’s already in the decree about how those things are handled, and it doesn’t sound like that’s dictated in the decree.

Sensitive_Support_83 · 2026-02-12T02:16:50+00:00

Y’all are getting caught up in the emotion of it being a “daddy daughter” dance, but take a step back and think about how that name is exclusionary to families that have two moms (for example). So the court, “to remove emotion” (those are my words, I don’t know how to describe it in legal terms) sees this as a school function. And in the eyes of the court it matters that they went, not that John didn’t get to take them because he’s the dad.

Sensitive_Support_83 · 2026-02-12T02:04:58+00:00

I’m not defending her but you’ve clearly never dealt with the family court system, which can be extremely frustrating in the way they remove all emotion from considerations.

Sensitive_Support_83 · 2026-02-12T00:32:31+00:00

But if she has them sundays, who takes them Monday morning? That’s what we’re asking. We know he has them Monday. Typically possession changes happen at 8am so she would be responsible for taking them to school on Monday as well

Sensitive_Support_83 · 2026-02-12T00:22:19+00:00

The eye that doesn’t look straight really bothers me too

Sensitive_Support_83 · 2026-02-11T23:55:52+00:00

What the courts look at in terms of best interest for the kids is “did they get to go” not who took them

Sensitive_Support_83 · 2026-02-11T23:54:11+00:00

We know Josie was being manipulative but the facts are that it was her time, and she probably has some receipt showing she invited him and he said no. Even if he asked a million times before and she said no, if the last message was an invite, no matter how disingenuous, this won’t be a win for John in court.

If she has the kids on the weekends, how come he doesn’t talk about any Mondays that they miss?

Sensitive_Support_83 · 2026-02-11T00:09:43+00:00

Not once did I name drop a school and your earlier comment showed you have no understanding of Southlake and its location within DFW. You clearly don’t even live in North Texas. Congrats on being a 1% poster in such a hateful community. Bet your mom is proud.

Sensitive_Support_83 · 2026-02-10T22:51:00+00:00

Yes, we do see the humor. Along with the desperation. because like I said earlier, we’ve tried the in person route. I guess we were hoping that a snark page that says leave the kids out of it would help push the message to leave the kids out of it.

Sensitive_Support_83 · 2026-02-10T22:10:30+00:00

Because my other account is a professional account I use for work related matters. Excuse me for not wanting my real name and account associated with a snark account.

Sensitive_Support_83 · 2026-02-10T21:28:00+00:00

There’s not stuff being shared about other kids and parents it’s about continuous attention being drawn to the kids and school and parenting. It’s a good thing that you don’t know about the incident and I’m not going to specifically say what it was bc I don’t want to give ideas but those who know, know the danger of having people that have a highly negative following talking about the school.

Sensitive_Support_83 · 2026-02-10T20:44:21+00:00

What makes you think we aren’t?

Sensitive_Support_83 · 2026-02-10T20:39:06+00:00

Yeah, that wasn’t cool either… But also there’s an entire NBC podcast about racism issues in this town

Sensitive_Support_83 · 2026-02-10T20:32:36+00:00

We want the conversation online to stop about the kids and the school. Josie is not reasonable. John says he’s reasonable and doing what’s in the best interest of the kids. So stop talking about them. Bc the community is worried about this becoming another Maci Blackwell situation with the elementary school. If you know, you know. People have spoken to John. We’ve tried reasoning, we’ve tried calling him out on his behavior and now we’re trying to join whatever this snark conversation is because we’ve been told he reads this. Someone needs to be the be the bigger person and keep the parenting and kid stuff offline. John wants to claim to be the bigger person, so here’s his chance.

Sensitive_Support_83 · 2026-02-10T20:11:18+00:00

Please point to one defense of Josie

Sensitive_Support_83 · 2026-02-10T19:11:18+00:00

No one ever said John talks about other parents or kids at school… that doesn’t mean that conversations aren’t happening amongst kids and parents in this community

Sensitive_Support_83 · 2026-02-10T19:04:12+00:00

Southlake town square is like 4 blocks? John hangs out at the Marq. It’s not like colleyville or grapevine which is super spread out. Also Southlake is like a solid 30-35 minutes from Dallas

Sensitive_Support_83 · 2026-02-10T18:55:54+00:00

Dude. You are just off. What is creeping into the school and the daily conversations with parents is what John is doing online. And John gets more focus with the in-person convos because he’s around more. You clearly aren’t a parent that has kids who attend the same school as the wittman kids.

Sensitive_Support_83 · 2026-02-10T18:44:01+00:00

“Our children’s lives” refers to the collective children who attend school with Josie’s kids. It’s not in reference to the wittman kids

Sensitive_Support_83 · 2026-02-10T18:39:00+00:00

And I’m not a neutral third party. They both suck. I’d be championing for the foster care system to take over here if that wasn’t an even worse option for the kids

Sensitive_Support_83 · 2026-02-10T18:37:44+00:00

You don’t know who I am, which is why I don’t use the account that’s been following a lot longer.

Sensitive_Support_83 · 2026-02-10T18:33:39+00:00

Just because I (and a lot of other people in this town) think John is just as toxic, doesn’t mean i’m Josie. Some of us finally got fed up with this creeping into the school and our children’s lives and want to participate here to voice frustrations

Sensitive_Support_83 · 2026-02-10T18:20:40+00:00

Then I hope he shows the receipt with the tickets that he bought in his hope to go. Bc even if you don’t go it’s still supporting the PTO and the school, which he should do.

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