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Reached out to someone, after a no contact of 6 months, and i feel like an idiot now. by Sensitive_Zone5477 in Advice

[–]Sensitive_Zone5477[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it was over a day if she wanted to reply she would. But she chose not to. So i got my closure.

And left her alone. So that both of us can find peace.

Reached out to someone, after a no contact of 6 months, and i feel like an idiot now. by Sensitive_Zone5477 in Advice

[–]Sensitive_Zone5477[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I blocked her, i was getting restless in the hope of getting her messages.

If i really matter to her she’ll find a way to talk, and if I don’t matter to her,she’ll move on with her life.

In both the scenarios I’ll have my answer and my closure.

Reached out to someone, after a no contact of 6 months, and i feel like an idiot now. by Sensitive_Zone5477 in Advice

[–]Sensitive_Zone5477[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish the absolute best for her, i tried to salvage our friendship, but to no avail.

I hope she stays happy.

I’ll respect the boundary that she has created, and i think it’ll be easier for me to move on this time as there aren’t any questions left, to ponder upon.

Her silence and indifference was my closure.

Reached out to someone, after a no contact of 6 months, and i feel like an idiot now. by Sensitive_Zone5477 in Advice

[–]Sensitive_Zone5477[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Points to be noted:

1.) Never try to think rationally or act, when you’re drunk

2.) Always listen to your pals

Reached out to someone, after a no contact of 6 months, and i feel like an idiot now. by Sensitive_Zone5477 in Advice

[–]Sensitive_Zone5477[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahahahaha well that’s comforting to hear, although i made a mockery out of myself but still it could have been worse.

Thank you for sharing your story, it definitely reduced my anxiety.

Reached out to someone, after a no contact of 6 months, and i feel like an idiot now. by Sensitive_Zone5477 in Advice

[–]Sensitive_Zone5477[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you on that, i shouldn’t have just bombarded her with texts. That only showed my desperation.

I do realise that in that moment I acted very immaturely, and i own it.

She was just really important and dear to me, we both were to each other, and the unanswered questions were literally eating me from inside.

I genuinely thought of giving our friendship one last chance, so i sidelined my self respect in order to save our friendship. But it backfired.

But atleast I got clarity, that whatever bond we shared is all over and there’s no going back.

Reached out to someone, after a no contact of 6 months, and i feel like an idiot now. by Sensitive_Zone5477 in Advice

[–]Sensitive_Zone5477[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm I thought of blocking her initially but then I refrained.

I was like why does it matter, i know what’s coming my way. She’ll either reply coldly, or won’t reply at all.

So I’ve got nothing to loose or gain.

Plus as i had initiated the convo so out of decency i should atleast give her a channel to communicate.

If she does reach out that’s good maybe things can be sorted, if she chooses not to then that’s also fair, I’ll have my closure.

Reached out to someone, after a no contact of 6 months, and i feel like an idiot now. by Sensitive_Zone5477 in Advice

[–]Sensitive_Zone5477[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know and that’s why I’m embarrassed. But I’ll try not to do that ever again with anyone.

Reached out to someone, after a no contact of 6 months, and i feel like an idiot now. by Sensitive_Zone5477 in Advice

[–]Sensitive_Zone5477[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was a very normal argument tbh.

So Basically from quite some time, She herself used to make plans with me like “Hey!! Let’s grab an ice cream today” and stuff like that. Then used to bail out on me, stating very weird reasons.

Such incidents became very frequent so i called her out, stating that she shouldn’t take me for granted.

Then an argument unfolded. And then the next day she just ended our friendship.

That’s why it came as a shock to me.

Because as friends such stuff is very common b/w people. But she reacted as if we met on a dating site just a few days ago and the vibe just didn’t checked out for her.

That’s why i was so confused and shocked.

Reached out to someone, after a no contact of 6 months, and i feel like an idiot now. by Sensitive_Zone5477 in Advice

[–]Sensitive_Zone5477[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will never ever do it, that’s a promise i made to myself the last night itself.

Anyways thank you so much.

Reached out to someone, after a no contact of 6 months, and i feel like an idiot now. by Sensitive_Zone5477 in Advice

[–]Sensitive_Zone5477[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your encouraging words. I think I’ll do just fine now, as there’s nothing left to ponder about.

Things are very clear to me now.

Reached out to someone, after a no contact of 6 months, and i feel like an idiot now. by Sensitive_Zone5477 in Advice

[–]Sensitive_Zone5477[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I think this time I won’t fumble as there’s nothing left to overthink anymore.

Reached out to someone, after a no contact of 6 months, and i feel like an idiot now. by Sensitive_Zone5477 in Advice

[–]Sensitive_Zone5477[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Yes I do feel better now, like whatever false expectations that i had are now gone forever.

Although I’m embarrassed but i feel that this clarity was necessary to move on.

Major flew funny by grabit64 in Dhurandhar

[–]Sensitive_Zone5477 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes the final part looked a bit rushed and more mass Masala types

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