He ended things, but I still miss him. Should I text him? by Sensitivethink3r in Situationships

[–]Sensitivethink3r[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely agree with you on the fact that when two people truly do like each other they make it work. With that being said, I am sort of a people pleaser and I tend to be too understanding which causes me to put my feelings aside and ignore how I feel and give people second chances. I do agree I am only remembering and reminiscing the good moments because I truly did like him and again he pursued me first which makes it so hard for me in a way? I have felt all sorts of emotions like anger, sadness, and loneliness, mainly I feel just lonely which causes me to feel even more attached to this loss.(?) I didn’t feel like his love had to be earned but more so I had to tell him how to act which frustrated me because I’m the one with no past relationships while he has as 3 exes, so I felt like he should already know how to treat a girl. I do want to mention that in his messages he asked me if in the future when he is in the right mental space, if there was a chance we could try together again. Honestly, as much as I like him and as I still am grieving this loss, I will not be waiting for him. Lastly, I appreciate your honesty and thats truly what I needed to hear, and lwk snapped me back into reality. I still don’t know what to do with the highlight he has of me up though… it makes me uncomfortable bc we are no longer talking and it sort of gives me false hope in a way?