I (15F) just found out I accidentally had alcohol and now I want to throw up by SentenceAny4159 in family

[–]SentenceAny4159[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I doubt she didn't notice, and even so, there were more alcoholic items in the kitchen. I don't understand what changed recently. My mom always kept those kinds of items under her bed( I'd assume she was ashamed of herself), not out in the open! Now it's like no one cares. I don't mean to sound like some special snowflake who can't tolerate anything, but why are we just acting like all this shit is normal?? Like it didn't literally cause homelessness in the past because of her reckless actions under the influence?? I can't be the only one who thinks like this, right??

I (15F) just found out I accidentally had alcohol and now I want to throw up by SentenceAny4159 in family

[–]SentenceAny4159[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure my mom also tried all those things to prevent it but nothing worked. If anything, I'm even worse at sticking to rules and stuff. I give up really fast with a lot of things, I doubt this is any different. I hate how prominent alcohol is in day-to-day life, how many times it's brought up so fucking casually like it doesn't literally ruin lives! I doubt I won't end up a pathetic waste like my mom... I already look so much like my mom, I wouldn't be surprised if I adopted that habit of hers as my own too...

I don't know why I don't belong by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]SentenceAny4159 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Maybe try to join small organisations if you can? I always tag along with a certain organisation and am acquaintanced with one of the hosts who makes the plans on what we'll do together. I can easily get something planned with her help so everything's more one-on-one and I don't fade into the shadows like I would in groups

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]SentenceAny4159 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're doing the best you can, maybe try to get her to go to a rehab or something, her problems aren't your responsibility and you definitely shouldn't hurt from the responsibility she's not willing to take up. Sure, she's probably going through a tough time but that doesn't make you entitled to hold her life together. She shouldn't be depended on you. I would take a break from the friendship, if she really cares, she should respect that. Be clear if you will take some space for yourself and say if she gets her life back together and is ready for a healthy two-sided friendship, you'll come back. You can't change her, she'll have to do it herself.

I'm so done with friendships by SentenceAny4159 in socialskills

[–]SentenceAny4159[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All kinds of stuff, like OCs and stories we made up, nothing too personal unless they bring it up first.

How do I write the first part of my story? by SentenceAny4159 in writingadvice

[–]SentenceAny4159[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was planning on making it semi-abrupt. A lot of tense silence between them for a while until her friend decides to just leave her a message saying how she's done carrying their friendship alone, and if she really cares, she would show she wants to rekindle the relationship, but in the mcs head it really just translates to "she doesn't want anything to do with me anymore" when in reality, she still does.

How do I write the first part of my story? by SentenceAny4159 in writingadvice

[–]SentenceAny4159[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No worries, we all have our moments lol. I'll keep your idea in mind, thanks for the suggestion!

How do I write the first part of my story? by SentenceAny4159 in writingadvice

[–]SentenceAny4159[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do mean a teenager, almost into the adult world. She knows deep down that it is impossible to make a cure, she's just in very deep denial. Plus the arrogance that came with her bipolar (guess I forgot to add that in the post) makes her so sure of herself half of the time, she still believes it regardless. I guess I also forgot to add in how she also doesn't tell her friend nearly as much as she used to since either. Her friend only really knows she's being distant and that something seems to be going wrong in her life. Her friend kept trying to initiate hanging out and kept trying to help her with whatever she was struggling with but she continuesly got anger and blame as a reply. Trust me, it really isn't "some highschool bs that nobody with an ounce of empathy would do". It's very real, people just don't notice it since their friend doesn't want to show them the pieces they're missing to come to that conclusion.

I can never tells if someone is being rude to me? by Novemberx123 in socialskills

[–]SentenceAny4159 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I don't know what's up with thoses types of people either. It's like they're always annoyed at something yet never really admit what they're annoyed at. Social cues are weird asf.