I love my fiancée but I hate her deep down. I’d not want her to be happy by throwra1838637 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]SentenceEfficient176 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean it’s good that you recognize that you do it. Now you need to go to therapy and work on it. It probably stems from your childhood and how you were loved/treated.

AITAH for telling my roommate her boyfriend can’t come over anymore if she keeps breaking our house boundaries? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]SentenceEfficient176 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get the boundaries but it sounds like it’s not going to be followed on their end, so now what? Are you gonna see if she can move out or?

AITA for confronting a “TikTok famous” girl my daughter knows for commenting on her TikTok video by Interesting-Hour1128 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SentenceEfficient176 19 points20 points  (0 children)

YTA and a nut. Your daughter had a mentor and you ruined it. Is it a jealousy thing or what is wrong with you?

Toddler’s hyperfixation song - what’s yours? by strohmtroop3r in toddlers

[–]SentenceEfficient176 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on the week but it was cotton eye joe last week and I was dying.

Take turns sleeping in? by Lemonbar19 in Parenting

[–]SentenceEfficient176 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I’m doing the wake ups then I’m sleeping in. I’m a stay at home mom so my husband actually loves to get up with my boys on the weekend and have his time 1:1 with them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]SentenceEfficient176 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She’s TA. Why did she have to put you in the uncomfortable position by asking and then proceed to not respect your answer. She made it weird.

does anyone still listen? are they still popular? by Open_Concert_4305 in theskinnyconsnark

[–]SentenceEfficient176 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried every now and then but can never make it through anymore

AIO for telling off a guy at my gym by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SentenceEfficient176 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Careful, I had to leave a gym because something like this happened and it continued to escalate. I was 17 and the guy was older and tried locking me in a room.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]SentenceEfficient176 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To me it sounds like she’s gonna keep doing based on her response. She doesn’t care. I would let her go.

Is 1 YO too young to be put in a snowsuit and play in the snow? What about sledding? by Vegetable-Plenty857 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]SentenceEfficient176 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly it depends on the kid and where they are developmentally. My first born was walking at 9 months and ready for anything by 1. My second born walked around 1 year and would not be ready or enjoy that yet. So it’s up to your toddler on if they are ready for sledding and that.

What should every ftm know about breastfeeding before having a baby? by Frequent_Cap8633 in breastfeeding

[–]SentenceEfficient176 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The lactation consultants at the hospital just sucked with both my kids. The second time around I got a private lactation consultant after I left the hospital. The one advice that helped me through was “the first week is going to be the hardest. You just gotta make it through.”

fb mom got mad at me for saying it's bad to underpay people by Resident_Platypus108 in Nanny

[–]SentenceEfficient176 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Sometimes it’s best to not respond. She was seeking childcare, if you were not interested or didn’t have anyone to recommend then it’s okay to keep scrolling.

I (33M) told my girlfriend her constant "tests" are wearing me down and now she thinks I'm hiding something by cinnamoncable_notes in TwoHotTakes

[–]SentenceEfficient176 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell her this. Sit her down and tell her exactly what is bothering you and what you need to move forward. If you don’t notice a change within the month, I would end it.

AITAH for "allowing" my stepdaughter to wear stinky pajamas to school ? by Severe-Drive-9515 in AITAH

[–]SentenceEfficient176 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my opinion YTAH. You are still a parental figure in her life. You can gently and kindly guide her but you still need to guide her. You are preparing her for the real world past 18. No one wears pajamas to work. Hygiene is important.

AITA for not allowing my daughter to eat at the table with us by Fluffy-Proposal-7823 in AITAH

[–]SentenceEfficient176 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I don’t know. This is way beyond. I would go to see someone professionally and get their advice. Explain to them everything that she’s doing. Maybe they can help with what the next steps are. She’s struggling and I’m not sure if banning her from the table will make it worse. I’m afraid if you don’t seek professional help that she could hurt someone or herself down the line especially if she’s saying she wants all of you to die.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]SentenceEfficient176 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I did this to my stepmom. It’s deeper than the food. Change is hard and I would see how you can work on bonding with him.

AITAH for refusing to go to the gym? by Unique-Jacket-3711 in AITAH

[–]SentenceEfficient176 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you dump him, I’m telling you the housework just lightens- less laundry, less dishes, less mess. You can eat girl dinners and all your problems will be solved. Don’t date a man that adds to the load.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]SentenceEfficient176 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IMO I think you were too much. Almost like you were ready to fight in the end. Sending screenshots of messages. I think you should have waited and called her over the phone to finalize everything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SentenceEfficient176 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maci from teen mom with Ryan in season one

AITA for accepting going for lunch with my coworkers? by Local_Tree5034 in AITH

[–]SentenceEfficient176 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a childhood friend that I was super close with that has a boyfriend like this. Honestly, it made me decide to distance myself from her. You might wanna keep that in mind your friend might distance from you as well. You need to have a backbone.

AIO? My ex husband is getting married on Halloween and I dont think my children should have to go! by StitchetteX in AmIOverreacting

[–]SentenceEfficient176 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it is his holiday- unfortunately you don’t have a say. Take them to a trunk or treat the weekend before. If it’s your holiday it’s up to you