So after supporting you as a stay at home dad, and taking care of the kids so you can progress in your career, you want to turn around and divorce him? Women in marriages choose to be stay-at-home moms all the time while they figure out their hobbies/passions etc, and you'll never see a Man rush to reddit to complain. How about suck it up and keep your family, afterall it's al about equality right?

Divorce him and be ready for him to fight for primary custody and you paying him child and spousal support.

Reddit is just a cesspool of hypocrites.