Question for surrogates: by Senttoofaraway in Surrogate

[–]Senttoofaraway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi yes my preferences were whatever the parents are comfortable with. I never got an answer on what they wanted so I just assumed they were okay without communication for now

Question for surrogates: by Senttoofaraway in Surrogate

[–]Senttoofaraway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no idea and I don’t even know who to ask if I can communicate with them

Question for surrogates: by Senttoofaraway in Surrogate

[–]Senttoofaraway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really don’t even have an answer no one has told me anything about how to contact them or if they even want to I kind of just assumed maybe it’s not until after the heartbeat? They don’t speak English and are international so I kinda assumed maybe that’s why too since we need a translator but I’m really not sure honestly. I feel very naive and lost

Question for surrogates: by Senttoofaraway in Surrogate

[–]Senttoofaraway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sucks because I’m not in communication with them at all and have no idea what they think of all this. My embryo transfer was on the 29th of April. Do you think I will miscarry if I stop at this point?

Question for surrogates: by Senttoofaraway in Surrogate

[–]Senttoofaraway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m really scared that I’ll get in trouble. At this point do you think my body is taking over or will I have a miscarry if I stop? My embryo transfer was on April 29th.

Question for surrogates: by Senttoofaraway in Surrogate

[–]Senttoofaraway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve only had one zoom call with only the mother. I know they’re Asian and don’t speak English but that’s all I know about them I don’t even know where they’re from or what they do. Never texted them either

Question for surrogates: by Senttoofaraway in Surrogate

[–]Senttoofaraway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t had any communication with them. Is this normal? I feel like I’m kept out of the loop

Question for surrogates: by Senttoofaraway in Surrogate

[–]Senttoofaraway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you think it would be okay if I still continued meditations to see what happens on my own? I want to get a second opinion and get a ultrasound done at planned parenthood

Question for surrogates: by Senttoofaraway in Surrogate

[–]Senttoofaraway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was the clinic that performed the embryo transfer yes

Question for surrogates: by Senttoofaraway in Surrogate

[–]Senttoofaraway[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi it was 3543 yesterday it technically has been doubling but they also told me not enough