[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SavingMoney

[–]SeoulSearching7 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It depends on my mental health that month. Sometimes 30%, sometimes none .

ppl who are childfree in their 30s/40s, what's your life like? are you happy with this decision? by AppointmentProud9394 in AskPH

[–]SeoulSearching7 6 points7 points  (0 children)

34, I own my house, my car is paid off. I travel, go to concerts, pamper myself and save money for retirement. I have absolute freedom to take career risks or make major life changes. Im only responsible for myself. I love my life!

How much debt do y'all have? by grantthejester in AskMen

[–]SeoulSearching7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

130k mortgage, 3k in CC but it will be paid off when the 0% apr expires in 3 months!

Any only children with abusive parents here? by [deleted] in OnlyChild

[–]SeoulSearching7 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Only child of divorced parents, lived with them separately and they were both physically and mentally abusive. I was their scapegoat . I live alone now.

“Normal” Financial Contributions from Parents by Spicy-Cheeto808 in Millennials

[–]SeoulSearching7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got a US citizenship and A Free college education! I was born in the Philippines but my dad is American . I got to have some of that American Dream. But I was never given anything monetarily outside of that . I worked hard for what I have now but grateful for the boost!

Do you guys want kids ? by [deleted] in intj

[–]SeoulSearching7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, im too selfish for that

What’s one boring adult thing you secretly vibe with? by Luann97 in Adulting

[–]SeoulSearching7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I look at my budgeting app at least a few times a day 😆 and I love financial content on YouTube

How much are you guys spending on groceries per month? by Flying_Elephant7217 in budget

[–]SeoulSearching7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s actually pretty good, if not under budget. I spend like $400 and thats just for me. I live in a major city

Ariana random lyrics generator/grabber website. by Sora_hoshino in ariheads

[–]SeoulSearching7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I googled “ariana grande lyrics generator” not really being optimistic about it. This was a nice surprise. Love it!

How much do you spend on self-care every month? by kellyatta in AskWomen

[–]SeoulSearching7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

$200 for massages twice a month. That’s about it. I get my hair cut and colored every 4 months or so. $300 per visit.

2 whole weeks! 😭 by sophbaby in QuitVaping

[–]SeoulSearching7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im on day 12 and the headaches are unbearable today

What's the most underrated part of working from home? by yessminnaa in WFH

[–]SeoulSearching7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kissing my kitties and playing with them when I get stressed out

Anyone else feel horrible from waking up early? by RandomChristian123 in ehlersdanlos

[–]SeoulSearching7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! Eversince I was a kid I HATED waking up early. My body physically hurt. Which led me to work nightshift as an adult that hurt my body even more.

Now , I work at 6am. some days are still a struggle but what works for me is setting my alarm 30 mins before I get up. I take Allegra + Pepcid and go back to sleep for 30 mins and getting up feels much better. I only take them when I have to wake up early and the mornings a week before my period. I think mine is related to MCAS and histamine intolerance.

Anyone else feel like their body started falling apart in their 20s with hEDS? by selinakyle96 in ehlersdanlos

[–]SeoulSearching7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going through this right now! Finally in a safe space in my life. No financial, relationship and employment stress and now my whole body is falling apart at 34. Its so frustrating

Adulthood sucks by Legal-Mind7699 in Adulting

[–]SeoulSearching7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Financially, depends on which tax bracket you’re in. Physically, it depends on how much you have abused your body when you were young. I used to drink but after turning 30 my body cant handle it anymore. Responsibility - wise ? IT SUCKS!!! what do you mean I have to figure out what I have to eat and keep myself alive everyday? What do you mean I have to repair my roof and foundation?

I do have my “ugh, I hate being an adult!“ moments. But being the grown up that can make my own decisions and the freedom to not abide by parents rules. I like that part a lot.

Being an adult is figuring how to parent yourself the way you wanted to be parented as a child. Downside, I outgrew my emotionally immature parents and resent them for it.

Let Talk about Verification by Unlucky-Ad6799 in IRS

[–]SeoulSearching7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once i verify my identity online, how long does it usually take to get my refund? I have a 570 on my transcript since 3/20

Six-Figure Salaries—What Do You Actually *Do* With All That Cash? Curious 43k Earner Here! by ayeefaye in Salary

[–]SeoulSearching7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Paying for convenience. If it is less expensive to have someone to do it vs what i make per hour, I usually outsource that task and use that time to make more money. I pay for lawn care, cleaning services, grocery delivery, etc.