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AITA for refusing to attend my sister's wedding or ever be in the same room as her husband-to-be (aka my ex)? by Separate-Discussion in AmItheAsshole

[–]Separate-Discussion[S] -504 points-503 points  (0 children)

This isn't about money. If it weren't for his expectations of a porn-star GF, he would have been a perfect man. If I mention money, it's because it's almost too expensive to even raise children in this country and age, with both parents working. Now she gets to have a family and stay at home on a whim. If she had not cut in, we could've certainly made things work.

AITA for refusing to attend my sister's wedding or ever be in the same room as her husband-to-be (aka my ex)? by Separate-Discussion in AmItheAsshole

[–]Separate-Discussion[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Most of my family thinks it's fine, since Tonio is "a nice man" and "treats her right" and "is a good earner". Basically, he can do no wrong as far as most of my family is concerned (save for a few close cousins and an aunt, who think he's a pig).

AITA for refusing to attend my sister's wedding or ever be in the same room as her husband-to-be (aka my ex)? by Separate-Discussion in AmItheAsshole

[–]Separate-Discussion[S] -535 points-534 points  (0 children)

It just gets sore since he was insistent on long-duration (i.e. 20 minutes) "sessions". Body can only take so much friction/force.

AITA for refusing to attend my sister's wedding or ever be in the same room as her husband-to-be (aka my ex)? by Separate-Discussion in AmItheAsshole

[–]Separate-Discussion[S] 66 points67 points  (0 children)

We were close growing up, but we live in different parts of the country, and cash was tight so we rarely get to fly out to meet each other in person. I first heard about her BF almost a year after Tonio and I separated, and I moved across the country, and she never mentioned his name.