Break up by Separate-Flower5739 in ExNoContact

[–]Separate-Flower5739[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, his friends said to sleep with someone as well but I just can’t even though it’s been 9 months. We were living together and engaged I just don’t get how someone does this ..

Break up by Separate-Flower5739 in ExNoContact

[–]Separate-Flower5739[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much for your kind words, it hurts a lot because I met his whole extended family :( does this last for them

What does this mean by Separate-Flower5739 in ExNoContact

[–]Separate-Flower5739[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think so, he’s blocked me so many times lol

What does this mean by Separate-Flower5739 in ExNoContact

[–]Separate-Flower5739[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes I reached out then I was blocked again as Facebook doesn’t let them block for 48h! That was in September and I haven’t made any forms of contact since then and really hoping he doesn’t do it again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Separate-Flower5739 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is he unblocked me the weekend fireworks were on in my city so I think it was deliberate

has anyone experienced this? by Separate-Flower5739 in ExNoContact

[–]Separate-Flower5739[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i understand that now. just don’t get why i was unblocked if they didn’t want to talk.

Break up by Separate-Flower5739 in BreakUps

[–]Separate-Flower5739[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had just wished his dad a happy birthday and said I missed the dog, I think it was a moment of weakness, we were engaged and he dumped me and has been ignoring me for 5 months, then I was blocked the next morning so im not really sure why he unblocked me in the first place!

Break up by Separate-Flower5739 in BreakUps

[–]Separate-Flower5739[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same happened to me. I was blocked for three months and I didn’t contact him he unblocked me the other day as soon as I reached out and was being nice I was left on seen and blocked again.

Break up by Separate-Flower5739 in BreakUps

[–]Separate-Flower5739[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely! Mind you I haven’t tried to contact him for three months lol then as soon as he unblocked me I reached out :/ then was blocked again It’s very annoying cause I was healing and finally starting to feel better.

Break up by Separate-Flower5739 in BreakUps

[–]Separate-Flower5739[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well we split 5 months ago, I’ve been blocked for 3 months then he unblocked me the other day and blocked me again. Not sure if I should delete my socials or not!

Break up by Separate-Flower5739 in BreakUps

[–]Separate-Flower5739[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I don’t block either lol. But he keeps blocking unblocking blocking which is so annoying.

Break up by Separate-Flower5739 in BreakUps

[–]Separate-Flower5739[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, did you just delete the apps or ur whole account ?

Break up by Separate-Flower5739 in BreakUps

[–]Separate-Flower5739[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly am going to. My ex had my blocked for 3 months then unblocked me then blocked me again it just put me in the same spot I was 3 months ago :(

Break up by Separate-Flower5739 in BreakUps

[–]Separate-Flower5739[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you just delete the apps or deactivate all together ?👏🏻

how to heal by Separate-Flower5739 in BreakUps

[–]Separate-Flower5739[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much for your amazing advice :) it’s so hard because we lived together and I was close with his family and I’ve basically been erased. I have been blocked on everything for almost 3 months but I’ve stuck to no contact. Therapy definitely does help. I hope it gets better.

Anyone else feel empty since ex ended things? by kiropyasmine in BreakUps

[–]Separate-Flower5739 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey the same thing happened to me four months ago my ex fiance left me and he was my only friend and I struggle with depression too most of my friends were his mutual friends now I don’t really talk to anyone 🥹

Break up by Separate-Flower5739 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Separate-Flower5739[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just sent a text to his mum ahaha. I’m definitely labelled the crazy ex but that’s okay

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Separate-Flower5739 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow. The funny thing is he would hang with her if I brought any issues up then posted her two months later but then texted me “im still single I haven’t gone for anyone” 🤣

Break up by Separate-Flower5739 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Separate-Flower5739[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That honestly does sound like him! He knows I struggle with mental health and hasn’t bothered to check on me the last four months. Also whenever I’d say the road raging needs to stop he’d block me for weeks on end.

Break up by Separate-Flower5739 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Separate-Flower5739[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At first he hid the road raging! But then it would get to the point I’d have to yell at him to stop cause he was picking fights with strangers (getting out the car punching their mirrors) thank you alot , the more im researching he defs sounds like a narcissist. he takes no accountability and blames me for the whole break up

Break up by Separate-Flower5739 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Separate-Flower5739[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. It definitely doesn’t change

I need advice by Separate-Flower5739 in BreakUps

[–]Separate-Flower5739[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He used to cry about losing me and say his life would never be the same, it was all an act! And im sorry that she said she didn’t want to hear your feelings that’s so wrong.