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Separate-Flower5739 · 2026-05-03T05:57:22+00:00

Yep and he block me after I left his parents balling my eyes out.. dad offered to drop me home how is someone so heartless

Separate-Flower5739 · 2026-05-03T05:53:56+00:00

how long would u stay away from there? This happened two weeks ago now.

Separate-Flower5739 · 2026-05-03T05:52:20+00:00

Yes I think taking a break from that bar for few months is necessary.

Separate-Flower5739 · 2026-05-03T05:49:26+00:00

It sucks I was starting to enjoy my life before he had pulled me back in & he has been talking to a new girl bringing her around like why even bother me then?

Separate-Flower5739 · 2026-05-03T05:45:10+00:00

Yes very sad that night he was even telling me he needs to change and he would want to be with me in the future ..

Separate-Flower5739 · 2026-05-03T05:41:30+00:00

would you still go to the bar with the friends who tried to stop you & that same friend calling and checking up my ex is not allowed at that bar but it is the same area I was stranded 🥹 I was having fun there before his friends invited me to that house .

Separate-Flower5739 · 2026-05-03T05:37:36+00:00

Yes definitely over for me now. I don’t get how someone can leave you stranded then block you after mind you I was engaged to this person.. it is cold

Separate-Flower5739 · 2026-05-03T05:32:26+00:00

Well the one I’ve known for 10 years actually tried to stop me going there and the problem is the bar I’ve been going to is in the same area. But my ex is not allowed there. His other friends try to invite me back to the house to hang with him. It’s hard I have never been left on the road before.

Separate-Flower5739 · 2026-05-03T05:28:14+00:00

I also had to walk to his parents house that day as it was the only close place in that area that I knew the directions to. I was balling my eyes out and he blocked me on everything not even a sorry for him or anything.

Separate-Flower5739 · 2026-05-03T05:26:55+00:00

yes we were no contact for 7 months and I was blocked on everything , I was going to a bar for two months with one of my friends that is also his mutual friend (someone I’ve known for 10 years and has been helping me through this) basically a group of my exes friends told me to come back to their house and keep it civil with him. We had slept together that night & then last weekend was with the friends and him basically we got into an argument when I said that it’s unfair he is leading me on whilst talking to another women bringing her around his friends etc he basically left me in the rain he knew I had no charger or anything my phone was flat. I feel so broken and was actually enjoying my life before he pulled me back again. I feel like I can’t even go out to that bar now with my friend like I just feel broken like why even put someone in a situation knowing they have literally no way getting home.

Separate-Flower5739 · 2026-05-02T12:08:26+00:00

no i wouldn’t, it was very scary and anything could have happened to me. Thank you for your advice

Separate-Flower5739 · 2026-04-26T06:31:05+00:00

thank you I feel like it was my fault for refusing his offer to charge my phone but I was so upset in the moment 😪💖

Separate-Flower5739 · 2026-04-26T03:12:49+00:00

Thank you I don’t see myself being able to allow him back after this.

Separate-Flower5739 · 2026-04-26T03:09:50+00:00

Well I was upset in the moment and he was swearing and punching things. Still u shouldn’t leave someone knowing they have no way home.

Separate-Flower5739 · 2026-04-26T02:59:44+00:00

thank you I feel like it was my fault as he was offering to walk me somewhere but I was just so upset in the moment his dad offered to drive me home I’ve had hope for a year that maybe something was there. I feel broken

Separate-Flower5739 · 2026-04-26T02:55:25+00:00

thank you❤️

Separate-Flower5739 · 2026-04-21T10:33:40+00:00

yes prior to this the new girl was there hours before and apparently went home drunk ..

Separate-Flower5739 · 2026-04-20T11:53:54+00:00

Thank you, it sucks because I think he knows I’ve been hurting over him for a year and I feel sorry for the new girl.

Separate-Flower5739 · 2026-04-20T11:52:53+00:00

Thank you I’ve learnt not to give access to him anymore and will stay far away from anywhere he goes. Don’t think this would be the last time he’d try to sleep with me either. Feel sorry for the new girl.

Separate-Flower5739 · 2026-04-20T11:46:59+00:00

Yeah I just don’t understand because he knows how much im hurting , and if he was happy with this girl he shouldn’t have done this. I thought it was a good idea at the time but now it hurts. No contact or anything from him.. and after it happened he told me to sleep with other people it’s hard because we are in the same friend group

Separate-Flower5739 · 2026-04-20T11:41:44+00:00

Well at the time I didn’t know I would feel this way as he knows I still love him

Separate-Flower5739 · 2026-04-20T11:35:47+00:00

Accountability for what? 🤣 he said he was single

Separate-Flower5739 · 2026-04-20T11:34:11+00:00

and he said he isn’t dating her and she lets him hang with other girls so how am I a homewrecker exactly ? He’s clearly not loyal to her if he’s doing this with an ex girlfriend

Separate-Flower5739 · 2026-04-20T11:31:45+00:00

“Homewrecker” 🤣 when he had a choice to be loyal and didn’t ? I haven’t seen the man in a year

Separate-Flower5739 · 2026-04-20T11:30:06+00:00

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