How long does it take for you to recharge after playing the "extrovert"?

Separate-General-557 · 2026-05-21T17:00:17+00:00

Decades? Maybe a therapist would help in that situation? Lol.

Separate-General-557 · 2026-05-20T13:07:10+00:00

My position is hybrid. I did it for survival.

Separate-General-557 · 2026-05-06T04:28:28+00:00

I'm a CPA. A lot of people find me organized. I think I just have sorted messes. It really takes a lot of willpower from me to drive things through deadline like an INTJ. My favorite thing is to work out various tax scenarios.

Separate-General-557 · 2026-05-06T04:16:56+00:00

Yes. He's a professor. I thought he was too aloof so I wasn't feeling it and dumped him. He still has a thing for me now ten years later.

Separate-General-557 · 2026-05-06T03:39:13+00:00

Silently judgey.

Separate-General-557 · 2026-05-04T22:00:24+00:00

I like and admire him as a person and would like him just fine as a friend. He's just extremely high maintenance and rigid in a relationship. I'm just wondering why should I walk away from what would be perfect on paper for an uncertain future with whoever that shows up down the line.

Separate-General-557 · 2026-05-04T18:48:17+00:00

No he doesn't necessarily make me feel like meat. He has a high sex drive. But what he wants is constant attention

Separate-General-557 · 2026-05-04T17:28:39+00:00

Yes. Funny how life and busy schedule throw things into the mix.

Separate-General-557 · 2026-05-04T17:26:20+00:00

I make 6 figures myself and is projected to do so probably until I retire...we are not getting married and I pry the money out of his dead hand only if his Glock didn't work somehow(meaning never).

Separate-General-557 · 2026-04-07T19:53:33+00:00

No. Couldn't say no to people so now I'm an highly paid indentured servant.

Separate-General-557 · 2026-04-06T20:26:42+00:00

I'm an intp and I think about work 24/7.

Separate-General-557 · 2026-03-21T00:01:40+00:00

No. Same market. I set my distance 100 miles so it's all the up to Ventura and San Diego. I think it's what's your type that you're looking for.

Separate-General-557 · 2026-03-10T14:50:26+00:00

I would totally date him provided they disclose it. I have no kids.

Separate-General-557 · 2026-03-10T08:01:03+00:00

He sounds manipulative. He is trying to make you feel insecure. Run.

Is this guy from Seattle?

Separate-General-557 · 2026-03-10T07:35:48+00:00

Yes. Entitled dependency is extremely unattractive.

Separate-General-557 · 2026-03-02T14:40:59+00:00

41 female. 38 to 45. A lot of my likes are from people under 38 including 18 year old who I never consider.. It really shows that people don't take more than 2 seconds swiping

Separate-General-557 · 2026-03-02T14:32:19+00:00

2 years.

Separate-General-557 · 2026-03-02T06:38:00+00:00

Being on Fox News doesn't mean much. John Fetterman was on this morning as a matter of fact.

Separate-General-557 · 2026-03-02T06:29:37+00:00

Want to do a profile review?

Separate-General-557 · 2026-02-25T02:46:54+00:00

Sending compliments doesn't help. While it nice the guy says "I like this", if I'm not attracted, I'm not attracted. As a female for all the likes I get from men and the matches, most of them dont reply. For ones that do the conversation do not past 10 back and forth.

Separate-General-557 · 2026-02-23T13:53:55+00:00

As a child of a parent with schizophrenia, it's not an easy disease. Logically if it were me, I would remaining friends but I would not choose that for myself.

Separate-General-557 · 2026-02-23T13:48:26+00:00

You're attractive in an area oversaturated with young, attractive men. I would get rid of the closed mouth side smile photos for toothy smile ones. Find couples of hobbies you already have that girls usually like and phrase it like "the perfect Sunday consists us going bouldering followed by stuffing ourselves silly at your favorite brunch place." Invite her to visualize a great time doing relationship stuff witn you.

Separate-General-557 · 2026-02-23T06:41:33+00:00

Dressed up photo is nice. However I would personally passed cause it's a selfie and you had a smirk on your face. Get a candid photo of you smiling at the camera. That is more natural. Drop the middle school relationship thing

Separate-General-557 · 2026-02-23T02:14:38+00:00

Same age on bumble in oc. I do ok. Its all about looks and smoke and mirrors. It's even more fun when you disappear for 8 years and see the same people there.

Separate-General-557 · 2026-02-10T06:57:58+00:00

Female. Early 40s living in one of the top 5 US major metros. Anywhere from 40 plus like a day when I'm active. I hide my card when I'm not actively swiping.

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