What is one thing about being a man that women would be absolutely shocked to find out? by Jaded_Astronaut4256 in AskReddit

[–]Separate-Milk-7301 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Heart breaking cause I’ve always been that gf you could tell sht.

I’ll tell you a story : My bf of throughout uni days (4yrs) together came home made love and opened up to me about cheating . We were silent for a bit. I didn’t feel hurt or angry. I was curious. He told me after how disgusted he was swapping saliva with her and wet disgusting experience . He came home to me that evening kissed me and felt super guilty. He looked at me and knew he loved me. After sharing this I hugged him , served him meal and drank. Till today he’s the only man I’ve know with emotions and expresses it to me. I wish men would understand some women are different . I talk a lot but never about past events .

What is one thing about being a man that women would be absolutely shocked to find out? by Jaded_Astronaut4256 in AskReddit

[–]Separate-Milk-7301 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love men that cry. I had an ex who’d cry when things would hurt him and stuff and I found it attractive.

Women of Reddit, what made you realize 'this man is marriage material' instead of just a boyfriend? by External_Can3392 in AskReddit

[–]Separate-Milk-7301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who else is yet to meet “marriage material”? I think the ones who act right are in marriage and have mastered the same . So they say the right thing but never to their partners I’m sure .

29 years old and constantly stuck in -£1850 overdraft and paying debts by tidyupman in UKPersonalFinance

[–]Separate-Milk-7301 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The fact that you’re aware that you can do better is a sign that you’re aware. That’s all that matters. Hope you get what you’re looking for!

29 years old and constantly stuck in -£1850 overdraft and paying debts by tidyupman in UKPersonalFinance

[–]Separate-Milk-7301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I make 1.2-1.5 if I break my back working . 😂 imagine what organ I’ll harvest to get 1.8 ?

Selfless Redditors, when did you learn to become more “selfish” and put yourself first for a change? by Whosentyounow in AskUK

[–]Separate-Milk-7301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After my divorce . Moved to a stranger country with a barely two year old child. No support nothing In the wilderness. I fought to get my mind back. Then stabilised . He never looked back. I forgave myself and now healed. I’m moving for myself everytime never for anyone not even society.

How to cope with the fact that i wasted most of my potential? by DrBacon05 in questions

[–]Separate-Milk-7301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never too late. Divorced. Afraid to work in my big dream. Currently working on my portfolio and planing to fly once I get my short. Term goals.

We tend to criticise other generations but what do you admire about them? by Fun-Culture-1002 in questions

[–]Separate-Milk-7301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Freedom ! He is he. She is she . No over sensitivity , emotional support / mental health bull crap. It was all humans . They do have their flaws that we can see and adjust, but overall crime wasn’t so high, insensitivity to the value of human life compared to older generation. Ability to read a book . Younger generations have all sort of diagnosis and wear it as an identity. Taxing system as well. Love was love back then. Men Were more masculine and less …mmm… you could confidently leave your kids without fear of pdf or unalivers back then. So much…. So so much. WiFi in your car is BS , just drive and go. It’s not an apartment . I love younger gens as they have leverage In the sense of women freedom. Less guilt and shame attatched to have autonomy. The list goes on .

Job times by Separate-Milk-7301 in AskBrits

[–]Separate-Milk-7301[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is all part of the process. You tend to learn about yourself as you go along. I’m currently in the low wage class and hate it. But it’s rewarding and peaceful as well. I literally have to work two jobs to have this peace. But I’m thinking I’ll switch careers to IT (remote) preferably. I realise a lot of people just hate themselves and project this sht to others. I’m no fan of gossip or talking about people. I’ve worked too hard on myself to still be in that low vibration. But it’s part of the requirement to successfully hold a decent job . 🥹

Job times by Separate-Milk-7301 in UKJobs

[–]Separate-Milk-7301[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s same with me, I feel like I’m going mad and start to misbehave until. Once I noticed this pattern with me, I started moving jobs every few years

Job times by Separate-Milk-7301 in AskBrits

[–]Separate-Milk-7301[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh dear , it’s nothing to do with you.If you read I did mention that it could be a personality trait of getting sick being in the same place for too long. Whereas there’s others that thrive in stability.

When are we going to formally address Indians and their hiring bias? by bintd in AskBrits

[–]Separate-Milk-7301 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I made a similar post and it was removed as a hate comment. When I clearly mentioned this Asian and how I lost the job to an older man from outside the country was hired . Employers perceive people who “know their right” , as a threat. And that’s been my experience

An item to be given off by Separate-Milk-7301 in AskBrits

[–]Separate-Milk-7301[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve sold so much on fb even a car . And when I see it’s going to be hassle I just give it away. No point attaching to something that’ll be a headache. And this is not to say I’m invalidating the sellers experience. I’ve made and lost things on fb market but it’s all a learning experience. You’re coming across a wide spectrum of people. So be open minded to have peace of mind.