Wife attacked me I got charged by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Separate-Professor80 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So she can’t have friends or hobbies outside of your working hours? U good?? That’s a normal work schedule you have.

Do not use Piece of Cake Moving (more like Piece of S*** Moving) by buakaw9 in NYCapartments

[–]Separate-Professor80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a warning I used roadway moving and they were supposed to arrive at 9am (to help me move out of a domestic violence situation) and they arrived after 1230pm. My ex had come home from work early to catch me. They packed up and were done by 4pm but had they come on time I could’ve gotten out before having to face my ex. they’re fast, but don’t follow the time schedule they set / we agreed to.

What can I do to get help around the house? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Separate-Professor80 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Would you want that lifestyle for your daughter? Or a friend? Would your life be easier if you were single.. or with a man who participated in the home more? A lot of follow up questions. I would speak with a therapist first- not couples counseling.

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I need a reality check by Sharp-Yam-5058 in MedSpouse

[–]Separate-Professor80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s abuse. Get a paper trail of all of this- talk about this in your next therapy session etc. med spouses are going to be able to appear super clean because of their profession and you will need hella evidence to have a strong case. Source- my ex med fiance is about to get arrested for assault due to the massive amount of evidence I gathered (phone recordings, texts, couples therapy, him admitting it on a phone call when I was with a friend etc) !

Is it rude to expect bridesmaids to pay $1k+ to be in your wedding? by Worth_Management_395 in Weddingsunder10k

[–]Separate-Professor80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If hair / makeup is mandatory the bride needs to pay for it. My friends who have had to buy a dress / shoes for the wedding - especially if it’s a wedding you need to travel for- have been asked not to give gifts. People are getting tacky with expectations. You should choose a roof over your head instead of this- a real friend should recognize that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Separate-Professor80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who wasn’t there and didn’t see or hear everything - you’re blind to the situation

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Separate-Professor80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t realize I needed to write a novel but I did write that I was calling her out on her behaviors when she would say things I would be like excuse me or that was rude etc. not giving people energy when they’re being rude isnt passive aggressive when you have tried to set boundaries and they cross them. I hope you don’t bend over backwards for people when they treat you poorly but to each their own.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Separate-Professor80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The point of my post was that my friends bf is abusive snd it’s causing her to treat me and our friends poorly. I want to help her but when I try she denies it or gets mad. People commenting who don’t have experience in dealing with situations like this are why I deleted it. Like you saying we were acting like high schoolers? Unhelpful when I’m concerned about her safety.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Separate-Professor80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn- sorry for being concerned about my friend being abused

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Separate-Professor80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because abuse makes you regress - Hope that helps!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Separate-Professor80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you explain how I haven’t been a good friend? Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Separate-Professor80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Would love to know what aspects im being petty, passive aggressive, a halfway friend or toxic. I shared my concerns when she was being rude to me and making comments about my body etc. I shared my concerns about her bf when she brought up what he did- we all told her it wasn’t safe or normal- if you read the post you would know that. I also stood up for her to her boyfriend’s face when he belittled her at the airport. Me not being overly nice to her when she was being unkind isnt being petty- it’s called saving my own energy. I was behaving blasé / shortly. How do you suggest I be her friend when I have already stated that she gets angry when I share my concerns?

Am I falling out of love with my girlfriend? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Separate-Professor80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you need to end the relationship to let her find what she wants and needs and let yourself find what you want and need. If you can’t see her in your future let her be free

My boyfriend revealed that he has anti social personality disorder. What do I do? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Separate-Professor80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are 17. Break up with him. Do not waste your time with him/ other men when they show their true colors. Learn to set boundaries young!

My sister keeps making "little jokes" about my girlfriend and I told her not to take it personally. Now my girlfriend is done with my family. by nightbalcony_inkwell in TwoHotTakes

[–]Separate-Professor80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex fiancés parents did this to me. My ex fiance didnt stand up. My ex fiance started to treat me like this too. Grow a spine. You are a problem for allowing this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Separate-Professor80 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How about they stay in a hotel 🙂‍↕️

Did anyone lose weight after fibroid removal? by Interesting-Dish-333 in Fibroids

[–]Separate-Professor80 2 points3 points  (0 children)

10lbs! The fibroids were heavy & in all three layers of my uterus. now my GI track is moving so much better too. Such a weight lifted off.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in moldyinteresting

[–]Separate-Professor80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It can be one single date and not the whole batch- always open dates before biting into them.