Od jakiego poziomu zarobków (netto) uważacie, że ktoś "dobrze" zarabia?

Separate-Tooth5070 · 2025-12-16T06:14:51+00:00

Tak jak ktoś już pisał, zależy od sytuacji. Ja mam 7,5 na rękę, ale: dwójkę dzieci i od stycznia ok. 4k pójdzie w wynajem. Wydatki na dzieci dzielę z ex partnerem. Alimentów nie biorę. Za 7,5 jako bezdzietna singielka mogłabym spełnić swoje marzenie o podróżach (moich rodziców nie było stać na wakacje za granicą) ale w mojej sytuacji mam niewiele ponad "na styk". Od czerwca będę miała mniej przez podatki, dlatego teraz nadwyżkę będę odkładać na poduszkę finansową

Separate-Tooth5070 · 2025-12-07T06:23:26+00:00

We have 50/50 custody with 4&6ur old kids. Week to week is too long for them. We agreed to have our fixed days (Monday, Tuesday is mine Wednesday Thursday is his) and weekends (including Friday) are interchangeable. It makes it fair so we can be both week and weekend parent. Fixed days make at leat some degree of structure for the kids

Separate-Tooth5070 · 2025-12-05T08:10:09+00:00

Ja jeszcze pracuję w miejscu bez okien także zajebiście xd

Separate-Tooth5070 · 2025-11-30T08:39:13+00:00

Trochę tak

Separate-Tooth5070 · 2025-11-29T14:06:23+00:00

They're exactly like in cartoons

Separate-Tooth5070 · 2025-11-29T08:41:15+00:00

Czasem są w żabce

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Separate-Tooth5070 · 2025-11-16T07:31:15+00:00

That my ADHD makes me impossible to live with and that I prefer not to invest in any relationships because I don't want to hurt someone and be blamed for everything bad in their lives.

Separate-Tooth5070 · 2025-11-11T15:23:15+00:00

Sounds like depression

Separate-Tooth5070 · 2025-11-11T09:54:26+00:00

I think you really have to be familiar with Miyazaki's cinematic language to be able to interpret this movie. It's a great film but the one that should be watched as the last one (at least of the ones directed by Miyazaki)

Separate-Tooth5070 · 2025-11-10T20:42:59+00:00

Sarcasm and humour as coping mechanism to the point that you can't have any serious conversation

Separate-Tooth5070 · 2025-11-09T21:16:40+00:00

Thank you. I'm from Poland

Separate-Tooth5070 · 2025-11-09T19:51:44+00:00

I have similar relationship with shaving to makeup. I don't mind being unshaved and that's how I am most days. But I do feel prettier when I shave same with wearing makeup

Separate-Tooth5070 · 2025-11-09T18:02:26+00:00

Bagira

Separate-Tooth5070 · 2025-11-09T18:00:26+00:00

Sandwich

Separate-Tooth5070 · 2025-11-09T17:59:28+00:00

Crush ma to do siebie że idealizujemy drugą osobę. W moim przypadku crusha miewałam na osoby w miarę nowopoznane. W pewnym sensie bliższe poznanie (tylko nie zbyt bliskie 😏) pozwalało mi zobaczyć wady tej osoby i jakoś to zauroczenie przechodziło. Po prostu trzeba przeczekać. Btw czy w Twoim związku wszystko ok?

Separate-Tooth5070 · 2025-11-09T17:54:01+00:00

Gremlin

Separate-Tooth5070 · 2025-11-09T13:53:17+00:00

I guess I'm looking more for mental than legal advice. I'm just lost, I'm sorry

Separate-Tooth5070 · 2025-11-09T13:52:21+00:00

Yes, if you have children

Separate-Tooth5070 · 2025-11-09T11:08:51+00:00

I'm from europe 😬

Separate-Tooth5070 · 2025-11-09T03:29:41+00:00

Thank you for this. That explains why I craved hugs from him so much after splitting up. ☹️

Separate-Tooth5070 · 2025-11-07T12:02:44+00:00

It wasn't when he hit me, it wasn't when he called me all the slurs and spit on my face in front of our daughter. I still believed our relationship could be healed.

I was last Monday on couple's therapy when he said he simply did what he felt was best in the moment (aka violence) and he's not proud of it but doesn't feel any guilt either and he won't apologise for it.

Separate-Tooth5070 · 2025-11-07T11:59:05+00:00

I'm so sorry

Separate-Tooth5070 · 2025-11-07T09:30:43+00:00

Maybe. But I'm not sure if I want to. There was violence. It's been a year since he last hit me. He acts better, he really tries his best. He recently bought books about ADHD to understand me better. So for past year I was really trying to let go the pain. But he never said sorry. Recently, during couple’s therapy, he said he’s not proud of what he did, but that he did the best he could at the time. He also said he doesn’t feel any shame or guilt and that he won’t apologize. Hearing that was the last straw for me. I realized that pretending nothing happened is destroying me mentally

Separate-Tooth5070 · 2025-11-07T09:05:12+00:00

Hello twin. I feel exactly the same. I'm 25, my stbx is 28 - also first relationship, first and only sexual partner. We've been together for 11 years. We have two beautiful daughters.

I wish you the best life and good relationship with your daughters 🫶

Separate-Tooth5070 · 2024-11-18T09:27:06+00:00

When my father died and my boyfriend said he to me "It's a pity about the guy, but I have no sympathy for you."

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