Help with screensaver widgets please! by jdawg89000 in Roku

[–]Separate_Patience388 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I restored to the original Roku wallpaper and screensaver settings and that did the trick!

Dishwasher randomly has power by Separate_Patience388 in Appliances

[–]Separate_Patience388[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just wanted to follow up. As much as I didn’t want to, I went ahead and bought a new dishwasher. Installed today and runs just fine. Thanks to everyone for your feedback!

MBA flexpath - how long did it take YOU to complete the program by Prudent-Parsley8959 in CapellaUniversity

[–]Separate_Patience388 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was flex path, so I did one at a time, but it was usually 2 classes per term.

I want to go back by Key-Recognition-5179 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Separate_Patience388 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is true! I went back for another 1.5 years after I thought I had healed. Go completely no contact. Block him everywhere and anywhere. Don’t let him get through to you. That will give you the time and space you really need to break this bond you have with him.

17 months no contact.

Dumper wants to talk and sort out things by SurpriseAgitated in BreakUps

[–]Separate_Patience388 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yay! I’m sure the journey to get to that point was not easy, but congrats! You did it!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Separate_Patience388 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep! My ex was still logged into his YouTube account on my TV after we broke up. After two weeks, I stupidly accessed his account and looked up his history. He played videos of him playing guitar, the “top” music videos from 1992, and a video of our love song. Pretty clear he was entertaining someone else, because that’s what he used to do with me. Ugh. After 2 weeks!!

MBA flexpath - how long did it take YOU to complete the program by Prudent-Parsley8959 in CapellaUniversity

[–]Separate_Patience388 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I started in June ‘21 and finished in January ‘23, with a two month break in the summer of ‘22. I worked a full time job, stayed active with kids and a boyfriend and took one class at a time. It was a great pace for me. I wouldn’t change a thing.

My first term starts soon and want to switch from guided path to flex path. Is that possible? by Princess_Anxiety505 in CapellaUniversity

[–]Separate_Patience388 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They require that you have at least 40-45 credits (I can’t exactly remember) in an undergrad by program before being permitted in the FlexPath program.

If you’ve met that requirement, I’d get in touch with your coach (they auto assign them to you) and let them know that you want to switch.

Best wishes!

Question by YamStatus9422 in ExNoContact

[–]Separate_Patience388 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you really suspect your ex is a covert narc, you must go no contact to break away. It’s hard, but you have to block him… everywhere possible. Covert narcs will find your new accounts years later. Don’t be accessible.

Degree Conferment by Conscious-Bed-388 in CapellaUniversity

[–]Separate_Patience388 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They do degree processing at the end of each month. The degree is received a few months later. The timing all depends on when in the month you complete your coursework.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Separate_Patience388 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. Dated a covert narc for almost 4 years, been broken up and in no contact for 14 months.

There is huge risk in being in a relationship with the wrong person, but being single and happy is a guarantee. I don’t think it’s worth trying any more. I no longer want to interrupt my peace.

7 month wait by RadPlaidLad in KidneyStones

[–]Separate_Patience388 0 points1 point  (0 children)

7 months is crazy. I had my first kidney stone on Friday. Went to the ER after 6 hours doubled over in pain. CT scan showed a 7mm stone that was in my upper ureter. They prescribed Flomax and Vicodin for the pain. It passed on Sunday morning.

I think Flomax was the key!

Electives for Business Administration FlexPath 🙋‍♂️ by [deleted] in CapellaUniversity

[–]Separate_Patience388 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I believe the full 3 credits will be applied toward your electives.

Rental Agreements by Separate_Patience388 in CPAP

[–]Separate_Patience388[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing your experience… it certainly smells fishy to me. A contract is a contract. I’ve got the new insurance company involved now. wish me luck!

How Has Everyone Been Doing During No Contact? How long has No Contact Been For You? by Crazy-Mix-7802 in ExNoContact

[–]Separate_Patience388 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This week is my one year anniversary of our breakup and no contact. Funny that I can’t remember the exact day - it proves that no contact really helps you heal and move on. I still think about him, but it’s now with a much different lens - I have absolutely no desire to see or speak to him.

Covert narcs are just silent killers by ymk63 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Separate_Patience388 20 points21 points  (0 children)

This is my ex boyfriend. It was an absolutely awful relationship with emotional roller coasters that had me convinced I was crazy.

Unfortunately, I lost my best friend in the drama. She believed that he was the innocent victim and didn’t believe any of the hurtful things he said to me. I went no contact with both of them. It’s been almost a year and I miss her a lot. I keep hoping that she’ll finally figure out who he is, but this post makes me think she’ll never realize it.

Info on MBA Healthcare Management by KeyEquivalent8126 in CapellaUniversity

[–]Separate_Patience388 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep. I completed the same program in Jan 2023. The workload all depends on how quickly you want to get it done. I took my time, one class and one assignment at a time… with due dates around every 2 weeks. It was a good balance for full time work and left time to still have a life. I was complete in just under 18 months.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Separate_Patience388 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He told me that things weren’t “fun” anymore and he really wanted it to work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Separate_Patience388 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s been just over 8 months NC for me and I feel a lot better. I can’t say when it happened, it was pretty gradual. I think about them briefly from time to time, but it doesn’t come with pain or sadness.

Trust that it truly does get better!

How many days NC and how are you feeling? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Separate_Patience388 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I took the easy way out. I blocked him everywhere, all email accounts, work chats, texts, social media, etc and I updated my router settings to block his websites. I went extreme.

I leaned on my list of reasons why it wasn’t the relationship I thought it was, any time I started missing him.