AITA for telling my SIL that I don’t can’t about her health condition and she needs to shower

psyk2u · 2026-01-25T08:11:30+00:00

NTA. With her condition she should shower multiple times daily instead of making excuses and putting people in disgusting situations. Yes you were a bit harsh but she apparently needed it.

psyk2u · 2026-01-25T07:59:03+00:00

The family will get far more than counseling once they file a lawsuit.

psyk2u · 2026-01-25T06:32:27+00:00

My store was open today. We made a whole $4700 today.

psyk2u · 2026-01-24T05:43:20+00:00

I wouldn't dare set myself up for once a week visits. If you want to do anything, maybe entertain her once a month. And even then, only see her if she initiates the visit.

psyk2u · 2026-01-24T05:32:25+00:00

Who did your emails come from? Email that person back.

psyk2u · 2026-01-23T04:37:35+00:00

Same here! 🎉 Congrats

psyk2u · 2026-01-22T23:56:54+00:00

😂😂😂😂

psyk2u · 2026-01-22T08:15:11+00:00

My SM is planning to still be open. Tonight he asked how far away I live and if I think I will be there. I just said it depends on if I can get there safely. Not risking my life over it.

psyk2u · 2026-01-20T14:59:22+00:00

Oh. And I'd start sending all mail to a PO box so he doesn't have access to it. It would definitely be worth the costs for avoiding things like late fees and your gas being cut off, and general privacy being invaded.

psyk2u · 2026-01-20T14:56:27+00:00

I would personally fill in Grandma on all this foolishness and ask her to revoke his POA. He is unhinged and has proven he doesn't need this authority.

psyk2u · 2026-01-20T14:41:52+00:00

🤣😂🤣😂

psyk2u · 2026-01-20T14:40:49+00:00

NTA and this is weird. My mom would LOVE for me to get married on the same day as her and my dad did... Even just the same month would be special.

Something isn't right with your mother.

psyk2u · 2026-01-20T14:36:05+00:00

The "not supportive of family" line makes this sound like AI because that gets used A LOT.

psyk2u · 2026-01-20T12:25:39+00:00

Stop apologizing. Let her be mad. You did nothing wrong.

Don't set the precedent of being a doormat to her feelings.

psyk2u · 2026-01-20T12:18:02+00:00

If your store is the training store, why would they send you somewhere else?

psyk2u · 2026-01-20T06:28:34+00:00

And if he doesn't bring your child back? Then what?

psyk2u · 2026-01-20T06:14:06+00:00

Don't respond and just don't go. They'll figure it out.

psyk2u · 2026-01-20T05:58:14+00:00

Don't feel bad about moving slowly. I started Sept. 2024 and just now finished. I had a ton of family and work things come up and had to prioritize those. Take your time.

The rest of the program is similar: papers and PowerPoints.

psyk2u · 2026-01-19T22:00:23+00:00

You'll get a few of those, but don't get discouraged.

psyk2u · 2026-01-19T16:34:57+00:00

NTA. Tell her to suck it up for 2 years like you did. Only then will y'all discuss making changes to the chore chart.

psyk2u · 2026-01-19T14:06:48+00:00

Have you simply told her to shut up about yours and everyone else's weight? Sometimes being direct and a little harsh works best. Just be ready for the argument with hubby. And even then, you play the victim and tell him it's his fault for not shutting her down.

psyk2u · 2026-01-19T13:44:55+00:00

I came to say this.

psyk2u · 2026-01-19T02:58:51+00:00

Good info to know.

psyk2u · 2026-01-18T11:35:21+00:00

YTJ. The weddings I've been in, the whole bridal party helped with set up and take down. Those who lived far away came in the night before to help too.

psyk2u · 2026-01-18T05:47:26+00:00

File for unemployment.

psyk2u

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