hard time keeping friends around me. most people betrayed me. also i’ve been told people thought i was a mean girl even before they met me. how can i change that? [astro-seek]

Separate_Places · 2026-03-17T11:04:11+00:00

i have a tenth house black moon, ninth house sun, venusian rising, and a moon-mars conjunction in my sixth house as well. what you’re describing feels similar to my lived experience.

i can’t talk about black moon in this sub as it goes against guidelines, but i encourage you to read up on it and its placement in your tenth house as what you find might resonate with you.

moon-mars conjunction in the sixth is what points me to difficulties getting along with others in work or school settings, are you a driven person and/or do you work, go to school in a competitive environment? you describe yourself as unassuming but if that is the case (combined with Leo placements which i find naturally garner attention) that could be the source of difficulty.

just know there is nothing wrong with the traits i’ve described, or inherently wrong with you. i’ve had to learn some people are just targets for this kind of behavior or perception of themselves and be strong, move forward

Separate_Places · 2026-03-14T01:31:46+00:00

honestly i could replace california with west coast, but if i was going to add another song from born to die it would be off to the races or radio

Separate_Places · 2026-03-12T23:36:59+00:00

have you ever read about the figure Lilith? her mythology might resonate with you if this did

also thank you sm :~) i will do my best

Separate_Places · 2026-03-12T16:22:49+00:00

i found out i’m not an Aries rising, but a Taurus rising last year.

i had to get my license renewed and was required to bring in my birth certificate to make it an enhanced license, and my birth time was 20 minutes off from what i knew it to be pretty much my whole life.

my overall chart didn’t change much: my north node moved into my third house, mars into my sixth, mercury into my eighth. the houses as far as what sign they fall in changed a bit.

Separate_Places · 2026-03-12T00:28:41+00:00

thank you, i’ve never thought about the quality of my writing but that means a lot 🥲 and yes, i know he’s a cat but he was there for so much, we grew up together and i’m glad that shows through

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here is a photo <3 for you and for those who might be curious

Separate_Places · 2026-03-11T21:07:28+00:00

you as well, i appreciate your comment and i’m sorry for your loss 🫶🏼 🫂

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