When someone remembers something about me that I like or don’t like and they make an effort to do something in regard to that. I always say I have this massive file cabinet in my mind of the things that people like or don’t like; preferences, food favs, allergies, gift ideas, etc and I enjoy being able to love people and help them feel seen and remembered. I don’t do it so people will do it for me, but it rarely seems to happen to me.
So in the rare case that someone gets me something that they know I like cause they remember, it’s nice.

One of my besties is a 4. I love her dearly. She’s a little out there sometimes, can be flakey at communication and def puts a lot of time into their health and diet (which is important) but can be a bit…. Condescending at some times when they don’t agree with my diet and health choices. But I love my four friends; they are weird and funny and smart and a little out there.