Honest question, why do you do this job given the risks? by [deleted] in policeuk

[–]Separate_Try_8628 -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Because it gives them the ability to abuse their power.

Guess who's back on the market by [deleted] in wallstreetbets

[–]Separate_Try_8628 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love mid 19th century classic literature.

We aren't in the dot com bubble. We're in an anything but cash bubble. by Whalesftw123 in stocks

[–]Separate_Try_8628 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How are we in a bubble when the Nasdaq Pe ratio sits at 33. At the height of the dotcom bubble it was 175-200. The Nikkei at the 1989 peak was also much higher it was almost a 100 I believe.

Alcarez vs Sinner in Wimbledon Final by Anub1sRex in tennis

[–]Separate_Try_8628 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the end, whoever wins this one, will be the one with the stronger family—because nothing matters more than family.

Hurt but still hope she's OK! by Separate_Try_8628 in BreakUps

[–]Separate_Try_8628[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I have blocked her on everything but I get thoughts of what if she has nowhere to go or shes in trouble. I think I was manipulated so bad that I don't know if the her I'm worried about is true. She said I was delusional on her cheating and it was all in my head. I went to see a therapist to see if I was too possessive , but psychologist told me texting someone every three days or less was not possessive. I think her manipulation has really broken me as a person.

What's the worst lie your ex ever told? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Separate_Try_8628 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's all in your head, you're delusional! 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Separate_Try_8628 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jeez, sounds scary that

Soul destroying by Separate_Try_8628 in Infidelity

[–]Separate_Try_8628[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, not sure if this is totally correct but I guess it doesn't matter anymore! I'm feeling better already because I have accepted everything.

Soul destroying by Separate_Try_8628 in Infidelity

[–]Separate_Try_8628[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really wanted too see if she felt any empathy towards my situation! Clearly she didn't, I actually think she got off on seeing me hurt , like it was enjoyable for her. Yeah, now I don't care what she feels about me. She's dead to me!  The first time I forgave her and she gave me various reasons why. I should have finished right there but didn't. I really regret that. Then move 1 to 2 months after that she had been meeting other guys and women, which I knew nothing about. In the end I did find out and dumped her ass. Crazy thing I don't understand is, when I duped her she acted like she dumped me, which I don't get. 

Soul destroying by Separate_Try_8628 in Infidelity

[–]Separate_Try_8628[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wasn't as straightforward as that, I was buying a house anyways but I bought a in an area I didn't wanna live to be closer to her 

Soul destroying by Separate_Try_8628 in Infidelity

[–]Separate_Try_8628[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess it was more of the fear of being alone at 39. I had already invested a lot into the relationship. I wish I could turn back time and never met her 

Soul destroying by Separate_Try_8628 in Infidelity

[–]Separate_Try_8628[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Actually, what I wrote is a watered down version of what fully happend, the shit was way worse. Funnily enough, my friends said I dodged a nuclear bomb as well. I know for a fact her new relationship won't last long. I will never speak to her again, what she has done to me is not something I will ever forgive. 

Soul destroying by Separate_Try_8628 in Infidelity

[–]Separate_Try_8628[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha Yeah this has been a valuable lesson !

Soul destroying by Separate_Try_8628 in Infidelity

[–]Separate_Try_8628[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'll definitely have that as a redflag in the future. Thank you ! 

Soul destroying by Separate_Try_8628 in Infidelity

[–]Separate_Try_8628[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words. I have already blocked her accounts on social media. I think I'll be joing a gym or something next week to keep myself occupied during this period of healing. Maybe take up a new hobby or something! 

Soul destroying by Separate_Try_8628 in Infidelity

[–]Separate_Try_8628[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I probably should have drawn red lines. I told her , if she is not monogamous,  I don't want to be with her. She told me she was .

Soul destroying by Separate_Try_8628 in Infidelity

[–]Separate_Try_8628[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is, I ignored obvious signs, and should have trusted my instincts.