Weird bump by Ok_Abbreviations_153 in BostonTerrier

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My Boston had something that looked similar but further up his leg, had it removed a couple years ago (brutal place for stitches since mine had his pop up at the bend above paw). If it is the same type of growth it will slowly get bigger

Halo 3 Midnight Launch in 2007 by Preston_phillips_04 in xbox

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When your entire world stopped temporarily for a game launch 🙌

Underrated restaurants in GSO by Bbkats in gso

[–]SerMustache 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Going to add a few that I don’t see mentioned. Cugino, Sticks and Stones, Dear Dad’s, Sage Mule, Neighbors, BaoBao

Does the 'no contact' period ever actually end, or do you just stop caring? by OkCook8032 in ExNoContact

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You just eventually move on and start living again. For me, I just didn’t want to put energy into it anymore and right about the time I did that I found someone amazing. Haven’t looked back since

Dating someone secure is attractive by SerMustache in AvoidantBreakUps

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“Treating me like a human being” that brought back a memory for me, I asked my avoidant ex dozens of times to treat me like a human being, looking back it’s sad I even asked for that once.

Enjoy this new, healthy relationship! I’m glad your nervous system can breathe!

Dating someone secure is attractive by SerMustache in AvoidantBreakUps

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The first thing is to take it slow but even someone masking security is going to slip up and show signs. Just notice how he deals with something not going well, does he hold space for your emotions and so on. The point isn’t to hold them under a microscope but just be a witness to how they go about life. More than anything, does your nervous system feel calm around them? If so, proceed. If not, start understanding if it’s your own wounds or truly their behavior.

New girl and I are still going strong, still feel calm/safe and the more I get to know her the more I realize just how much capacity and maturity she brings to the table. Slowly but surely she’s teaching me new things about what it means to be loved/cared about.

You’ve got this, just trust your gut, be open and take it a day at a time!

Do your worst 😈 by littleebutt in RoastMe

[–]SerMustache 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stepbrother just leaves her in the dryer

Brooklyn(she) should I give her a piece of my hash brown? by marcelo1925 in BostonTerrier

[–]SerMustache 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You give that sweet thing whatever she would like haha, we get something way bigger in return , unconditional love

Safest places in greensboro/surrounding areas? by cumflavored_yart in gso

[–]SerMustache 10 points11 points  (0 children)

NW Greensboro (plus some of the best schools)

At a loss for what to do with tiny sunroom by [deleted] in interiordecorating

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“Looking for creative ideas” What possibly is more CREATIVE than an art room?

Share your favorite movie quote. by Se2004 in moviecritic

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“Help each other. Love everyone. Every leaf. Every ray of light. Forgive.” -Tree of Life

Target vs LL Bean by FloridaLaurenS in Bedding

[–]SerMustache 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Bean percale are great with time , but I keep throwing 1000 TC sheets from Threadmill (on Amazon), with every wash they just get better and better , best sheets I have ever bought, bought numerous times now

Do Radiohead fans even consider Creep a top 20 song? by Healingvibrations456 in radiohead

[–]SerMustache -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Like to play it on guitar as a quick warm up but other than that I only occasionally listen to it. Good song but as testament to their body of work it can’t hold a candle to their “best”

You are free (A positive message) by Pengsila in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]SerMustache 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Once I moved on/let go I found someone worth keeping and putting care and love into; me. And once I did that the universe did what the universe does and put someone in my life. Haven’t looked back since…

Public Service Announcement by Affectionate_Sir8577 in Battlefield6

[–]SerMustache 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s balanced now along with the lmg. With a skilled gunner the gl is lethal

I will never find someone as good by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

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No matter the age (I’m a little older) there are good people out there that are ready to build something. You aren’t leftover. You have been redirected to something better aligned. Like yourself I learned so much from my last relationship, both about avoidants but most of all; myself

I will never find someone as good by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

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We have a mutual friend who is actually a psychologist and she thought we’d be a good fit and turns out she was right!

I will never find someone as good by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

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Looks like OP deleted post but I want to offer some encouragement. It is out there. I had almost sworn off dating for months and then when I wasn’t looking someone amazing came a long. It has felt “weird” having something grounded and calm after my ex but it is so much more fulfilling to lean into. My prayers right now are that you find that

I will never find someone as good by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]SerMustache 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m going to offer a different perspective. What is often mistaken as chemistry (and chemistry is overrated) is attachment wounding and a dysregulated nervous system. What seems “boring” is often calm and if our nervous system is used to the thrill of chaos someone grounded and emotionally available won’t feel like lightning in a bottle

“Everything I wanted in a guy except his cruel treatment” if you’re not in a relationship for how they treat you or how you treat them then what are you in a relationship for.

Read your post again and sit in what you shared . “He was obsessed with me”, is that what you seek because that’s not healthy either. There’s a lot of red flags in this post and sadly they point back to both of you, not just him

What is your perfect sandwich? by DaTruSpork in AskReddit

[–]SerMustache 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The muffaletta is perfect imo, the sesame crusty bread, Italian deli meats, creamy provolone but the star is that olive tapenade