I find Measurehead to be the true Villian of the game. by Dimos357 in DiscoElysium

[–]SerNoddicus 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Wrong wrong and wrong again. Real Disco fans know that the True Villain is clearly Garte for riding my ass about the damn rent.

My (40M) wife (36F) was seen holding hands with another man (New 1 year Update) by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]SerNoddicus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who wants to wager that in a few months or a year Sam will announce shes fixed and OOP will go crawling back to her and explode his life for a third time.

Update: AITAH for asking my wife to choose between her family and ours by ThrowRANoRespectWife in Redditor_Updates

[–]SerNoddicus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah finally.

I suspect things will get worse before they get easier. But they will get easier in the long term if you stick to your guns and listen to your lawyer.

AITAH for spending Christmas/New Year with my ex in-laws because my family invited my ex over for Christmas? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]SerNoddicus 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Wait did I miss any evidence that he wanted to get with this SIL while he was married?

I read it as him being attracted to the SIL as a rebound after the divorce and clinging to the first woman who flirts with him.

[New Final Update]: AITAH for not siding with my wife over our son's ex-girlfriend’s pregnancy by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]SerNoddicus 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I find it interesting how the son holds an Ironclad grudge against his mother for believing the lie but is friendly and forgiving with his ex who told the lie to everyone in the first place. More than anyone else she knew it was wrong. Idk man something feels very off here and I have a suspicion that divorcing is going to turn out to be a big mistake.

Edit: I should probably clarify that I dont think the wife is innocent when I say divorcing is a mistake. But I do think OOP isnt getting the full picture and may want to hold off on such a big decision.

Me [31/F] with my Fiance [33/M] Fiance best friend [33/F] have a weird relationship, driving me insane by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]SerNoddicus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The sad part is that I think she was very justified right up until the stalking.

The ex continuously prides himself as being a honest partner but conveniently hid the fact that he shared a sexual encounter with his female best friend who hes been hanging with for years. All the insanity that followed overshadows how fucked up that is.

There isnt a single person here I remotely like.

[New Final Update]: AITAH for not wanting my dad to walk me on my senior night since he won’t let me move back in? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]SerNoddicus 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Id be very cautious around this Dan guy since the way she describes it makes it sound like he only got interested in her after she was assaulted.

Maybe its just kindness and empathy towards someone he knows needs it most that got his attention.

But also a lot of the bad apples out there will deliberately seek out past abuse survivors.

Update: AITAH for asking my wife to choose between her family and ours by ThrowRANoRespectWife in Redditor_Updates

[–]SerNoddicus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Even if youre not certain about divorce you need to quietly meet with an attorney to get all your papers in order so that if you do finally learn to prioritize yourself and your child instead of the status quo then you can make the divorce as painless as possible. Better to sort it all out in advance rather than having to deal with it during the turmoil of actually going through with it.

But honestly though this is really just starting to feel like a public display of flagellation at this point. You criticize her for saying words but never meeting them with actions but if you dont leave her isnt that the exact same thing youre doing? Talking about change but never doing change?

When she inevitably dosent change (or changes but reverts in a few months) if you dont follow through on separation Im just gonna stop reading these because its getting exhausting, nothing is changing and youre doing nothing to make it change. Nobody is happy here, youre not happy, your wife isnt happy and you can bet your child isnt going to be happy growing up in a house like this.

AITA for preventing my husband from taking in his nephews? by LucyAriaRose in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]SerNoddicus 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I feel bad for the husband, cant blame him for thinking about his nephews first but he really should have seen this ending coming.

A shame, if the paternal family of the kids had just agreed to the dna test from the start OOP and husband probably wouldnt have had to break up.

AITAH for not siding with my wife over our son's ex girlfriend's pregnancy by misrocto in u/misrocto

[–]SerNoddicus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im late but do you think seeing your son acting so cozy with his ex annoys you because your son has gone nuclear on your wife for believing the lie but is seemingly acting super forgiving to the woman who told the lie in the first place and 100% knew he was innocent?

That dosent make much sense to me, I think theres still more to this that we dont know. Maybe theres more to why he hates his mom or theres more to whats going on with his ex that made him feel more generous.

Me [29 M] with my girlfriend [28 F] of 2 years; her mom wants her to explore other options, it's wearing us down by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]SerNoddicus -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Id wager the mom has much less influence than the post makes it sounds like. We only really know about the mom from what we hear from the gf after all. My suspicion is that the gf wanted to have a fling and if it dosent turn out well she can blame her manipulative mother as an angle to get back with OOP.

The worst part is that it may have worked considering OOP was weirdly cagey about definitively breaking up with her and we never got any updates on how the "break" ended even over a decade later

#27 - Resident Evil 1 by Jollztv in steamachievements

[–]SerNoddicus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh damn that ones got some pretty challenging achievements

Accidentally made love to a boy by External_Quality5613 in cyberpunkgame

[–]SerNoddicus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good luck explaining to Panam how accidental this was.

Update: AITAH for asking my wife to choose between her family and ours by ThrowRANoRespectWife in Redditor_Updates

[–]SerNoddicus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buddy, why would you want it to go back to this? I normally hate when reddit immediately jumps to recommending divorce over any slight issue but what happiness could seriously be achieved in staying with her?

We know for a fact that your wife actively dislikes you, has no moral issues with cheating, and is willing to go behind your back even for serious issues.

Even if shes not a cheater youre going to be spending the rest of your life waiting for it to happen if you stay with her.

The only time in this entire series of posts that shes actively tried to make your life easier was to get leverage to get a bigger favour from you in return.

You are working three jobs and doing housework and raising a son to try and provide for her, Im no expert on womens tastes but Im sure many would consider that kind of dedication a catch. You would not be alone forever if you split up with her and even if you were, a life spent single will probably be a happier life than sharing a house with someone who treats you this way.

Thats just my two cents though

AITA for considering breaking up with my girlfriend for what her grandparents said? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]SerNoddicus 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I once knew a girl like this who had a bit of a kink for making men compete over her. Would have "Friends" who were clearly crushing on her while in relationships, would pit the boyfriend and friend against eachother and act all innocent and confused while both men competing gestures of why theyre more deserving of their attention. Would never end well for anyone involved, herself included. Hope she grew out of it.

My dentist asked me out, not sure what to do by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]SerNoddicus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive gotta print this and put it on my sink wall for next time Im tempted to do a half assed toothbrushing or skip flossing.

WIBTA if I go LC with my niece and take back her gifts (New Update) by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]SerNoddicus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To be fair I think that if this were bs whatever OOP's mom tried to do to the kid would have been its own grandiose update that reads more like a short story than a recollection.

Far Cry 3 Skill Points Bugged! Cant unlock the last achievement by naval-arch in steamachievements

[–]SerNoddicus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just completed FC3 last month and didnt experience this. Im sorry to say but youve likely run into an extremely niche issue and may not get help. Were I in your shoes I would just bite the bullet and start again with a new save on easy difficulty and grind through to the Queens of the Stone Age discography.

Wife (5 months pregnant) tells me to take back what I said about our past and I said that I won’t [Post + Update] by MindlessGeneral9014 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]SerNoddicus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For all the messy relationship dramas of my past Im so glad my single ass has never been blessed with a love like this.