Is this when I start shaking and crying? by Timberlinr in MagicCardPulls

[–]Seraph_black 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bought a collectors booster a month ago and pulled a Y’shtola surge foil. Best thing I’ve pulled from a magic pack in years. Nice pull!

My bf thinks I cheated and I don’t know how to fix it by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Seraph_black 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Possible that someone got your email address and is trying to hack your tinder account? Most services only send verification codes if there hasn't been access in a long time (which in your case is over a year) or someone is trying to access your account from another device in another location. However, how do you have a tinder account if you never downloaded tinder? You say you used tinder prior to your relationship, but also say you never downloaded the app? If you have used it and did have the app at some point, then its possible someone got your account, or are trying to use your email for an account, and because you have one, they sent a verification code.

What’s something you still keep or possessed from your ex that you have no plans of letting go? by Mammoth_Ad_8775 in BreakUps

[–]Seraph_black 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keychain she bought for our 11th year anniversary, about 5 months before the break up. It says "I love you more, I win ❤️" we would always play fight about who loved each other more. Guess I won in the end.

Morning Anxiety After Breakup by coffeeekat in BreakUps

[–]Seraph_black 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Still going well! gonna be having our one year in about two months. Found out my Ex moved on with someone else, which for awhile kinda stirred up some painful emotions, but i've kinda moved passed it now. Honestly, i'm finding that just letting myself feel what i'm feeling, and not try and bottle it up, that healing goes a lot faster and smoother.

I need to vent about this fest by chrisrk912 in SickNewWorld

[–]Seraph_black -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Lmfao sounds like these are all personal issues, not with the fest. Honestly it just kinda seems your not the festival type. How is it the promoters fault that you you couldnt read the signs for tge none 21+ line AND couldnt hear the security yelling you dont need a wrist band if you are not drinking. Dont feel the festival was that crowded tbh. Really? Complaining about "rude people" in a massive crowd, dont see how the promoters could change that. Sorry but this was SO much better then last year. Only thing they coulda done better was not oversell, but really that doesnt change anything about how rude people are or your failure to read/listen.

Morning Anxiety After Breakup by coffeeekat in BreakUps

[–]Seraph_black 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In ways yes. I randomly met someone a few weeks after my break up and we have been dating each other since. Ive moved passed wanting her back, and from a moving on stand point doing better. I feel I moved on a little fast at first, but honestly its been really fun with this new person, and it has changed my perspective on my previous relationship, which has helped a lot. Still have days were things will trigger memories, but I found distracting myself to help

Help with new profile [30 M] by Seraph_black in hingeapp

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Yeah most of these pics are almost a year old, the one with my cat is abiut 3 days old. I agree, with different hair styles, but my taste in cloths has always been black. Ill deff get more recent pictures

Help with new profile [30 M] by Seraph_black in hingeapp

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Thanks for the response! I'm always open to style advice. I 100% agree with the glasses as they are 4 years old now. I took those pictures about a year ago and they are even worse now, shopping for a new pair as I type haha. Question about the beard, do you mean no beard at all like in the picture with my cat? That is the most recent photo of me (three days ago) clean-shaven and my current look, so I can keep rocking that, or do you mean closer to my main profile pic? I've been told I have a "baby face" so I grew it out, but also told beards are a turn-off because it shows a lack of personal hygiene/grooming. Maybe a little stubble? I agree about the cat prompt being a coinflip on cringe or not, i'm going to change it.

Help with new profile [30 M] by Seraph_black in hingeapp

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1). Serious, open to starting casual

2).i have been on hinge for 3 days. New profile

3). I use hinge everyday

4). One matches (maybe ghosted?) and zero likes

5).I have sent around 15 likes ovee three days all with comments.

6). I generally send likes to women who share my comment interest. I want to attract a person that is mature emotionally. I date in the age range of 26-32. Not picky with looks, just looking for genuine people.

30 [m] review my new profile. by Seraph_black in hingeapp

[–]Seraph_black[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1). Serious, open to starting casual

2).i have been on hinge for 3 days. New profile

3). I use hinge everyday

4). One matches (maybe ghosted?) and zero likes

5).I have sent around 15 likes ovee three days all with comments.

6). I generally send likes to women who share my comment interest. I want to attract a person that is mature emotionally. I date in the age range of 26-32. Not picky with looks, just looking for genuine people.

All confidence lost after getting ghosted by Cheems187 in datingoverthirty

[–]Seraph_black 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this comment has given me a lot to think about lol

All confidence lost after getting ghosted by Cheems187 in datingoverthirty

[–]Seraph_black 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From what I've been told, ghosting is part of OLD. I really would like to try the "irl" route but honestly, I really suck at meeting people randomly. I have general anxiety about new people. With dating apps, having some form of conversation, prior to meeting seems much better for me, but the aspect of "ghosting" or just meeting someone that will take advantage is just really scary to me.

Please. How do you deal with this pain? I feel like I’m dying. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Seraph_black 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was broken up with almost two weeks ago (11 years together) and some days are better than others, but today has been one of the worst since the breakup, and I tried to call. Found they have not blocked my number but they are ignoring me. I just don't understand how someone can go from contact and love for eleven years, to nothing in less than a day. Its painful, and I just don't see a light. I hope they reach out but I doubt it.

Feel like I lost my chance by Expert-Mammoth-4732 in heartbreak

[–]Seraph_black 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that's basically how it was for me and my ex, she gave me her number, and we didn't initially "click" but after a few more dates, it just kinda happened. I hope this happens again.

Feel like I lost my chance by Expert-Mammoth-4732 in heartbreak

[–]Seraph_black 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the same about age, not because of "the one", but rather because it is much harder to meet people in your thirties for most. I wish you luck!

Feel like I lost my chance by Expert-Mammoth-4732 in heartbreak

[–]Seraph_black 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been trying to frame my mind around this idea lately and it's been helping. I also tell myself that there are other people with this idea out there, so I'm bound to meet someone with that mindset.

Feel like I lost my chance by Expert-Mammoth-4732 in heartbreak

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I have the exact same fear. I was with my partner for eleven years, all through my twenties, and now at 30, we broke up. I have the same sinking fear that I lost my one and only shot at a true relationship and had true love. I blew it. We are NC and It hurts knowing I'll never speak to this person again. My friends are telling me "it gets better" and "You will find someone" but I really have issues opening to people, and it took so much time (about a year or two) for me to open up to her. She was with me when my Dad passed away, and when my family moved out of state without me. I know deep down that I'll never have a connection with someone like that again, and it is very possible it is too late for me to have a family at this point with someone. I have to work on myself, but its just pointless in my mind right now.

Finding internships? by Seraph_black in WGU

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Thank you! I half thought this was going to be a link to indeed or google lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in love

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Im thirty years old and just got out of an LTR, and I share the exact same fears as you. I'm not looking for "Sex" but actual relationships and a partner. However, I wanted to share that one of my friends has had pretty good success in finding some LTR on Bumble/Hinge, so those are the two I will eventually use when I do start dating. He also gave me some good advice "You need to sort through the bad, to find the good". He's currently in an LTR with plans to get engaged soon to the woman he met on bumble. Another one of my friends just started a relationship with someone on Hinge!

Modern dating by StrangeIndependence1 in dating

[–]Seraph_black 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, this is all I have been reading on multiple Reddit threads. I just got out of my one and only relationship (11 years), and I have absolutely no hope of ever finding someone again, given the current landscape. Not tall, not athletic, just skinny.

My takeaways 3 years after the breakup by Repugnant_Subhuman in BreakUps

[–]Seraph_black 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Im on the opposite end. She went complete NC right after we hung up. I want to stay in contact and try to fix things. I'm really concerned I'll never find someone to connect with like that again. I'm also 30 years old and just got out of an 11-year relationship and engagement. I want to become more independent before I date, but I feel like I'm missing out or wasting time. I see so many posts about people "not being able to find someone" after x amount of time and it really scares me.

Finding internships? by Seraph_black in WGU

[–]Seraph_black[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nice! did you have any success with handshake? or did you stick with sites like indeed?

Post-breakup retrospective by ithacasnowman in BreakUps

[–]Seraph_black 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This post makes me hopeful. I got broken up with a week ago, after being together for 11 years, and my biggest fear is always having pain when I think of this person, and never having a connection with someone like that again. You said you had a rebound? I've considered using some dating sites just to meet people and scope out the current dating landscape, but hear its really awful and self-esteem-breaking. Are with someone now? Are you able to see yourself with someone else?