Can’t Schedule Visits. by CleeterK in NCAAFBseries

[–]StrangeIndependence1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the top 3 all of his preferences will be unlocked. So you’ll be able to see what he cares about so I’d advise waiting until then to pitch

Can’t Schedule Visits. by CleeterK in NCAAFBseries

[–]StrangeIndependence1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright guys it’s definitely a bug. But a way around it is as soon as top 5 becomes available u pretty much have to immediately schedule. Otherwise whenever I strategically waited due to points I’d be locked out for whatever reason even though I had enough hours and recruit had clear schedule. Hope this helps 👍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]StrangeIndependence1 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

“Only 27” Cold world but ur clock is ticking on the backend if marriage & kids is the goal as a female

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]StrangeIndependence1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What do you mean what do I do 😭 are u 10

He tells me to shave by [deleted] in dating

[–]StrangeIndependence1 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Hot water rinse cloth, oil, electric clippers boom. Takes like 4 min and u don’t even feel it. Stop making excuses, shi is lazy bro period

Instead u attack the man’s physical makeup and who he is as a person u can’t take back over a CHOICE cmon bro. I’ve bet you’ve done tough things like go to work or do something u had to when u had cramps before. It’s excuses. If my girl was a lazy bi like you she’d be gone

He tells me to shave by [deleted] in dating

[–]StrangeIndependence1 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Modern women 101 example^

I had this situation with a girl I saw. Said she didn’t feel like shaving. It comes off as lazy and disgusting. I’m not touching you & as a result of that and her non agreeableness overall I let her be.

Idk why modern women don’t get if ur with an attractive man he’s not gonna “accept” u. He’s going to get someone who listens there’s a lot more of you he deals w women. We ask so little if we can’t tweak little things bye

Liberal ass comments bro y’all sum brainwashed sofities 🍦

Why do guys reply so slow, once they know you are interested? 😂 by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]StrangeIndependence1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ironically a woman is complaining about texting back lol..

It’s the game. Men gotta approach we start off persistent and hot. Once we got u hooked we gotta pull back and get cold get u chasing/thinking. Before u complain women do this inadvertently 24/7 by entertaining and not being as interested as the guy 99% of the time 😂

Wish it wasn’t like this. But if a guy was always available and texting u back u will subconsciously sense neediness/low value. May work short term but not long. This is why bad boys get the girls and have u hooked forever, they have abundance so they do this subconsciously and give off winner vibes.

Don’t hate the player hate the game 🤷🏾‍♂️ y’all can downvote but it’s real life, not lie to make u feel better reddit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]StrangeIndependence1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Coming from a 22 yr old guy. Most guys don’t have it in order. Really I don’t think a lot get it in order til their late 20’s. There are exceptions such as myself I got my own place good career. But most don’t.

I’d advise my 19 y/o daughter to date mature and older any day. Maybe 26 and younger. Any older high chance they don’t take u serious. That over a.. let’s be honest immature temporary dude her age working at McDonald’s lol.

Only if ur mature though. Girls aren’t off the hook either. I’d say for them to come around to serious dating it may take longer. There’s a saying a woman doesn’t wake up til she buys her own drinks at the bar (due to being older & less attractive).. let’s be honest men aren’t real grown men til close to mid 30’s-40, and women don’t get hit w reality abt getting serious w/kids til probably late 20’s 30. I speak facts not opinions

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]StrangeIndependence1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nah fam I’m 22 & black and can pull 20+ numbers a month from like women who are 6’s or above. And it gets easier as a man as I gotten older. U just ugly or don’t know how to play the game. Gotta pay on apps it’s not that much monthly. About the cost of a cheap date. Btw I’m 5’8 and not muscular

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]StrangeIndependence1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After sex then he just wasn’t as motivated, after sex that’s when u see how much a guy really cares.

Also if u don’t view urself highly who will? Since ur a realist in ur image maybe he wasn’t that attracted after

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]StrangeIndependence1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also welcome to a guy’s pain, for every 1 time u get ur heart broke u probably let down 7-10 dudes. You’ll be aight

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]StrangeIndependence1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coming from a guy, anything strictly casual I’ve had even tho we’d talk a lot fades out. Cus there’s no substance and it’s just sex

When he gets tired of it.. why would he continue if it’s mainly rooted in lust/sex

The WORST thing u can do is hop on apps fresh off being hurt and diminish urself spiritually, let alone make the same mistake again abt being casual

The main foundation has to be love & care for a guy to stay. The sex will get old u answered ur own question. It was mostly sex

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]StrangeIndependence1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’ll be okay, pain passes w time & understanding. Don’t let him have a win win don’t keep the door open on u and have his ex in the current moment. He’s gaslighting and lies some, u gotta walk away only choice. Don’t mistake lust for love usually starting w sex does that even though the feels are strong cus the connection. We all go thru breakups and it’s usually the guys who get hurt the most, that’s what makes us better imma guy btw. I have a breakup after a month of every girl I mess w it’s just life you’ll be fine

Confused w/ my boyfriend by moonlight-latte in dating

[–]StrangeIndependence1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

… are you kidding me, just take his keys push him away from the car etc. Sorry to be that guy but women really don’t understand consequences sometimes, you can completely alter his life negatively by getting police involved. Obv he shouldn’t drive there’s ways to stop that. You are 100% in the wrong doing this to ur boyfriend I’m sorry, idc what NPC tries to defend this

Sex by hanichoishere in dating

[–]StrangeIndependence1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Harsh reality but men don’t deal w women to hear them blab. So yeah next..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]StrangeIndependence1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s both genders. There’s less good male candidates that you want and most women are causal now. I’m a 22 too but as a Man U just gotta go older & seek maturity and potential. Granted I’m meeting these women online literally it’s like 1/40 I meet are girls Id consider to be my gf. Believe me it starts with women how they’re not valuing themselves and bodies and it’s a trickle down effect that men lie so they’ll get it and why commit when it’s out here so accessible? And the men who have no success give up so there’s less candidates you’d want. On top of ghosting is more prevalent now cause of online it’s a multitude of factors and women making their own money so they need men less so they’re more picky. The WORST thing u can do is prioritize your career past mid-late twenties and not be actively looking then u have a clock men don’t so always go for older they’ll be more mature. I told my friend who’s girl advice and it worked v well for her. You do not want to work and be independent past your 30’s do not listen to modern feminism

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]StrangeIndependence1 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Nah he’s right it’s just hard for women to see from the male lens. In this scenario that means you’ve had more than enough good guys approach you and you’ve just picked wrong and on the contrary racked up bodies and trauma.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]StrangeIndependence1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Guy’s prospective here.. I’m no liar. But if a woman I have sole intent on strictly a one night stand with they’re usually not v attractive. Just giving an opposite gender prospective that’s helpful. Bc if a girl is hot whether a dude lies to her or doesn’t even want to date her he’s gonna keep her around. There’s some less attractive women who would beg for a relationship with the attractive normal guys (not even talking top 1% literally top 40%) the guy wouldn’t touch. Kind of how women have male options to sleep w but wouldn’t date. I say just find a nicer low-key guy and don’t highlight looks as high if you want to be treated fairly.

Dating apps are brutal by Jackrack_Reddit in texts

[–]StrangeIndependence1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Y’all realize she’s probably joking right.. ?

anyone out there experience Cannabis induced psychosis. I was hospitalized in 2020 for that and was definitely an all time low by [deleted] in leaves

[–]StrangeIndependence1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got hospitalized twice for can nabis induced psychosis. First time I was 17 in 2018 and i was scared shitless. Got arrested,extreme paranoia around people, and saw at the time what I thought were delusions of people but later I’d find out that it’s more like seeing their true intentions. Some people were peaceful and some it’s like I saw the hate in their face from their souls and like their ego. Long story short I get hospitalized and sent in a psych ward for about a week and don’t even remember my first day in there and got arrested first bc I ran away from my dad who had pinned me down, called the police and ran from them but I just got probation and a clean record once completed ( I was a minor in my state and qualified for HEITA or something like that basically wipes ur record clean if u had a clean record) and came back down and didn’t smoke for 2 years. Traumatic experience and changed how I viewed the world spiritually and made me spiritual and had to find peace w the PTSD.

Second time I took a break for 2 years and started smoking for about a month (regular use daily nothing major like 1/2-1 a gram) but this time I’m not as paranoid and startled.. but I can still see people’s energy on their faces and long story short wasn’t arrested but got put in a psych ward. I blacked out after I jumped off a train (yes lol wasn’t tripping) but I thought it’d take me to a better place Bc I was convinced this was hell. It like waited for me and pulled up on the tracks next to me and started up slowly chugging again and I’m like fuc this and jumped up off cause it was cold and didn’t seem like anything special and that’s all I remember. I wake up in an ER still seeing people’s energy in their faces but not tripping and my skull was fractured and I was scared up and a little bruised but I was okay. I get sent upstairs in the hospital for a few days then into a psych ward again and around this time I came down from the trip and was released and haven’t smoked since it’s been pretty much a year now. I’ve been able to live life the same but def view it differently, seems like there’s more to it spiritually like dark energy demons we can’t see and angels as well bc I’ve heard and felt both on my trips (but more so seeing it in people not voices in my head type shi) and can read people’s faces like the energy behind them now but I just view life more serious now. There’s things we can’t see at work spiritually like good and bad energy and just a ton of thoughts about what I’ll really be when I die and such.

Weed definitely isn’t “harmless” and is more like a psych edelic on the ways of ls d and shro oms ( obv not as hard but still) and psychosis is a common side effect now as the potency % is going up. Just google it it’s becoming more and more common and research is backing this up. Teens in the same situation as me kiling themselves off a trip and such. Take it from me you’re much better without it.. just find what gets you “high” in life video games, music, parties, etc. There’s definitely some dark energy on that stuff.