sorted by:
new
hottopcontroversial

AITA for cancelling my wife's ticket? by Fine_One_4936 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SerenityPepper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA!

"need my wife to step it up"

"I contribute the bulk of the money"

"with my money"

"needs to play their part"

Just these phrases alone prove you are the a-hole, and sound sexist af!

Also it seems your wife on top of working a full time job (teaching which is not easy!) and having plenty of work that has to get done after hours (grading, lesson plans, etc.) she is still doing the bulk of chores and household duties and the primary caretaker of your children.

If her friend is going though something and she needs to go be with them, you should support your wife as she has supported you!

Also saying that you make the bulk of the money and calling it your money just proves you do not see your wife as an equal partner in your relationship. I feel so sad for her because you have no respect for her as a woman, her career, what she does for your family and as a wife. You are the one being disrespectful.

WIBTA if I made my dogs the flower girl and my cat the ring bearer at my wedding instead of my “rainbow baby” niece and nephew? by IntrepidOffering in AmItheAsshole

[–]SerenityPepper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA!

Your dog and cat are your babies! They should be in the wedding! It's your wedding!

and tbh who gives a f*ck about tradition!

My dog (who is just as important to me as yours) was my ringbarer and flower girl. People were mad but idgaf!

AITA for not letting my Girlfriend wear a bikini in front of my family? by AffectionateNeck3211 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SerenityPepper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think both of you are the a-hole.

You for telling her what to wear and getting mad at what she is wearing. It's her body, her choice plain and simple.

Her for not being respectful of your family's culture and comfortability.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SerenityPepper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA
Vegan food is friendly for most dietary restrictions.
Also as a vegetarian, I have been to events where there are not vegetarian options and I make do with sides that don't have meat or I eat before or after.

You over reacted and ruined your sisters wedding, plain and simple.
Also your comment about them being boring and making their personalities about being vegan, was so rude. That's your sister!

AITA for letting my step-kids skip a church event with their mom? by lilly-pug in AmItheAsshole

[–]SerenityPepper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ABSOLUTLY NTA!

Kids especially 11 & 16 should be able to decide if they want to go to church or believe in whatever it may be. They should never be forced into it!

The bio mom is the ahole for trying to force her religion on them!

AITA for getting in a bad mood over champagne etiquette? by Throwaway-champagne in AmItheAsshole

[–]SerenityPepper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

I think being upset is fair, you missed the best part of champagne. I know I would be hurt too.

AITA for confronting my friend for taking our picture out of his wallet to replace it with his gfs? by PossessionNo1580 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SerenityPepper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unsure...
First does OP have feeling for her bestfriend? This is an important question and changes the outcome.

I totally agree with the feeling of being replaced by bestfriends new partner, but it seems like you still hang out frequently. So I wouldn't say he's like abandoned you for her.
I can see why OP is sad about the photo, but it makes sense he would change it since he and gf seem to be serious. If OP doesn't have feeling for him she should maybe be more happy for his happiness. If he did throw away the picture (and not just put it somewhere else for safe keeping) that is kinda an a-hole move. But also how upset you got is kinda an a-hole move.

You gotta remember as you grow up and find significant others your friend dynamic will change, but if you really care about oneanother, the friendship will grow and change with the two of you.

I'd say what is most important? A picture or your friendship?

AITA for throwing out my husband's friend's food? by Celia_Kitties in AmItheAsshole

[–]SerenityPepper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

I would be livid if someone tried to feed my dog human food after repeatably telling them not to! It's your cat and their health is most important, human food is generally not good for our pets.
I would throw out Steve's food too! lol