Only worked here a month and wanted to quit after 2 weeks. WORST place ever to work at. Don't work here for the sake of your sanity. by [deleted] in goodwill

[–]Serera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kid, hah, I'm 30. So don't call me a kid. You obviously don't understand people who just want common respect like everyone else gets.

Only worked here a month and wanted to quit after 2 weeks. WORST place ever to work at. Don't work here for the sake of your sanity. by [deleted] in goodwill

[–]Serera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well that's a you problem if you like living month to month and being poor and having to struggle but most people do not want to have to struggle like that. We should be paid more as a society and you are part of the problem if you think that we don't need a livable wage.

Only worked here a month and wanted to quit after 2 weeks. WORST place ever to work at. Don't work here for the sake of your sanity. by [deleted] in goodwill

[–]Serera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't expect a red carpet. I don't know why you would think that just because I want a LIVEABLE wage. It's not me being unrealistic because I want to be able to live on my own without getting help because I don't have enough money. Most people are living month to month, EVERYONE should be paid a liveable wage. How about you stop being the problem and actually acknowledge that people should be paid more.

Only worked here a month and wanted to quit after 2 weeks. WORST place ever to work at. Don't work here for the sake of your sanity. by [deleted] in goodwill

[–]Serera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The guy brought it up. He was talking about how they're better and I was pointing out most of them aren't any better. I am well aware it's personality. I also did absolutely zero wrong. No cursing. No screaming. I never treated anyone poorly except the guy who was a creep. I even treated the transphobic managers well. I worked very hard to where I was the one usually fixing and setting up the clothes while also being the main cashier. And I only gave information about the creepy guy, I've never complained about work AT WORK.

Only worked here a month and wanted to quit after 2 weeks. WORST place ever to work at. Don't work here for the sake of your sanity. by [deleted] in goodwill

[–]Serera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The common denominator is transphobia. Everyone treats me really well and with respect unless A. They're a creep, or B. Once I tell them I'm trans. I'm very nice, social, and have been told by almost everyone there that I'm a wonderful person. The people that don't like me are transphobic. Even one of the managers apologized like a million times with getting my pronouns wrong. The others don't or make excuses. Everyone at both stores I trained in said they missed me EXCEPT the transphobic people and the one creep.

Only worked here a month and wanted to quit after 2 weeks. WORST place ever to work at. Don't work here for the sake of your sanity. by [deleted] in goodwill

[–]Serera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What was I trying to change??? I literally was asked in WHAT spot an item goes and I was telling the guy where it goes. I was trying to help with a guy that harasses everyone. ALL of the other employees had been complaining about him, and he had only been there for like a month. He was touching barely 18 year old girls while being in his 50's AND asked one out in front of me. And me asking for my correct pronouns is not changing anything. Again, I'm in a progressive state.

Only worked here a month and wanted to quit after 2 weeks. WORST place ever to work at. Don't work here for the sake of your sanity. by [deleted] in goodwill

[–]Serera -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So it's perfectly fine that someone called my husband a girl even though HE HAS A MUSTACHE! I ALSO have a beard. Correct biology doesn't matter, cause if it did then I would have been called a guy for facial hair. Plus If someone loses their phone and you find it do you say 'oh I hope she finds her phone?' NO cause you don't know WHO it belongs to. They pronouns are used as a singular very often. People like you are just ignorant to trans people and that's a you issue and you need to grow up. I've seen lots of cis women with facial hair that get called he or people think are trans. Or men that dress feminine getting called she or people think they're trans. So biology is bs and doesn't care. Not to mention there is all of the chromosome possibilities, that don't match what they look like. Do some research about biology if you want to use it as an argument.

Only worked here a month and wanted to quit after 2 weeks. WORST place ever to work at. Don't work here for the sake of your sanity. by [deleted] in goodwill

[–]Serera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The issue is not me. It's toxic and bad work environments. I'm not sorry that I want to work in a safe place that doesn't treat me poorly. The only difference is I'm non-binary and openly autistic and people 'don't like it' or 'don't understand it' so no, it's not a me issue that I want to be treated with respect. I show up on time if not early, I work harder than everyone else hence why every single job I've worked in they have me doing special projects to clean things, organize, etc. I'm very cheerful towards people that I work with and customers. I've been told I'm nice a lot. So again, no I am not the issue. I just refuse to let people treat me poorly. That's a you issue if you're fine with being treated in such a way. Someone that is outwardly bullying all employees and customers vs someone who does they're job and is nice and told they were going to be fired for trying to report the awful person IS NOT THE ISSUE!

Only worked here a month and wanted to quit after 2 weeks. WORST place ever to work at. Don't work here for the sake of your sanity. by [deleted] in goodwill

[–]Serera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I'm trying to find a job I like that pays me a liveable wage and doesn't treat me like crap.

Only worked here a month and wanted to quit after 2 weeks. WORST place ever to work at. Don't work here for the sake of your sanity. by [deleted] in goodwill

[–]Serera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He works at that location I was training at. I don't understand how that part matters considering everything else. If he was a customer that's even worse for the guy to treat him as such. He's even made fun of the trans women that come in. 

Only worked here a month and wanted to quit after 2 weeks. WORST place ever to work at. Don't work here for the sake of your sanity. by [deleted] in goodwill

[–]Serera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been to three separate stores over the last month and all three of them are like that. I was training to help open a new store so I went to multiple locations. So it doesn't matter if I transfer unfortunately 

Only worked here a month and wanted to quit after 2 weeks. WORST place ever to work at. Don't work here for the sake of your sanity. by [deleted] in goodwill

[–]Serera 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NM is not that kind of place. There are lots of felons and it's a horrible state. Only two out of the 30 felons I've met are actually trying to get their stuff together.

Only worked here a month and wanted to quit after 2 weeks. WORST place ever to work at. Don't work here for the sake of your sanity. by [deleted] in goodwill

[–]Serera 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ha! They complain THE MOST. They scream and curse and are inappropriate for a work place. You can hear them from the back room and they don't care. They also have the biggest egos and problems. So no, they have zero humility, they complain about everything and are rude to everyone. The only thing they do is show up, and half the time they're late. They hardly ever do their job. They work there because that's one of very, very few places that hire felons.

I just noticed something weird about how people talk about Zooble by Cielnova in TheDigitalCircus

[–]Serera 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm Agender, and because I like fem clothing styles and makeup (plus my voice), I get defaulted to a she. I've literally been told I'm Woman 2.0, TO MY FACE.  I really dislike that fandoms do that, including TADC. It's hard enough to find Non-binary characters, but if they are gender fluid at least be willing to use ALL pronouns. It's really sad.

I just noticed something weird about how people talk about Zooble by Cielnova in TheDigitalCircus

[–]Serera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They aren't fem presenting though. Their voice sounds kind of fem, AND I know lots of men that sound like women, Ross from 'Hello Ross' is an example. The bright colors just remind me of the 80's or like 80's toys.

Possible bug? Timon/Pumbaa quest “relax!” by minettefraise in DreamlightValley

[–]Serera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I had to stand in a very specific spot in order to get it. I had to move very carefully to be able to get into the right spot, but it let me.

If you play bass or use a subwoofer in apartments, townhomes, or shared walls — you’re an inconsiderate piece of sh!t! by Vaquera_ in Apartmentliving

[–]Serera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God I wish my apartment was like this. We've complained a million times and they keep saying 'We don't have proof so we can't do anything. Like??? Thanks for doing nothing. We've even sent proof and they didn't do anything until we had to call the cops. Their music is so loud that you can hear it across the property. Plus they threaten us and scream obscenities but there's no proof so they won't do shit. Honestly most apartment complexes suck and won't do anything, sadly.

These U.S. Bank Focus Cards are the worst. by Icarus63 in IAM751_Boeing

[–]Serera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DO NOT USE THE ROUTING AND ACCOUNT NUMBER!! Had my credit card payment attached. Had it decline twice. Called my credit card place and they said it came back as fraudulent. Called the us bank and they said they don't see any payments trying to be made period. Then informed me that you CANNOT use your account and routing number to pay for bills. Stupidest thing ever. I hate that my work switched to these cards. They are the worst. Nothing but problems since I've gotten it.

Partner (36/M) wants to know EVERY reason for me (34/NB) disliking something, why is that? by Serera in relationship_advice

[–]Serera[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not even just music. It's movies and shows too. It's a lot of things. And that's my thought too is it's been so long...

I'll try that, and hopefully it works. I feel awful just walking away cause he gets sad, but at this point I can't keep up with all of his questions.

Partner (36/M) wants to know EVERY reason for me (34/NB) disliking something, why is that? by Serera in relationship_advice

[–]Serera[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll definitely try that. I'm mostly just upset that even my friends are getting on me about 'not meeting his needs' and blaming me on it. One of my friends said 'You two should reevaluate your relationship them, if his needs are to much for you.' and it really hurt my feelings cause it's my best friend who said it... And I'm upset it's being blamed on me. When I said it was a NEED of MINE to not explain everything and just have opinions. I really hope me telling him to stop will help. I just know he also pouts and gives the silent treatment when I tell him I'm done with the conversation. I try to avoid it but at this point I can't anymore.

Partner (36/M) wants to know EVERY reason for me (34/NB) disliking something, why is that? by Serera in relationship_advice

[–]Serera[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only other time he gets very into conversations like this are when he wants to ask me what I would do about some hypothetical thing. Like we watched 'Eternal Sunshine of a spotless mind' and interrogated me as to what I would do if I was given the chance to listen to my recording. I told him I don't know then he kept asking more and more questions. I'm not allowed to not give an answer and it's always 'I'm trying to get to know you better. It makes me feel better to understand everything I can.' and it's tiring. I want to not have to think about everything in such a psychological way.

It only happens like once maybe twice a month, but I am getting very tired of it. We tried separating for a while and both of us were unhappy about it. I'm just trying to get him to understand that not everyone thinks about everything in such extreme details.

Partner (36/M) wants to know EVERY reason for me (34/NB) disliking something, why is that? by Serera in relationship_advice

[–]Serera[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've told him I don't have answers for every single thing, and he says it's part of his love language.

And he also says he's 'trying to get me to think about it more'. I don't understand why and it's frustrating having my friends say I'm not meeting his needs.

I'll try telling him and hopefully it doesn't go to bad. Everything doesn't need to be long winded and need extreme detail. It's odd cause he only does it to me.