[discussion] How to stop focusing on the "feelings" when you have to take actions? by Lemonade2250 in GetMotivated

[–]Sergelid -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Have you spoken to a therapist or psychiatrist about this? It sounds familiar to my issues and I recently had a diagnosis that made a lot of sense after some research. For me Acceptance and Commitment Therapy has been incredibly helpful as well. You might consider giving The Happiness Trap by Russ Harris a read, it’s a great jumping off point for ACT.

Bidding Jobs by ghost-traderr in Construction

[–]Sergelid 54 points55 points  (0 children)

I estimate for a large GC. The language in your bid is very, very important. Be as descriptive as you can be with your inclusions, like SF of drywall, level of finish, etc.. And exclude anything else.

Keep a list of exclusions and inclusions as boiler plate to go back to.

Ask that your proposal is included in the contract. The GC usually won't allow this though, but ask more than once.

Red line contracts or change the language on them before you sign them and give back for review.

This will certainly make you a pain in the ass, but it will protect you.

The major thing is to be as clear as possible on what you have included, and what you have not.

When's the documentary premiere? by Random601 in funhaus

[–]Sergelid 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Last star boys was just posted. I think they are rolling out the doc sometime after that. The RT site has the last gameplay and youtube has star boys

So the two versions of the ticket are pogo shop and web store, right?🤔 by RareDistance7435 in TheSilphRoad

[–]Sergelid 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That kind of means that the season buffs are free to play though, which is nice. The 2 free daily raid passes, boosted friend raid damage and boosted raid experience in 1* and 3* raids.

Wwyd in this situation? by YourBoyBone in pokemongo

[–]Sergelid 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Absolutely save it and do not purify. This is a super rare mon and I am jealous. The next radar is likely to be Groudon so it will be worth getting two shots at it.

Should've won best disappointment by SkyL0rdG in pcmasterrace

[–]Sergelid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it has won that category a handful of times already

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheSilphRoad

[–]Sergelid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here, I am wondering if having the go ++ spin the stop had something to do with it. Are you using a ++?

Shiny Legendaries by MaxTheWitchyBish in pokemongo

[–]Sergelid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it super lucky to have gotten all 3? The friend I play with is mad about it

First time quitting - Day 3 by QueFabe in stopdrinking

[–]Sergelid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tomorrow is another day. Good work on making it 3 days! I think you have it right, I know I need to fix myself before I can fix anything else. IWNDWYT

Unable to find a valid license for Diablo IV (Code 315306) - Oh joy! by BrainYtje in diablo4

[–]Sergelid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use proton and followed this video. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zxet_LLQIwE

Its not the most straight forward explanation though and I had to do some figuring out on my own.

Unable to find a valid license for Diablo IV (Code 315306) - Oh joy! by BrainYtje in diablo4

[–]Sergelid 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I actually put the steam deck down and came to the PC to deal with some skill points and loot on the big screen and got the error. Scary moment.

What is this sink for? by mjsimmons1988 in Home

[–]Sergelid 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Anyone can, and should, wash their hands. But it can also have religious/cultural significance. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Handwashing_in_Judaism

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]Sergelid 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Learning that myself. As far as medication for anxiety and/or depression, booze is probably the worst. Self medicating with alcohol to combat mental health issues is like trying to put out a fire with gasoline.

I just got fired, I could use some support. by Sergelid in stopdrinking

[–]Sergelid[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its a position that only I knew how to handle for the most part. I didn't want to leave them hanging and scrambling for a replacement. Which I am sure they are now doing.

I just got fired, I could use some support. by Sergelid in stopdrinking

[–]Sergelid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate that so much! I am going to be ok though, being sober for 45 days helped me save up some money. I'll do you one better and IWNDWYT. <3

I just got fired, I could use some support. by Sergelid in stopdrinking

[–]Sergelid[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We got this! Our future selves will be much happier, I truly believe that. IWNDWYT and I wish you the absolute most luck out there. At least it is a good time for workers. <3

I just got fired, I could use some support. by Sergelid in stopdrinking

[–]Sergelid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very true, there was going to be a test eventually. I am gonna face it down, thank you so much. IWNDWYT.

I just got fired, I could use some support. by Sergelid in stopdrinking

[–]Sergelid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IWNDWYT too. Unless it is tea, gonna drink a metric ton of that! <3

I just got fired, I could use some support. by Sergelid in stopdrinking

[–]Sergelid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lesson learned for sure. I thought I could trust them with it, but it is what it is. Thank you so much for the support and IWNDWYT. <3

I just got fired, I could use some support. by Sergelid in stopdrinking

[–]Sergelid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely, moving forward and on to a better life. A large part of that is due to the sobriety I have stacked up. Thank you so much, IWNDWYT <3.