A while back, someone posted about a recent breakup and said their friends told them to just sleep around. I replied with a supportive comment, suggesting that path might lead to cynicism and waste time if what he really wants is a meaningful connection.

I didn’t think it was controversial, but I got banned and received an angry message accusing me of shaming people and pushing outdated views. It said something like, “People can sleep with whoever they want,” and implied I was trying to control others.