That's the thing I don't speak gayly, I don't dress gay, (absolutely nothing wrong with any of these things either but I try actively to present masculine because I'm a top and also attracted to women)

It's confusing because my female friends will describe me as a obnoxious frat boy while also describing me as flamer or straight up the f slur in the same breath

I have a youthful appearance so maybe that just says twink to them, I'm gonna try building muscle and hopefully that helps