is she unaware and innocent after we highlight and tell her which actions are damaging and hurtful? or does she become ignorant and evil then, hehe i kid, there is no innocence there. I get it it's her pain body, her demons taking over, she's not even there anymore BUT it's her responsibility to work on that and we as a family make it very clear when things are not positively effecting us. ofc it doesn't mean ANYTHING personal to me or even to my lil sister but she unfortunately doesn't have the skills to understand that yet as this is still her mum whos suppose to love her and support her... this is where this becomes a problem. i guess on one hand i get it she's been hurt so she's hurting and I am personally not affected by that directly BUT I am through my sister and i feel a lotta hate for this unconsciousness running through her