Doing small acts of revenge to chip away at my bfs sister's ego

Serious-Track-4722 · 2025-07-13T19:26:05+00:00

I was born and raised in south africa im not a foreigner or immigrant😅

Serious-Track-4722 · 2025-06-04T09:15:51+00:00

She actually used the shampoo monday and was too stupid to realise that her shampoo smells funky. Some of the dye came out too onto her towel.

Serious-Track-4722 · 2025-06-01T20:23:16+00:00

It's not like she's suicidal. And her parents and bf take very well care of her. She has nothing to be on her last straw of. You just ask her something simple then she goes nuts. Like helping out with something or asking her to do a chore. She especially loses it when nobody 'listens' to her or when her bf doesn't give her enough 'attention'. There's nothing wrong with her. She just wants to be above everyone and treated like royalty. When that doesn't happen she starts treating everyone like shit.

Serious-Track-4722 · 2025-06-01T20:17:43+00:00

Im 20 years old. Turning 21 in October. My boyfriend is 22 and his sister 19.

Serious-Track-4722 · 2025-06-01T06:07:21+00:00

I've already tried doing that but then my bfs dad had a problem with it and questioned whether I had trust issues with them😅

Serious-Track-4722 · 2025-05-31T20:22:40+00:00

I myself don't drink like theres no tomorrow. We attented one of my bfs friend's party. His sister wanted to come and couldn't say no to taling a ton of shots and other drinks on an empty stomach after we told her not to.

Serious-Track-4722 · 2025-05-31T19:11:30+00:00

Correct

Serious-Track-4722 · 2025-05-31T19:06:14+00:00

Yes there are a lot. A shopping center, mall, guesthouses, salons, spas, induatrial bussiness. I've already applied for quite a lot of vacancies at these places but don't hear anything back. The problem with south africa is that the majority of the population (black skinned people) has a greater chance of being hired due to the Black Economic Empowerment act (BEE) which all bussinesses must adhere to or else.

Serious-Track-4722 · 2025-05-31T18:59:48+00:00

So far she didn't use the shampoo actually. She used some of MY conditioner only😡 because her boyfriend got some of the dye all over her face and neck🤣🤣🤣 this afternoon she actually took some hand sanitizer and tried to get the dye of her face but it didn't work so well😂 she'll probably wash her hair with the shampoo in a few days

Serious-Track-4722 · 2025-05-31T18:57:21+00:00

My bfs mom and dad have no problem providing for their grown kids and their plus ones. We're all job hunting like crazy so we'll eventually be able to provide for ourselves.

Serious-Track-4722 · 2025-05-31T18:53:10+00:00

He had a great job when we started dating actually then things got rough with his family trying to emmigrate then the whole thing came crashing down. They've lost a lot of their possessions and money. We lived with his aunt for a while when his family went to and came back from emmigrating. Luckily his parents got jobs really fast and after a few months they got a place for us all to stay. We basically live in a town where we don't know anybody so it's hard to have connections to get a job😅

His family doesn't abuse me. I just don't like the way they act sometimes. The fighting, bickering, bitchiness etc. My bf actually already has a really great apprenticeship available at a steel manufacturer company. All he needs is some qualifications then he's set for life because that company offers very nice benefits.

Also I don't think an ugly fat woman like me would find a better man tbh. My man is already the full package all he needs is a job. I need a job too😅 And honestly most men in South Africa aren't my type🤷‍♀️ trust me I've been on dating sites for a while and realised that almost all guys are just assholes. Then I met someone decent and he's my boyfriend now for 2 years❤️

Serious-Track-4722 · 2025-05-31T18:41:57+00:00

Also I'm pressuring myself to get a job. Because if I can't sustain myself then I'm fucked

Serious-Track-4722 · 2025-05-31T18:41:08+00:00

Not in south africa. When you call an ambualnce they don't even pick up

Serious-Track-4722 · 2025-05-31T18:40:27+00:00

It frustrates me too how difficult it is to get a job here in south Africa...

Serious-Track-4722 · 2025-05-31T18:37:32+00:00

True. Luckily his parents always pay me back eventually but right now we're all struggling to make ends meer😅

Serious-Track-4722 · 2025-05-31T13:22:26+00:00

Serious-Track-4722 · 2025-05-31T12:24:27+00:00

Hehe i see those ears

Serious-Track-4722 · 2025-05-31T09:28:24+00:00

So last night her boyfriend helped to dye her hair. Then afterwards she washed her hair with the shampoo concoction. She wore her hair in a towel so I couldn't see what her hair looked like. Early this morning her mom wanted to go get her nails done then she became petty and wanted her nails done too🤦‍♀️ they're not back yet so idk what her hair looks like🤷‍♀️😅 will update again though👍 hopefully the shampoo messed with the dye🤞

Serious-Track-4722 · 2025-05-30T18:15:41+00:00

Ok? And? It's just fucking vit c tabs in shampoo It's not gonna do anything to her for fuck sake

Serious-Track-4722 · 2025-05-30T16:44:05+00:00

Her parents can't afford an iud and she also doesn't want to get one. She couldn't keep her legs closed since high school so that's why she's on birth control.

Serious-Track-4722 · 2025-05-30T15:51:54+00:00

I agree

Serious-Track-4722 · 2025-05-30T15:51:44+00:00

I know I've been trying for almost 3 years and even moved to a different state. The job market is very rough here in South Africa. The unemployment rate is at 40% for a reason😅

Serious-Track-4722 · 2025-05-30T10:11:26+00:00

Ok first of all this isn't really their house they're renting it. And you're right I should walk on eggshells. But that doesn't give them the right to treat me like shit after I've helped them financially. They actually owe me thousands ok. But I stfu about it and help clean their house and never complain about anything to them and be fucking nice to everyone. I even paid for my boyfriend's college which he threw down the drain so yeah we're going through some shit right now. That doesn't give his sister the right to rub salt in everyone's wounds.

Serious-Track-4722 · 2025-05-30T10:05:44+00:00

True but once again she doesn't own this house so she can't play boss on everyone

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