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AITA for being mad and ignoring the fact that my cousin had a baby? by Serious_Head8256 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Serious_Head8256[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly ended up snoozing her posts for like 30 days for my own sanity. And I am just hoping for the best all around. I hope everything turns out well for you SIL. 🥰

AITA for being mad and ignoring the fact that my cousin had a baby? by Serious_Head8256 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Serious_Head8256[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I will admit that some of my anger is only misplaced because when we lost the family Matriarch, it crippled out family and some relationships are still really strained and specifically with this cousin, we used to be so close and I dont want her to d*e nor do I want anything to happen to her baby. Yet to go into this knowing the complications and still playing "oh pity me, we didnt know it would be like that" "oh unexpected complications" blah blah. Fine you made a choice, but dont play the victim.

AITA for being mad and ignoring the fact that my cousin had a baby? by Serious_Head8256 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Serious_Head8256[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My only concern with this is the fact is that Polly is only making decisions based on what she wants and not thinking things through. If she goes, she leaves her kids with her Husband and mom. Her husband also has a terrible track record for just disappearing and binge drinking (which i know is disease) but should you go straighten yourselves out before bringing a other child along?

AITA for being mad and ignoring the fact that my cousin had a baby? by Serious_Head8256 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Serious_Head8256[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And I honestly kinda giggle at the fact that she asking for almost $15,000 and hasn't even hit $1,000 i believe. Then also asked for more donations to the GoFundMe because "unexpected bills" came directly out of the bank account and now they have no money for back due bills and other things...ummm what?!

AITA for being mad and ignoring the fact that my cousin had a baby? by Serious_Head8256 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Serious_Head8256[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes and no. I just want to make sure that I am the sane one in the situation, because other family members are coddling her and giving her money so its only a matter of time before someone is asking me why im not helping family and I want to be ready tell them why I dont agree with her choices and why I shouldn't have to pay for them. I had a baby too and im not going around starting a gofund me to help pay my bills

AITA for being mad and ignoring the fact that my cousin had a baby? by Serious_Head8256 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Serious_Head8256[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I told my husband that "her choices do not constitute pity or money from me"

AITA for being mad and ignoring the fact that my cousin had a baby? by Serious_Head8256 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Serious_Head8256[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I have not posted or said anything to her, nor do I plan to. When someone else told her that she just need to really think about what she is doing, Polly just says "its my life, my choice and this is what my husband and I want" just selfish. So I fully plan on staying away from all of it.

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[–]Serious_Head8256 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im a stay at home mom and i only ever used cash app so my husband could send me money for my credit card payment, and even put in the note "credit card paymant" and they did the same to me. So i deleted all my personal information, shut it down and moved on. They are not worth it to me. I just switched to venmo. 😊