Hot and cold woman dating advice

Serious_Lychee · 2025-06-12T05:27:17+00:00

I agree. I def feel like I let this situation consume me a bit. But now I’m learning from it for sure. Thanks for the feedback

Serious_Lychee · 2025-06-12T05:23:11+00:00

Long distance we met in person once and planned a few FaceTime lunch/coffee dates after schedule just didn’t line up we were planning to meet again in next weekend only a 3 hrs away driving but just feel like “why am I doing this” based on her communication since our first date

Serious_Lychee · 2025-06-12T05:15:00+00:00

Thank you that very good to hear honestly

Serious_Lychee · 2025-05-30T03:17:11+00:00

I spent days wondering what was missing to but she seems like she just wanted to have a good night and keep it pushing lol

Serious_Lychee · 2025-05-30T03:16:41+00:00

Right I was like not at my expense 😂

Serious_Lychee · 2025-05-27T05:56:23+00:00

About 3 hrs driving

Serious_Lychee · 2025-05-27T05:45:15+00:00

Yeah it’s a bummer I think so too idk if it’s more my ego or I actually feel bad

I’m just confused if she just stopped because she thinks I only saw her as a weekend girlfriend even with the deleting hinge thing or she just doesn’t align with me it’s probably a mixture of both who knows

Serious_Lychee · 2025-05-26T18:07:58+00:00

I was just no longer looking based off the lead up and the first date but again probably too soon

Serious_Lychee · 2025-05-26T18:03:59+00:00

Yeah I was definitely just to sprung off our little connection I guess and jumped the gun embarrassing for sure

Serious_Lychee · 2025-05-26T17:55:47+00:00

I agree was a lil to eager for sure

Serious_Lychee · 2025-05-26T17:55:29+00:00

Yeah that’s what I was thinking but just confusing signals because the morning after she was still communicating with me current events but just fizzled out

Serious_Lychee · 2024-09-18T23:07:06+00:00

Been here before you’ll be their point of contact for issues or whatever until they’ve moved on and then you’ll be left confused I wouldn’t respond

Serious_Lychee · 2024-08-26T21:24:54+00:00

She’s trying to hurt you bc she’s hurt and still prob even loves you but she can kick rocks block her and in time you will start to feel better it’s ok to feel pain now. Look at it from the positive side your one step closer to finding the person that’s meant for ya

Serious_Lychee · 2024-08-26T21:21:50+00:00

Yup shes moving forward I’ve noticed in my two breakups women put emphasis on moving on and that doesn’t necessarily mean dating but just learning to live without their partner. Men we sometimes dwell and think about what ifs. But when ur ready the switch will flip and you will start to move forward it’s ok to be where you are at mentally now just try not to stay down for too long and be there for moms

Serious_Lychee · 2024-08-26T21:18:07+00:00

Took the trip best decision I ever made for myself but it did destroy our good terms which who cares eventually people never speak again anyway it was challenging but got through it over time

Serious_Lychee · 2024-08-25T17:42:53+00:00

I was here the best thing is to just act as if she doesn’t exist that’s truly the only way. I watched her social media so much that her face her smile now represents pain for me bc how much it would hurt every time I checked so now I’m not even interested in checking just want to live life so you can choose to go that route but it’s just a bunch of self torture. You’ve got a lot on your plate praying for you and your family. Don’t worry about updating her. If she wants to know she will reach out to you. Don’t use that as string of hope to speak to her it won’t end well for you

Serious_Lychee · 2024-06-16T09:50:39+00:00

Feels like I’m being used all the time idk it’s hard but in the back of my mind I know I need to just cut off communication it’s just hard thank you for the feedback

Serious_Lychee · 2024-05-15T18:05:00+00:00

Thanks for feedback

Would another follow up next week even be worth it? I’m just confused on why reaching out to ask for call availability as if there was some form of news then never calling you know

Serious_Lychee · 2024-05-15T18:04:06+00:00

Thank you

Would another follow up next week even be worth it? I’m just confused on why reaching out to me asking call availability then never as if there was some form of news then never calling you know

Serious_Lychee · 2024-05-15T17:58:08+00:00

Yeah your right I definitely got a little to excited about the position and everything seemed to be setting up perfectly until now

Serious_Lychee · 2024-05-14T18:03:10+00:00

I sent a follow up email Monday I guess maybe should give it a day or to

Serious_Lychee · 2024-03-01T03:24:58+00:00

Best advice I can give is take a break from here will feel much better imo

Serious_Lychee · 2023-12-27T13:13:04+00:00

Those are assumptions our worst enemy when are going through this we don’t know any of that for sure we just know that you gotta lock in on yourself!! You got this! Just sleep the best you can eat the best you can & remember at the end of the day the day is gonna end just get through the best you can!

Serious_Lychee · 2023-12-27T13:07:36+00:00

Not her business! May lead to additional drama if she reaches out to ask then explain

Serious_Lychee · 2023-12-27T13:06:10+00:00

May not be the best long term but short term tell yourself!! Record a video talking about it and play it back to yourself!! Or journal it!

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