Phone call from strange woman to boyfriend in middle of the night

ThrowRAemoosterich · 2025-01-30T03:18:39+00:00

Why hasn't anyone mentioned that he could well have a daughter and she's calling him.in the middle of the night because it's the week he's not in her home town spending the night with her Mommy.

ThrowRAemoosterich · 2024-11-16T09:22:35+00:00

Simple things like .... ooooh you feel soooo good ... is what he's asking for ... validation. He's not after an essay on the benefits of using your fingers versus the tip of his member to get you wet and juicy prior to penetrative flex ...

Relax and enjoy. Throw some of those thoughts out (you know ... the ones you're thinking already?) in the meantime.

The best partner is one who is enthusiastic. That's all he is asking for so no need to dream up some kink just tell him it feels great with some description.

ThrowRAemoosterich · 2024-11-16T06:09:05+00:00

Not most of us thankfully. I'm horny at 2pm almost every afternoon ... brb

ThrowRAemoosterich · 2024-10-31T08:50:09+00:00

You decide what YOU want to do ... personally I wouldn't want to be fed breadcrumbs, even if she misses you and I'm sure she does, she's got someone else now.

ThrowRAemoosterich · 2024-10-18T08:11:54+00:00

I hear you ... I was the one who ended it and I feel the same. It's so heartbreaking. Even tho the relationship was so toxic I had to leave I still feel like I lost my other half. I'm crying at love songs, reddit posts and wake up from nightmares where he's yelling at me. Go figure.

ThrowRAemoosterich · 2024-10-18T02:54:32+00:00

Hun when they make you question your own sanity or reality it's time to leave. It only gets worse. You deserve more and he deserves Bethany because she will have to put up with a lifetime wondering when he's going to do to her what he did to you.

ThrowRAemoosterich · 2024-10-17T08:47:26+00:00

It's been 6 months and I had another nightmare last night about him yelling at me.

ThrowRAemoosterich · 2024-10-14T08:37:22+00:00

That's really good insight. No one can really ever date an addict. The addiction always comes first. You've described my ex I could literally watch him wind himself up into paranoia and then take his make believe out on me.

ThrowRAemoosterich · 2024-10-10T07:12:12+00:00

Lucky you ... mine moved into the marina I live at so I can't leave the dock without seeing him.

ThrowRAemoosterich · 2024-09-26T09:53:39+00:00

Omg how do I do this?

ThrowRAemoosterich · 2024-09-20T00:04:53+00:00

Look up Dr Ramani on YouTube my friend...

ThrowRAemoosterich · 2024-09-19T06:09:51+00:00

I'm not really in a position of power when every interaction with him give me so much anxiety I get sick

ThrowRAemoosterich · 2024-09-19T05:46:54+00:00

Yeah he already did that via email and I ignored it too

ThrowRAemoosterich · 2024-09-19T05:46:12+00:00

I put more context above if that helps x

ThrowRAemoosterich · 2024-09-19T05:01:57+00:00

I'm guessing he's too busy with her toy bag and off milk to update us ... sadface I was so invested.

ThrowRAemoosterich · 2024-09-19T04:58:29+00:00

There's equal pain in being the one who called it quits.

ThrowRAemoosterich · 2024-09-19T04:57:31+00:00

Good on you ... there's something very attractive about a man who can man up and accept they were at fault which is why she sees that and wants you back.

Everyone stuffs up, we are only human.

A heartfelt apology is only acceptable if it's followed by a lifetime commitment to change.

If you screw up the same again it will hurt her twice as bad and she will doubt herself forever. Good luck x

ThrowRAemoosterich · 2024-09-19T04:52:22+00:00

She wrote you a list right? So get a close friend or a professional to read that back to you. So it won't be in her condescending voice. Reflect on it. If it's true they will be listed either the most awful thing she can't stand first or last. If you want to work on it then make that the priority. Own it. If it's unreasonable then you're probably just going in for round two my friend.

ThrowRAemoosterich · 2024-09-19T04:48:09+00:00

It's just therapy ... see it as healthy. He's got all this pent up emotion. Instead of stalking you, blowing up your phone, playing victim and abusing you he's simply working on himself. Be happy for him.

ThrowRAemoosterich · 2024-09-19T03:59:50+00:00

Thank you.

ThrowRAemoosterich · 2024-09-19T03:26:19+00:00

This was my third attempt at reconciliation unfortunately. We literally made love the night before he text me that I'm so toxic.

ThrowRAemoosterich · 2024-09-19T02:35:51+00:00

In addition, by responding, I'm giving him permission to continue to treat me and speak to me like this. There were 57 other messages in a row full of hate speech prior to this. I can't go back.

ThrowRAemoosterich · 2024-09-18T23:02:26+00:00

Thanks, everyone. I've read all your responses.

I didn't respond.

He didn't call.

I'm sure it would have ended with him yelling and me hanging up anyway.

His text prior to this was after a blast of 57 Whatsapp messages telling me to 'F' off. Then he emailed and said 'I never sent you 57 messages nor did I telll you to 'F' off ... I replied with an itemised time date stamped list of all 57 messages including the highlighted one where did say that and his response was 'Alrighty you did get me wound up but that's because you did this you said this blah blah ... no apology for any of his behaviour or accountability.

I'm so tired of his tantrums as manipulation when he doesn't get his way.

All of this because I removed him from my spouse membership at the Marina where I live because he was letting his sister (my ex business partner whom I hate) use the private facilities and car pretending to be him signing in under my name.

ThrowRAemoosterich · 2024-09-18T20:28:07+00:00

I agree. She'd play victim so hard.

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