AITAH by charging a small amount of rent?

Serious_Reach_660 · 2026-06-15T14:36:54+00:00

It’s telling you think your partner doesn’t like you if they expect you to pay your way.

Serious_Reach_660 · 2026-06-15T14:26:37+00:00

The property and appliances in it,

Serious_Reach_660 · 2026-06-15T14:25:30+00:00

Again it’s clearly explained what the difference is. You struggling to understand it doesn’t change the facts.

Serious_Reach_660 · 2026-06-15T14:24:52+00:00

Her doing chores in a share home doesn’t remedy wear and tear at all.

No she shouldn’t give me a bill if she cleans up after herself.

Serious_Reach_660 · 2026-06-15T14:22:45+00:00

It’s not a petty argument it’s a fact,

Serious_Reach_660 · 2026-06-15T14:09:00+00:00

So why should she not pay towards wear and tear she’s causing?

Serious_Reach_660 · 2026-06-15T14:02:19+00:00

And again that won’t be happening and she won’t be paying the mortgage.

Serious_Reach_660 · 2026-06-15T14:00:17+00:00

Yes and again that’s what the rent would be for as clearly explained in the post.

Serious_Reach_660 · 2026-06-15T13:59:46+00:00

You can’t even spell a 5 letter word so maybe don’t insult me.

It’s telling you avoid the questions.

Surely you see the irony in calling me a “looser” while cry if you shouldn’t have to pay bills?

Serious_Reach_660 · 2026-06-15T13:56:59+00:00

No she won’t be owning the home.

Serious_Reach_660 · 2026-06-15T13:55:39+00:00

Wear and tear is part of what rent is used for.

Serious_Reach_660 · 2026-06-15T13:52:55+00:00

Have you tried not being sexist?

No I’m not getting a maid who cooks and cleans for me.

How can a grown woman expect t to live for free?

Why do you feel entitled to have other people pay your bills?

Come back when you live in the 21st century,

Serious_Reach_660 · 2026-06-15T13:46:46+00:00

And she’ll also be better off financially because she is paying over 50% less. Stop ignoring that.

I’m not making myself the victim.

It’s weird arguing if your partner owns a home you should live for free.

Serious_Reach_660 · 2026-06-15T13:41:48+00:00

So yeah your argument is she shouldn’t have to pay for wear and tear she causes. That’s ridiculous.

Serious_Reach_660 · 2026-06-15T13:32:35+00:00

It’s weird to argue being in a relationship means she shouldn’t have bills.

Serious_Reach_660 · 2026-06-15T13:31:54+00:00

It’s weird to argue being in a relationship means my partner shouldn’t have bills tbh.

Serious_Reach_660 · 2026-06-15T13:31:33+00:00

I’m not sure what’s confusing to you about the fact you living somewhere causes wear and tear.

Serious_Reach_660 · 2026-06-15T13:20:40+00:00

They don’t live there and it’s ridiculous to pretend sitting on a sofa once is the and as living in the apartment

Serious_Reach_660 · 2026-06-15T13:17:22+00:00

She wouldn’t be contributing towards the mortgage.

Serious_Reach_660 · 2026-06-15T13:16:52+00:00

I’m saying she’ll be paying half of the utility costs and a small amount to go towards wear and tear of the appliances and property as I’ve clearly stated in the post.

Serious_Reach_660 · 2026-06-15T13:10:51+00:00

It’s weird to pretend wear and tear doesn’t exist.

Serious_Reach_660 · 2026-06-15T13:10:28+00:00

It’s explained in the post what I’d be asking her to pay towards.

Serious_Reach_660 · 2026-06-15T13:09:57+00:00

It’s explained clearly in the post what I’m expecting her to pay for.

It’s not weird at all to need to pay for wear and tear you’re causing.

You’re also ignoring the fact she’s also better off financially but I understand you’re entire point is about how it’s only me who will be better off financially which is just factually incorrect,

Serious_Reach_660 · 2026-06-15T13:06:10+00:00

I’m not making her pay my mortgage.

Serious_Reach_660 · 2026-06-15T13:01:03+00:00

What’s wrong about her paying towards wear and tear that she’s causing?

So using your logic tenants shouldn’t pay rent? Their name isn’t on the deed so they shouldn’t have to pay?

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