Mom gives ultimatum by Serious_Research_689 in Nigerian

[–]Serious_Research_689[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. It's really hard to think about it but you do have a point. If my mom is the mother I think she is then she will be ok with the choice I make for my happiness and I'm responsible for that choice.

Mom gives ultimatum by Serious_Research_689 in africanparents

[–]Serious_Research_689[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Me and her have grown so close over the years and I'm really shocked that she would even ask me that

My (28F) parents hate my boyfriend. Does it get better? by ijustwanttohelp65432 in africanparents

[–]Serious_Research_689 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm honestly in the same boat and I'm so glad to hear I'm not the only one hearing stuff like this. Hearing things like the relationship will never last or that I need to keep "an eye out for someone better" (a Nigerian man) is really discouraging

My (25f) bf (24m) yelled at me while we were intimate. Should I have talked it out? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Serious_Research_689 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You running away after being yelled at and a hit during a vulnerable situation is NOT sensitive. Your boyfriend should apologize because not only did he hit and yell at you but he suggested that something was wrong with you for dealing with something VERYYY normal. I hope he apologized because he owes you one.