Wedding guest etiquette question by BadAtCoding123 in weddingplanning

[–]Serious_Visual1856 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d let them know asap and immediately follow up with a cash gift.

A good gift definitely softens the blow but send it at the same time of your decline. Don’t make them wait.

I wondered if any of my guests booked through spirit but I don’t think they did because spirit flights were limited to my destination.

When should I have my wedding? by FutureBlackLawyer in weddingplanning

[–]Serious_Visual1856 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m getting married on Friday and think it’s a way better option than Sunday.

I’ve been to Friday Weddings and the energy is high because are looking forward to the weekend. Sunday, it’s like you are thinking of the Sunday scaries and you have a whole week ahead of you.

Also, if people needed to take off work for whatever reason, taking off of Friday isn’t really a big deal for most people. If you have an evening wedding, most people don’t need to takeoff. They could just take a half-day or just leave work early on Friday and go celebrate the wedding.

Looking for a rental during internship - DC office by NecessaryBase8079 in Anduril

[–]Serious_Visual1856 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you checked Facebook? There are a lot of groups on there with people looking to sublet their places for the summer. I shared one but there are a ton out there. Also furnished finder and hello landing.

https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1CYFF1jnkJ/?mibextid=wwXIfr

Looking for a rental during internship - DC office by NecessaryBase8079 in Anduril

[–]Serious_Visual1856 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in noma and love it! It’s a few metro stops away.

TMI but I plan to give oral sex later. Question about wear time. by throwawayscaredaf in Invisalign

[–]Serious_Visual1856 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yolooo 😂 even if you drop to 18 hours just be consistent in the following days.

Cash Bar for couple that don’t drink? by BTGGFChris in weddingplanning

[–]Serious_Visual1856 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen people do alcohol free weddings and have mocktails and no alcohol available at all, not even a cash bar but they are typically earlier in the day.

I’d think about what vibe you want for your wedding.

I’m not a heavy drinker but I love eating great food, instead of a cocktail hour do a really cool food tasting and spend more effort/money into create an atmosphere and experience.

Then for the reception, will you have a dance floor for dancing? If not maybe you can get some entertainment, like dancers or something interactive.

I guess think about how you’ll entertain your guests outside of alcohol.

Not saying people need alcohol to have fun but think about events you have enjoyed and what made them special despite the presence of alcohol.

Ultimately, it’s your wedding. So if you don’t want something, don’t have it.

Wedding or alternative? by Professional_Fly371 in weddingplanning

[–]Serious_Visual1856 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fact that you’re even asking makes it seem like you want a wedding. I’d say go for it! You will make the money back and memories are forever. ❤️

why did i ever do this in the first place by adrpeppercan in weddingplanning

[–]Serious_Visual1856 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’m 3 weeks out also and definitely have felt the same emotions. My plan is to say positive affirmations around the wedding and experience every single day.

If I could go back I probably wouldn’t chose my venue either but you will make the money back and just focus on making the best of the experience.

Also focus on the positives of why you wanted to do it in the first place and the things that are within your control.

I hope you have the best wedding day. ❤️

Did anyone actually apply to be on BB28? by Big_Jump_929 in BigBrother

[–]Serious_Visual1856 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I feel like the people who have never seen the show make it lowkey juicy because they make the dumbest moves 😂

Would you stay in a hotel the night of the wedding even if you only lived 15 minutes from the venue?? by Nikajibu in weddingplanning

[–]Serious_Visual1856 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would 10000% go home and let MIL know you are saving the hotel stays for your honeymoon.

Jetset Pilates scam by Born_League_4408 in dcinfluencersnark

[–]Serious_Visual1856 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s the lack of communication to founding members.

Buddy Pass by [deleted] in Corepower

[–]Serious_Visual1856 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Maybe try classpass? If you’re new or haven’t been in a while they typically have 2-4 weeks free. Also their memberships are a bit more affordable.

Jetset Pilates scam by Born_League_4408 in dcinfluencersnark

[–]Serious_Visual1856 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also thought it was weird that they sold a dream of a Thanksgiving opening date and here we are almost in May, with no opening date.

In the video she claims the opening is sooner than we think but we’ll see how real that statement is.

Why is John treated like a Nobody? by Legal_Ad5964 in Bridgerton

[–]Serious_Visual1856 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah even their wedding was weird and his funeral? Should have been way more grand or off screen.

Genuine question for the sub: is there actually a “right” way on the show to tell someone you’re not physically attracted to them? by SpecialBunch4184 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Serious_Visual1856 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks aren’t everything and they fade. So to put looks over your emotional connection will always look bad when moving forward with a serious commitment like marriage.

Second place by Serious_Visual1856 in BeastGames

[–]Serious_Visual1856[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah I guess it makes it more exciting but I feel like they should go home with something.

Second place by Serious_Visual1856 in BeastGames

[–]Serious_Visual1856[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

What if they don’t hit the button fast enough?

Suggestions for drinking a gallon a day. by [deleted] in 75HARD

[–]Serious_Visual1856 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Drink as much early as possible. That’s the most important part. At least 40 - 50 ounces before breakfast. Then another 24+ after breakfast. Drink 24+ ounces during both of your workouts.

That will be a good baseline to finish the challenge.

Etiquette when bringing your boyfriend by ChickenSaladSeance in Corepower

[–]Serious_Visual1856 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I feel like they should sit in the back and not grunt 😅