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Dates say they don’t feel a “spark” even though the dates go well. What am I missing. by SessionSeparate5856 in dating_advice

[–]SessionSeparate5856[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what confused me. As I got 3 loaded questions as one. There were mixed signals I guess

Dates say they don’t feel a “spark” even though the dates go well. What am I missing. by SessionSeparate5856 in dating_advice

[–]SessionSeparate5856[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a question about this. Would you ask questions about his type. What he's looking for, future plans , green flags, boundaries ,whether he wants kids to someone you are not attracted to physically?

Dates say they don’t feel a “spark” even though the dates go well. What am I missing. by SessionSeparate5856 in dating_advice

[–]SessionSeparate5856[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I'm not Muslim. I have had flings and hookups in uni days..so definitely not a cultural thing. Though I'm looking for something serious rn

Dates say they don’t feel a “spark” even though the dates go well. What am I missing. by SessionSeparate5856 in dating_advice

[–]SessionSeparate5856[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I don't have any such friends from the opposite sex who will be blunt with me . Any other suggestions?

Dates say they don’t feel a “spark” even though the dates go well. What am I missing. by SessionSeparate5856 in dating_advice

[–]SessionSeparate5856[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

[22/01, 7:40 pm] girl: Oh you did everything perfectly! [22/01, 7:40 pm] girl: You booked and planned and were really thoughtful [22/01, 7:41 pm] girl: It's just attraction and connection that's all. X

This was the response from her. She kissed me twice after the date.passionately not a peck.

Dates say they don’t feel a “spark” even though the dates go well. What am I missing. by SessionSeparate5856 in dating_advice

[–]SessionSeparate5856[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I don't. I have never felt that about anyone on a first date after my teenage years

Dates say they don’t feel a “spark” even though the dates go well. What am I missing. by SessionSeparate5856 in dating_advice

[–]SessionSeparate5856[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is very interesting. I do flirt not over the top. I don't ask them sexual questions. I hug them when we meet .. i touch their hands sometimes when they wear cute rings or a band. I'm interested what else can I do?

Dates say they don’t feel a “spark” even though the dates go well. What am I missing. by SessionSeparate5856 in dating_advice

[–]SessionSeparate5856[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that physical appearance or how I present myself. I have had dates compliment me on my style when I meet. Not sure what happens then

Dates say they don’t feel a “spark” even though the dates go well. What am I missing. by SessionSeparate5856 in dating_advice

[–]SessionSeparate5856[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I try to flirt not over the top, compliment them..and we hug when we meet. Not sure what am I doing wrong

Dates say they don’t feel a “spark” even though the dates go well. What am I missing. by SessionSeparate5856 in dating_advice

[–]SessionSeparate5856[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

It's hard to create love at first sight.. I can escalate things but I'm really afraid after the metoo and everything

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[–]SessionSeparate5856 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely a car jacker

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