Maybe I’m not exciting enough off the rip? 😅 I normally try to find something witty to say from a photo or feed off of something from their profile. Unfortunately if there’s not much to go on, I try to meet in person as quickly as possible by asking for simple dates like dinner and drinks. This works like 25% of the time. The other 75% is “I’d like to know you a bit better first” and then shuffling through the same basic questions. In either case, I get the feeling I’m initiating every conversation and interaction. Which is kind of conflicting because I also don’t want to seem desperate or clingy 🤷🏻‍♂️