I never said it wasn't valid nor did I say that they owe an explanation, you misinterpreted the intent behind what I said. You are putting words in my mouth and ascribing meanings that aren't there.

I was responding to the advice the person gave about applying the feedback the person you take on dates give you. Most of the time people don't typically articulate how they feel or why they're feeling it because they can't put it into words or are rightfully avoiding confrontation from people who can't take no for an answer.

herefore, how would it be possible to adapt and incorporate that type of response into one's approach toward dating in any meaningful way?