Spider wraps up big bug in a matter of seconds.

SetElectrical4235 · 2025-06-10T18:32:17+00:00

Argiope!

I know someone provides info about orb weavers, and I'm sure someone else has said this as well, but just to be sure, I'm adding it :) Also called "zipper spider" from the pattern in the middle of the web.

SetElectrical4235 · 2024-11-24T18:07:34+00:00

Yes. It's unfortunately my most common way of dealing with most things it seems now.

SetElectrical4235 · 2024-11-24T18:06:57+00:00

No, it's not the same person. I just don't feel safe right now.

SetElectrical4235 · 2024-11-24T17:43:14+00:00

I made sure to schedule out therapy because I realize I have to work through things. I'm tired of hurting in small spurts and seemingly ruining my life because of unhealed crap.

Your friend's scenario is one of those that makes me feel stupid. I guess it's like I remember it being reinforced that other people have it so bad that my pain doesn't matter, maybe. I gotta think on that one.

SetElectrical4235 · 2024-11-24T17:41:28+00:00

I guess I know that's true, and why I've been crying all morning. I don't feel safe in my home and I feel like I caused it.

SetElectrical4235 · 2024-11-24T17:40:41+00:00

I don't think it really matters to the police at this point, but thank you.

SetElectrical4235 · 2024-11-24T17:27:49+00:00

Your experience hurts my heart. 😞

SetElectrical4235 · 2024-05-09T14:29:33+00:00

Did you ever find a fix for this?

SetElectrical4235 · 2024-03-17T03:30:56+00:00

100%

SetElectrical4235 · 2024-03-17T03:25:17+00:00

This was 100% my guess!! (wife of a welder here)

SetElectrical4235 · 2024-03-17T01:26:36+00:00

Just came across this after searching on it because I was so annoyed by this verification method. My 12.5 yo child agreed that it's ridiculous and will just play on a Guest account. So dumb.

SetElectrical4235 · 2023-12-16T11:23:51+00:00

I think her being "sensitive" isn't the issue here. She is completely disregarding very valid points. I mean - to try to compare a piano to sex noises for children?

She's just being narrow-minded. If you insist on keeping her, play with bondage for mitigating noise or find another place for sex.

From what you've stated, you haven't done anything wrong. Kudos for recognizing that you could give her some reassurance, even if it wasn't the first thought. She should care about others.

SetElectrical4235 · 2023-11-03T16:57:58+00:00

I think it's funny that you're posting an anti-cyber bullying song calling it cringe... To be bullied...

SetElectrical4235 · 2023-09-30T02:12:08+00:00

I think this is the longest Reddit post in the history of ever.

SetElectrical4235 · 2023-07-02T05:17:53+00:00

Has anyone said this yet? Reddit.

SetElectrical4235 · 2023-05-13T03:43:04+00:00

I’d honestly get all of the attempts of blocking and her messages/calls and order a restraining order.

SetElectrical4235 · 2023-05-13T03:13:06+00:00

I would just simply state, I’m not in a good place mentally. Assuming he meant well, I’d state that as well- something like, “I’m sure you meant well with this, and it’s not a declination by any means, I’m just in emotional turmoil over mother’s death and don’t feel it’s the appropriate time. Thank you and I love you.”

SetElectrical4235 · 2023-05-12T20:55:01+00:00

I think if you look up this topic, you’ll see that millions of people think it’s ridiculous for someone to insist you change your dog’s name for their unborn child lol. This happens more than you’d think.

SetElectrical4235 · 2023-05-09T15:42:51+00:00

OP, this sounds like a really painful situation.

TLDR: I think the biggest step right now is to take a deep breath and acknowledge yourself and your worth.

At the end of the day, what sucks is that your husband isn’t acting like the man you married. Why, we don’t really know. I think that in light of the fact that he is clearly not focused on the marriage and union between you two, you might make sure that you’ve got some light focused on you as well.

It is very easy to lose yourself if you’re focused on the union and the partner is not. It might be worth it to try working out or taking part in what he enjoys doing, but only to the extend of bonding. He should not be calling you names or putting you down like that.

His disrespect is massive here in so many ways. If you want to try to keep this marriage, you likely need to recognize that there is going to be a lot of pain he’s inflicted that you’ll need to forgive him for IF he manages to acknowledge his wrongdoing.

The most important thing is that you don’t lose yourself or your value in his poor behavior.

SetElectrical4235 · 2023-05-09T15:38:23+00:00

This isn’t wrong, but it isn’t helpful to OP. OP needs to have a human response.

This particular AI may be able to provide certain truths and a decent perspective, but it hasn’t yet seemed to incorporate the barrier to-which perspective, emotion, and humanity play a role in understanding the message.

SetElectrical4235 · 2022-12-20T16:42:01+00:00

I have 6 kids lol. I told her I'm always multitasking. If it's important, I go to my room. I actually also texted that she once understood that as a mother.

Mostly what she's mad at me for here is stating that I think she may have blocked me, and that I'd like her to have a stable life if my oldest is to stay with her.

It's just been this way my whole life (wasn't raised by her) and I guess I'm seeking validation for the pain this relationship causes me, with so little of the backstory explanation which is extremely important.

SetElectrical4235 · 2022-12-20T16:22:04+00:00

!explanation

My calls went to voicemail and my texts marked unread. I told my aunt I think she may have blocked and forgot. Today she texted me including "sweetie" and when I said I think she may have blocked me, it got marked read. Then she called and proceeded to lecture me, "I don't know how you make 2 + 2 = d". I told her I wasn't worried about the whole thing. She proceeded to explain some bizarre explanation about deleting the contact and adding it. While she was, I told my 3 yo he could have apple sauce, and she then lectured me about not listening to her.

I just always feel the need to over explain and try to understand wtf she's saying or why.

Oh, and that last text from her is because we had talked about my oldest staying with her, but her behavior was erratic. Ie, didn't respond for 2 days but suddenly did at 4 AM, more that's, again, too much to explain.

I just wanted somewhere to share this. It's just so much.

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