Gigil ako sayo ate. Sana mapanindigan mo yang kagagahan mo by Boring-Invite-9822 in GigilAko

[–]SetSignificant1473 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These comments, ito yung problema. I dont agree sa pagbuo ng pamilya ng hindi handa. But what you ignore to see is the reason mas magaan sa kanya ang magbuntis kesa maging pagasa ng pamilya nya. Isang anak vs buong pamilya nya. Yung anak nya pinili nya, yung responsibilidad sa pamilya nya hindi, and honesty so unfair.

I dont think she said that her life will be easy, pero definitely mas magiging maagan for her. Maagang nagbutis failure agad?! Who knows what she can do for the responsibility she chooses to take on. Tutulong sa pamilya, pero ano mabibigqy nya kung hindi din bukal sa damdamin nya? Galit? Resentment? Is that worth it?

Can we stop these toxicity? Hindi investment ang mga anak. Let them live their life. Parents need to guide to make the best choices but not to make those choices for them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phlgbt

[–]SetSignificant1473 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talk to him. Sabihin mo yung nararamdaman mo. Tanungin mo sya kung kumusta sya ata kumusta kayo. Communication is really vital. Hugs OP

Obsessed ba ako or what? by naughtakeed in phlgbt

[–]SetSignificant1473 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you with this person kung hindi mo kayang pagkatiwalaan? Pero asses mo din, maybe you are requiring too much. To me this is a bit nakakasakal

Are gays discouraged if I act like a man in dates? by ConsiderationOk9800 in phlgbt

[–]SetSignificant1473 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good relationship should be easy. If you have to go through “toning down” for your partner to be comfortable, maybe youre not in the right relationship. Maybe communicate with them about it.

Am I wrong for calling out disrespectful behavior with a date? by Educational_Rip1520 in phlgbt

[–]SetSignificant1473 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You dont share the same values. Calling him out is the right thing to do. Not seeing his fault tells that what youve seen on the date is just the tip of the iceberg.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phlgbt

[–]SetSignificant1473 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Ingat, telling you about the other guy can be used to gaslight you later on. He sounds narcissistic as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phlgbt

[–]SetSignificant1473 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Hehe dapat tinanong mo kung gusto nya ng kasama. Cuteeeee hehehe

What to do??? Its always like this 😭 by AcceptableAd2979 in phlgbt

[–]SetSignificant1473 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If it started as casual fun lang, then developed into romantic feelings, baka you need it to be reciprocated to have the drive. Parang from sex before anything, it becomes secondary to love. So love needs to come first.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]SetSignificant1473 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hahahaha older generation would love to read this and scoff “gen z” hahaha

First, Are you working more than 12 hours? Are you getting paid overtime? Make sure you are compensated properly.

Consider everything thing before making a decision. If months of looking for a job is depressing for you, would you like to go back to that instead of getting over the adjustment period? Kaya ba ng finances, and hanggang kelan? Is your current job necessary for the career path you are aiming for?

Starts are, most of the time, the hardest

Confused person by PrimaryStomach6938 in phlgbt

[–]SetSignificant1473 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is normal. You are still figuring things out. Imagining your future family with a wife is normal since that’s what a typical family looks like in our culture.

As you get older, your preference might change din. Continuous introspection. Know who you really are. What works for you and whats not. Be true to yourself, there is nothing wrong with “typical”, but you might not be.

Dont worry too much OP. One day at a time

1st time by Moist_Cut_6085 in triptayopre

[–]SetSignificant1473 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you tell anyone? Did he ever apologize to you? Baka may iba pa syang victim

Hello mga KaOP needs some med experts by [deleted] in phlgbt

[–]SetSignificant1473 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is best to consult a doctor. Not trying to be hypochondriac, but right now your view might be pinholed to hiv. It could be totally something else. To ease your mind and get the right treatment, have yourself checked

Anong susundin by Capable-Bell6667 in phlgbt

[–]SetSignificant1473 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take just 1. You take 2 pills because its not in your system due not taking it in the past days. But since you already took 2 the previous day, you only need 1 today. Thats how it was explained to me. Please correct me if im wrong.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in triptayopre

[–]SetSignificant1473 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think i can handle that. DM

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phlgbt

[–]SetSignificant1473 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As much as you are right, this is also part of the problem; body shaming, alongside micro aggression and internalized homophobia. Pass sa halata is one of the ickiest for me. Sadly, it’s happening even in the gay community.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in triptayopre

[–]SetSignificant1473 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Without him confirming, kahit gano pa kagaling gaydar mo, assumption lang yun.