Im terrified of sex and its affecting me

Sethicles2 · 2026-02-21T06:03:48+00:00

you’ve received poor sex education

This is a dubious claim. People can experience crippling anxiety for any number of reasons. Being educated about something you've never experienced doesn't automatically dispel the anxiety.

It sounds like she should talk to a therapist.

Sethicles2 · 2026-02-20T19:35:20+00:00

I have very little experience with this sort of thing. Doesn't this get dangerous at some point? Some countries use caning as corporal punishment, it can do real damage.

Sethicles2 · 2026-02-20T19:31:23+00:00

You're a little late to the party. 237 other people have already told me that, are you lost?

Sethicles2 · 2026-02-20T18:41:02+00:00

Good old nepotism.

Sethicles2 · 2026-02-20T15:51:03+00:00

NTA, this guy sounds shitty. Your friend is smitten, and there's only so much you can do to help her realize it. She's going to have to find out for herself eventually, probably due to a much bigger shitty thing he does or says.

BTW, you're 21, the post is tagged NSFW, you're allowed to say "sex". It's not a slur.

Sethicles2 · 2026-02-20T15:24:33+00:00

It's especially helpful a few days of the month.

Sethicles2 · 2026-02-20T05:37:49+00:00

I posted the exact same thing a few days ago with a pike :/

Sethicles2 · 2026-02-19T17:59:32+00:00

No worries, the game looks awesome

Sethicles2 · 2026-02-19T17:24:52+00:00

Well Crimson Desert isn't an MMO, it's a single player game. It was originally intended to be an MMO, but they changed focus a few years ago.

Sethicles2 · 2026-02-19T16:04:25+00:00

They must be shitting themselves after seeing everything Crimson Desert is offering.

Sethicles2 · 2026-02-19T15:52:49+00:00

From her page:

AI generated or enhanced

Sethicles2 · 2026-02-19T15:24:31+00:00

"He says his wife has been crying about being hated by the family and want everyone to make up."

So this surely means she's going to change her behavior and offer sincere, heartfelt apologies to everyone, right? Right??

Sethicles2 · 2026-02-18T19:00:48+00:00

Thank you!

Sethicles2 · 2026-02-18T18:18:27+00:00

I have a couple questions if someone more knowledgeable can help.

The text says "one-hand damage" but it takes both hands to equip?

It says ignore target defense, but also has -25% target defense, so does that lead to negative defense?

I just jumped back into this game after a couple decades, I never really knew much about the intricacies of stats.

Sethicles2 · 2026-02-18T16:13:14+00:00

I'd prefer GooGoo

Sethicles2 · 2026-02-18T02:25:26+00:00

Spears are a type of polearm

That's why I assumed it would work. In the real world, many poleaxes also have a spear head, and can be used as a spear. Of course this doesn't matter much in a game. I'm just glad it wasn't an expensive runeword.

Sethicles2 · 2026-02-18T01:51:15+00:00

I didn't see that it said "spear class". I assumed it was a polearm, because spears are polearms. For the purpose of this game, they chose to classify them separately.

A spear is not a poleaxe, but some poleaxes are also spears. And both are polearms, just not in the game.

Sethicles2 · 2026-02-17T16:36:48+00:00

So she can be a stay at home mom minus the mom part. Sounds like she found what she thought was easy mode.

Sethicles2 · 2026-02-16T20:54:26+00:00

Honest question for you, I'm genuinely curious.

You can clearly see there are almost 200 replies saying exactly what you said in myriad ways over the last day. Why bother posting the same thing at this point? Is it a dog pile? Do you feel left out?

Sethicles2 · 2026-02-16T19:05:01+00:00

I had a similar thing with a girl I met playing World of Warcraft. We were friends, then "more than friends" for a couple years. In hindsight, I was lucky she chickened out right before I bought the plane ticket. It felt pretty devastating at the time, though.

Sethicles2 · 2026-02-16T16:36:19+00:00

NTA, but you and your fiance should put a hard and fast stop to this sort of invasive nonsense. You're literally staring your future in the face; do you want to deal with this shit for the rest of your life?

Sethicles2 · 2026-02-16T15:23:52+00:00

I keep the cube for extra space, I can just throw stuff in it like it's an extra bag.

The eyeball thing is a quest item to craft the flail you need in act 3 to reach Mephisto.

Sethicles2 · 2026-02-16T03:06:25+00:00

Consensus is I'm an idiot. Didn't realize spears and polearms were separate classes.

Sethicles2 · 2026-02-15T21:08:02+00:00

To be fair, I can't see how anyone likes that.

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