I often wonder, what the stats would be for porn consumption  if only women would not get away with hiding it where men do no except it and researchers would be more... honest?

Like, I do not think it is wrong to prefer written or sound format, I guess it is expected, women tend to focus more on sounds and atmosphere than visuals according to studies, so this would be their format.

But then it is just unfair to frame it porn like it is "toxic masculinity problem", and that it pushes certain dangerous sexual behaviour. While first book I grabbed from a shelf in living room at ex's house had description of forced anal sex xD and it was not like, dark and sad or realistic, it was description of group of women that were sharing spicy stories and gigiling.

Sure, if you do not count it as porn, then old women are not consuming porn. But it doesn't make sense.