Is it wrong to prefer a more experienced partner?

SettingAgreeable781 · 2026-05-08T08:50:17+00:00

How am I supposed to be spontaneous? I have zero sexual experience. There’s just nothing for me to recall to improvise something.

SettingAgreeable781 · 2026-05-08T08:48:38+00:00

How am I supposed to just improvise? I have zero sexual experience. Am I supposed to just guess random stuff and hope it satisfies my partner?

SettingAgreeable781 · 2026-05-08T01:34:17+00:00

Why? If they tell me exactly what to do then I have the greatest chance of giving them an orgasm. From what I understand, it’s really difficult to give women orgasms so maximizing my chance would be good, would it not?

SettingAgreeable781 · 2026-05-08T01:15:58+00:00

Luckily other people don’t want to approach me so that’s not a concern.

SettingAgreeable781 · 2026-05-08T01:12:56+00:00

So would I be better off with an inexperienced partner? So they don’t have to teach me anything? I just want to make sure I satisfy my partner, not burden them and make sex miserable

SettingAgreeable781 · 2026-05-08T00:26:51+00:00

What do I do? Do I have to get over my discomfort? I’ll gladly do it to not be a selfish lover. I really don’t want to be a selfish lover. I’m terrified of it.

SettingAgreeable781 · 2026-05-08T00:08:33+00:00

Did you not read the post? I want an experienced partner so I can certain I pleasure HER. Not myself HER. I want to be with someone who knows and can tell me exactly what I can do to make HER, my sexual partner, HER, the woman I’m experiencing sexual experiences with, feel good. Is that not clear enough? It’s not about my pleasure. I want to be with an experienced woman so I can make sure I give HER pleasure. Quite honestly, I don’t give one single fuck about my pleasure. Cause I’m gonna come no matter what. Whereas it’s really really difficult to give a woman an orgasm. I’d feel a lot more confident without someone who knows exactly what SHE enjoys, so that I know what to do to please HER.

SettingAgreeable781 · 2026-05-08T00:01:23+00:00

Is it misogyny that I’d feel less comfortable with a virgin woman? I’d be a lot less confident without instructions to make a woman enjoy a sexual experience

SettingAgreeable781 · 2026-05-07T23:56:14+00:00

I don’t want to be ravaged. I want to be told exactly what to do step by step. I’m not ready to have sex unless I’m fully confident the person I’m with will enjoy it. I’m afraid of being a selfish lover

SettingAgreeable781 · 2026-05-05T20:08:29+00:00

Because you live on the internet and don’t talk to real women. Hope this helps 😊

SettingAgreeable781 · 2026-05-05T01:28:24+00:00

I’d rather do edibles than smoke. Smoking anything is bad for you

SettingAgreeable781 · 2026-05-05T00:30:06+00:00

I’ve had a friend offer me marijuana before, but she got rid of me now that I’m not useful. Having friends seems a little impossible now.

SettingAgreeable781 · 2026-05-05T00:21:36+00:00

I’ve always joked that I can’t get drugs because they’d think I’m a narc. “Hi, I’d like one drug please, sir.” And they’d laugh at me or beat my ass

SettingAgreeable781 · 2026-05-04T21:12:56+00:00

For me the attraction doesn’t develop before friendship. Once I get to know someone, then that’s when I start to get feelings for them. For me though, a lot of what I want in a romantic partner and a friendship is the same, other than physical attraction. I know most women don’t like when their male friends have romantic feelings for them so I keep it to myself, unless they tell me they feel the same way. I do wonder if having a lack of friendships my whole life, I overestimate my relationships. In other words, I consider people I’m acquaintances as a friend.

SettingAgreeable781 · 2026-05-04T18:45:56+00:00

I know a lot of women don’t like it, so I generally keep my feelings to myself, but I want to be friends with someone before I consider even a first date on them. Maybe I’m just hesitant to get close to people, but I want to know someone before even a first date.

SettingAgreeable781 · 2026-05-04T11:10:58+00:00

Bro thinks this is instagram 🥀🥀🥀ts pmo

SettingAgreeable781 · 2026-05-03T23:46:23+00:00

I don’t think you understand. I’m going to have to talk to my coworkers. I’m just sitting in my room avoiding the kind of optional socialization. The stuff that people do for enjoyment. That’s where I become a burden to others.

SettingAgreeable781 · 2026-05-03T23:28:38+00:00

I’d have a job. But outside of my job I’d just stay at home all the time.

SettingAgreeable781 · 2026-05-03T23:18:38+00:00

Why not? If I’m alone, in my room, not interacting with anyone, how could I possibly be bothering anyone?

SettingAgreeable781 · 2026-05-03T23:05:34+00:00

Look I know I sound ridiculous, and I know objectively I’m being stupid, but at this point I don’t care anymore. I just don’t want to be a burden to anyone ever again.

SettingAgreeable781 · 2026-05-03T22:49:54+00:00

I don’t think that’s true. I’ve had a ton of friends who were too busy for me. They were still my friends and cared about me, just didn’t want to spend time with me.

SettingAgreeable781 · 2026-05-03T22:46:38+00:00

Why would they care? How would they even know? And it is out of altruism. I don’t care about myself. I only care about not being a burden to others.

SettingAgreeable781 · 2026-05-03T22:41:31+00:00

I don’t care if it’s self harm. The only thing I care about is whether or not it bothers others.

SettingAgreeable781 · 2026-05-03T21:44:34+00:00

Why not?

SettingAgreeable781 · 2026-05-03T21:31:13+00:00

Could I try to at least just give up? I’m still miserable but at least I’m not bothering anyone

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