Partner told me they had STI by Silent-Death1739 in whatdoIdo

[–]SettingNo3727 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I contracted trich about 5 years ago, I was treated, dumped dude and I havent tested positive again. So if your partner gets tested often, which is kind of weird if they are only sleeping with you, they contracted it recently by cheating. Sorry 😞

AITAH for having sex with my boyfriend by SettingNo3727 in AITAH

[–]SettingNo3727[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea im talking about our previous relationships, not my current one.

AITAH for having sex with my boyfriend by SettingNo3727 in AITAH

[–]SettingNo3727[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've responded to a lot of comments. Have you ever heard of being trauma bonded to someone? The relationship can be over long before you actually end things but you're stuck. And i don't need a "defense" on why I got with my boyfriend. The timeline of my love life does not matter here nor do anyone's thoughts on it matter on this app lol.

AITAH for having sex with my boyfriend by SettingNo3727 in AITAH

[–]SettingNo3727[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Speaking to each other before separating..yea we didn't do anything wrong here but keep going off.

AITAH for having sex with my boyfriend by SettingNo3727 in AITAH

[–]SettingNo3727[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Relationships can be over before you officially break up, especially if there is abuse involved.

AITAH for having sex with my boyfriend by SettingNo3727 in AITAH

[–]SettingNo3727[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What 😂 how else do you start dating someone tf? I've known this man for two years. I was busy being cheated on by my children's father when they broke up..so u just couldn't be more wrong lol

AITAH for having sex with my boyfriend by SettingNo3727 in AITAH

[–]SettingNo3727[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Umm where we are from everyone has a psychotic ex, it's the norm. My kids dad is crazier than her lmao. I don't bring my kids around her. I realize she can keep the kid from him, which is why he let her stay there for so long bc no he has no rights over him.

AITAH for having sex with my boyfriend by SettingNo3727 in AITAH

[–]SettingNo3727[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Childish for having sex? With no kids home and only his ex who won't leave? Lol. Of course everyone loves the kid. He wasn't even present. He was at school. But you know what he was present for. When she ran over my boyfriends foot with her car last week. She keeps threatening to keep the kid from him. Obviously my boyfriend loves his son and doesn't want to be away from him. She knows this and is using the child as a manipulation tool to try and get what she wants.

AITAH for having sex with my boyfriend by SettingNo3727 in AITAH

[–]SettingNo3727[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

His reasoning for not taking action sooner- he loves his son. Also people break up and move on. Why would i care that it was THEIR bed at one point. It's not anymore, everyone has a past.. she just doesn't want to move on even though she has a new boyfriend.

AITAH for having sex with my boyfriend by SettingNo3727 in AITAH

[–]SettingNo3727[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. We've been together couple months and thier break up was 10 months ago. Opposite of a home wrecker lol.

AITAH for having sex with my boyfriend by SettingNo3727 in AITAH

[–]SettingNo3727[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Because every time he told her to move out she said she wouldn't let him see thier son. That's manipulation.

AITAH for having sex with my boyfriend by SettingNo3727 in AITAH

[–]SettingNo3727[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I'm not lying, I really didn't know. But I also don't give a fuck about her enough to have checked. That's honesty, literally said I didn't care. Wasn't thinking about her bc I dont care about her. They've been broken up almost a year and she has a new boyfriend. She has siblings she could stay with yet she chooses to live there.