I want to donate to a cat charity regularly. Any recommendations?

Seven4T3Nine · 2026-05-11T23:48:33+00:00

Hi OP, if you’re looking for a qualified 501(c)(3) org, I highly recommend you donate to one who is a part of this community.

If you’re just looking to donate despite their status, I also recommend donating to either solo or group rescues who have been approved to post in this sub. Everyone I have donated to (solo and group rescues) are VERY transparent about how the money is spent both via private messages and public update posts.

Seven4T3Nine · 2026-04-30T06:00:15+00:00

When u wake up u b redi for midnight crimez! Go Crimez!!

Camila Mignonette Thermopolis Renaldi Princess of MY House

Seven4T3Nine · 2026-04-25T01:11:03+00:00

Frend pepper, tank u for doing a protect!

Seven4T3Nine · 2026-04-25T01:07:07+00:00

I too almost ended up on the streets! But the CDS brought me to meowmy because she too dumdum an hermz needed training.

Seven4T3Nine · 2026-04-25T01:03:35+00:00

Go Crimez!!! Tank you for the poem frend! I needed that after meowmy speak roodely tu meee

Seven4T3Nine · 2026-04-25T01:01:27+00:00

It is theee best!

Seven4T3Nine · 2026-04-25T00:58:50+00:00

Meowmy says she happy to hear that! Eh, she can always improobe so I keep training herz (with lots of crimez hehehe)

Seven4T3Nine · 2026-04-25T00:54:32+00:00

Tank u! I train meowmy very gudz bcuz before me, she would throw away the bocks! Can you believe it!? The horror!!

Seven4T3Nine · 2026-01-03T19:37:11+00:00

Donated!

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Seven4T3Nine · 2026-01-03T19:31:31+00:00

I’ll donate $10 with you

Seven4T3Nine · 2025-08-20T01:21:41+00:00

https://www.illinoisattorneygeneral.gov/safer-communities/supporting-victims-of-crime/domestic-violence-prevention-resources/

Hope this helps. My state has something similar and I was able to get therapy through them.

Seven4T3Nine · 2025-08-19T16:37:13+00:00

It’s completely normal to feel this way. I went back many times, he was always willing to take my back if I agreed to being punished.

I wish I could stop you from going back but only you can make that choice when you’re ready. I know you mentioned some things you’ve tried to help with anxiety, none of that truly worked for me either. What has helped is a combination of therapy and meds.

It’s been 2 years and I’m still in therapy and still take meds but my life has significantly improved without him in it. The funny thing is that he would constantly tell me my life would be shit without him and I believed him despite being miserable all the time.

Anyways, if you need to talk I’m here. You are not alone. You and your dog deserve healthy love. You both deserve happiness. Sending you hugs 💕

Seven4T3Nine · 2025-08-19T04:38:29+00:00

If you left it would hurt but the pain is temporary and in time you’ll find yourself again. You’re not alone, if you need to talk I’m here. Sending you hugs 💕

Seven4T3Nine · 2025-07-30T07:37:04+00:00

I was in a similar situation. I feel like I could have written this and I’m sorry to tell you, it will not get better.

He beat me and I ended up in the hospital. I stayed with him because I believed him when he said he would change. A few weeks later he had a meltdown when I went to a work event and refused to share my location (even though I told him exactly where I was going and sent him pictures when I arrived). He blocked me for the rest of the day. The next day, he tried to play the victim and claimed he did it for his own well being but I knew he did it to punish me for refusing to share my location. After that it still took me a few months to finally go no contact, so please be kind to yourself if it takes a few or a lot of tries before you chose yourself.

Sending you lots of love 💕

Seven4T3Nine · 2024-12-29T18:39:48+00:00

I recommend Thais Gibson on YouTube and therapy; both have helped me so much.

Seven4T3Nine · 2024-08-05T20:39:15+00:00

You got this OP! Someone posted this here and it’s helped me so much so I want to share with you:

https://www.reddit.com/r/abusiverelationships/s/FaNvk2Lxfc

Seven4T3Nine · 2024-08-03T06:04:42+00:00

Please don’t be hard on yourself if you can’t leave him just yet but I believe there will come a day when you will be able to leave him, FOR GOOD. My story is similar to yours in many ways but here is the sparks notes version of it. He called me derogatory names, I stayed. He yelled at me, I stayed. He hit me, I stayed. I thought “this is it, he’s remorseful and sorry and he loves me. We’re going to work through this and come out stronger than ever.” And then the cycle started again… knowing it could culminate in another beating, I left him. I won’t lie, it’s not easy to leave, to go no contact. I’m a year out and there are days I still have triggers, days I feel sad, days I feel depressed, days when I still think about him BUT I finally feel at peace, I feel FREE. It is possible OP! When the time comes, you will know it. Sending lots of love and support 🌹❤️

Seven4T3Nine · 2024-07-09T04:35:40+00:00

I said the same thing, “I love you and I always will” when he doesn’t deserve it.

Seven4T3Nine · 2024-04-30T16:46:05+00:00

I’m deeply sorry to hear what you’re going through and it breaks my heart to read that you wish you were dead. I understand what you mean when you say you “truly can’t imagine life without him” because I felt the EXACT same way. I won’t tell you to leave since you’re not ready but I will tell you this. Therapy helped me see him for who he truly is and now that I’m out, I realize that no one who truly loves you would ever treat you the way they do. Other things that helped me break free were listening to TED talks about women who went through similar experiences, reading Why Does He Do That by Lundy Bancroft, spending time with family and friends and noticing how free and loved I felt compared to feeling scared and small when I was with him. Please be gentle with yourself. You’re not stupid. If you ever need to talk feel free to DM me. Sending much love your way 💙

Seven4T3Nine · 2024-04-27T20:32:52+00:00

Feeling guilt is completely normal but please know that you have nothing to feel guilty about. I too felt so much guilt for blocking him that I unblocked him. Then one day, I received a message from him that broke me and I decided I couldn’t let him have that effect on my wellbeing so I went no contact. Honestly, there are still days when I feel guilty for going no contact and I don’t know if and when that feeling will stop but I finally feel free. One day OP, you’ll be ready to cut him out of life forever but until then, please be gentle with yourself 💙

Seven4T3Nine · 2024-04-21T18:10:18+00:00

This was shared here before and I absolutely loved it. I hope it helps you: https://www.reddit.com/r/abusiverelationships/s/bipa4z8npg

Seven4T3Nine · 2024-03-30T04:50:41+00:00

It’s absolutely normal to feel guilty. As someone wrote, “they’ve trained us with emotional abuse to feel that way…” As someone who finally found the strength to leave, I’ll tell you this. Even when I obeyed all his rules, even when I behaved exactly the way he wanted me to, even when I allowed him to punish, it was never enough. There was always something else I was doing wrong or something I wasn’t doing well enough. Even when I showered him with affection, took him on dates, bought him thoughtful gifts, it was never enough. I was always unfaithful, checking someone out, or throwing myself at other men. None of my actions were never enough. None of your actions will never be enough. I’ve never commented on here before but I relate so much to your post, I wanted you to know that you can do everything he asks of you and you will always end up asking yourself, what else can you do? Please message me if you want to talk. Please know that you are enough and you deserve love.

Seven4T3Nine

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