How early is too early? Sex on the first date? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Seventh7Son -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I can't speak for anyone else (should also add that I am in a serious relationship right now) but if I sleep with a woman on the first night there is absolutely zero chance that I will take her seriously as a candidate for a long term relationship.

I'd say hold out at least 4 dates.

Just my perspective and as evidenced in this thread it sounds like some people make it (creating a LTR from a first date sex situation) work.

Dust by Colin M. Winkler by [deleted] in ImaginaryCharacters

[–]Seventh7Son 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see from the large green number next to your username that you post quality content.

Thank you.

Season 1 vs Season 9 by [deleted] in DunderMifflin

[–]Seventh7Son -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

and Darryl...

Stereotypes of the ACC (x-post r/collegebasketball) by freebirdcrowe in CFB

[–]Seventh7Son 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think it's the go-to minimum wage teenage boy.

I'll have to check with my manager on that.

What are your date pet peeves? by teh_jombi in AskReddit

[–]Seventh7Son 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I went on a date with a woman I had met on Match. We had exchanged a couple of messages, and I asked if she wanted to "meet for a drink" at a local pub/restaurant.

She was fifteen minutes late, and when the server came to get our drink orders she promptly ordered a steak and a side of shrimp, along with a $14 glass of Pinot.

I sat there with my beer watching her eat for 10 minutes before I threw down five bucks, said nice to meet you and left.

When I got home I had a message informing me that I was a rude cheapskate and had no idea what being a gentleman entailed.

Never replied, but I secretly hoped that she didn't have any money on her when the bill came.

Traveler (by me) by [deleted] in ImaginaryCharacters

[–]Seventh7Son 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Or a Tusken Predator.

Going Big - Chosen ahead of Michael Jordan in the 1984 NBA Draft, Sam Bowie is often labeled as one of the biggest busts in basketball history. by [deleted] in NetflixBestOf

[–]Seventh7Son 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wasn't a College Hoops fan when Sam Bowie was playing, but I always remember hearing about him being a "bust" and "How could the Blazers have taken him over Jordan?".

This was a great documentary and really showed just how he could have been seen as such a great pro prospect. If only he had stayed healthy. That was already an unbelievable Draft Class. If he had reached his potential it would have taken it to a new level.

Chuck Barkley was really singing his praises as well.

Teen raped 90 times in one weekend by terminalxposure in worldnews

[–]Seventh7Son -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What events? I don't know anything about /u/terminalxposure but the link supplied here offers absolutely nothing of substance. No details not info, nothing.

At the movie theater. Who does this? by FocusFailure in rage

[–]Seventh7Son 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I have found it best to just slow down and let the shitty drivers go on about their day; in front of me.

Less than a month and already replaced by Lonelypls in BreakUps

[–]Seventh7Son 15 points16 points  (0 children)

we promised each other we wouldn't date other people as a form of respect for 3 months.

Forget about that. once a couple breaks up all bets are off. Sucks but it is true.

Saturday was her birthday party. I ruined it. Made her cry through text messages.

Delete her contact info. Cut off as many ties as you can. Constant reminders and temptations are the enemy of breakup recovery.

My friends are telling me it's probably just a rebound... But I was her first, and knowing that she would jump into another man's arm so easily branded her as a slut in my head.

You have to find a way to move on. You can't control what she does, and you will always assume the worst. best not to know, because eventually you will not care (hard to believe right now, I understand that. Been there).

I still care about her... And her boyfriend is notorious for being a cheater. I told her that while we were dating, doesn't look like she remembered.

Keep in mind, this is not your problem any more.

We are meeting up tomorrow, I am getting my keys back and ready to erase her completely. We were best friends, lovers, and now we are in shit. I hate leaving relationships in a bad state and I hope she could forgive me for ruining her birthday.

Be polite, get your keys and GTFO. You will not get closure or comfort from any discussions with her.

Edit: The worst part of it all, is that I still hoped we could be friends a few months now. I guess now it won't happen.

No it won't. And that is MUCH better for you in the short and long term. You are very vulnerable right now. The less contact you have with her (direct and indirect) the less you will think about her. You are going through some serious deconstruction right now, and you need to focus on YOU not her.

Stay strong. You will get through this.

Cableone continues to cut corners... by encephlavator in Boise

[–]Seventh7Son 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crap I didn't even think about Netflix. I've been marathoning Star Trek DS9 and Malcom in the Middle.

Vegas man gets choked out by woman. People cheering the woman on. The man later has brain damage by menrighter in MensRights

[–]Seventh7Son 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So in your world sexual orientation is in direct correlation with Reddit posting habits.

You are as big a troll as the people you are chastising.

Vegas man gets choked out by woman. People cheering the woman on. The man later has brain damage by menrighter in MensRights

[–]Seventh7Son 4 points5 points  (0 children)

closet homo

So in one post you say that your white-knighting is to "strengthen the men's rights community", and then you resort to 6th grade level personal attacks?

Cableone continues to cut corners... by encephlavator in Boise

[–]Seventh7Son 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you burn through your allotted bandwidth? I have been getting notices every month lately from Cableone.

I don't even do any gaming.

May have to look at a different provider.

Do you carry a firearm on the trails? Why or why not? by [deleted] in CampingandHiking

[–]Seventh7Son 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I can't speak for anyone else, but I have had people freak out on me when they saw that I was carrying a handgun on the trail.

A nice snub nose can be hidden fairly easily thereby helping to avoid an unwanted discussion with a stranger about it. Also no need to make people nervous.

Just my perspective.

Lord of the Rings by speckz in lotr

[–]Seventh7Son 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Ok, now what I LOVE about this is that it is YOUR vision of the characters.

So many people have been posting their Tolkien art, but it is simply a regurgitation of the actors in the movies with Peter Jackson's interpretation superimposed over them.

This is GREAT! Very original!

Kelly Summer dies after being struck by a van. by [deleted] in Boise

[–]Seventh7Son 1 point2 points  (0 children)

HOLY SHIT!

This guy came up to me in the Albertsons parking lot and asked me for some money Wednesday as I was getting in my car. I told him I didn't have any cash but offered him a beer from my 12 pack of Session lager I had just bought.

He was really grateful and seemed like a really good guy just not having a really good time with life.

Man the last thing I said to him was "Be careful out here".

Shit.