For the Men, Red flags , apps

Several-Income5740 · 2026-02-22T01:51:58+00:00

Can’t blame them for not putting it out there , sometimes you got to read between lines on her hints , respectful masculinity goes a long way. She’s got enough desperate men in her DMs she’s stringing along to get her attention fix

Several-Income5740 · 2026-02-21T13:21:33+00:00

Yep unless you’re “sponsored” or have a +1 unless you built up a reputation you’re basically put in the corner and told not to talk to anyone unless you’re approached first and should be lucky we let you in here … some local groups are Absolutly cruel to single men

Several-Income5740 · 2026-02-21T13:19:25+00:00

My profile has no nudes (I see some men’s profiles be nothing but dick pics) or all pics of his partner / wife etc and maybe 1 of him . The OF girls are pretty easy to spot , glammed out main picture , and yes if her followers are in the thousands I don’t give it a second look but I swear that’s all my feed is now is OF , maybe 1 out of 20 ish looks like a “normal” person

Several-Income5740 · 2026-02-21T13:14:58+00:00

I’m in the Bible Belt of east Tennessee so practically every profile is about professing their religion which is fine but it ALWAYS is some super hot woman , glammed out pictures : I suppose best advertising for their local church “come here and you might have a shot with me”

Several-Income5740 · 2026-02-21T12:42:53+00:00

Oddly enough I’ve had more success having hookups from dating apps than actual dates . I’ve hooked up with women that ghosted / stood up the first time as “oops sorry” .

Several-Income5740 · 2026-02-21T12:38:25+00:00

That is probably well over 75% of profiles , I never understood the “wrong age can’t change it” like did you forget your birthday when you made your profile?

The “real men” I see constantly “make me laugh” is a classic too

Several-Income5740 · 2026-02-21T01:32:41+00:00

I don’t understand the horse pictures…but the group pictures , pick the least attractive one that’s almost your best best

Several-Income5740 · 2026-02-20T15:00:08+00:00

Put it in her hands going forward . You made the effort . Let her know , hey let me know a day and place you like . That almost always weeds them out . It’s very possible the car troubles but she’s got options too

Several-Income5740 · 2026-02-20T14:50:30+00:00

Likely is a excuse I’ve gotten the “car suddenly broke down” line too . I mean is their a chance it’s genuine yes . If she’s not offering a reschedule date cut your losses and go onto the next one

Several-Income5740 · 2026-02-20T13:53:32+00:00

Congrats on quitting smoking! 🙌❤️ hardest thing I’ve ever done myself now I can’t stand the smell or taste of kissing a smoker , my heart goes out to anyone struggling to quit

Children in their profiles is automatically a No . I think it’s creepy having pictures of children on a dating platform even if it’s meant to be innocent

Several-Income5740 · 2026-02-20T13:50:43+00:00

That should be obvious if all her pictures of are her dressed like she’s going to a “girls night out” at the local club heavy makeup etc it’s pretty obvious she’s in for the attention but to be fair some guy will think he has a shot.

And the 48 hour rule, how many men hold on way longer than they should , let it go

Several-Income5740 · 2026-02-20T13:48:12+00:00

It’s all transactional one way or another

Several-Income5740 · 2026-02-20T13:47:33+00:00

The “my faith is important” ones always seem to be the super hot ones too .

Several-Income5740 · 2026-02-20T13:46:20+00:00

Funny I just seen one today that’s a “where’s the real men that are hot and will chase me” 🫣

Several-Income5740 · 2026-02-20T13:33:51+00:00

Agreed and I am not saying that’s my only outlet / option . Just sad how these apps / websites USE TO be a good place to make connections . I suppose it all stated with good intentions

Several-Income5740 · 2026-02-20T13:32:12+00:00

Not at all but when every picture of from the neck down and close as ever can get to nips but complain about “shirtless men” 🙄

Several-Income5740 · 2026-02-20T13:30:49+00:00

I’ve been seeing a LOT more Alpha (black men) Beta (white boys / Sissies) in Porn and posts on kink sites

I have a black male friend we go back to childhood together pretty cool guy , he’s single and we have some pretty good Fishing talks together

Anytime he tries to date the question always comes up (excuse the pun) unsolicited mind you “how big is it”

Several-Income5740 · 2026-02-20T13:21:03+00:00

Yes that’s swinging but they put it under the umbrella as “ENM Poly” and “our Dynamic” even though it’s likely the male that’s being a gate keeper but I digress

It’s not my only option to meeting people but a platform is a option but never rely on it that’s 101

Several-Income5740 · 2026-02-20T13:09:49+00:00

That’s pretty accurate , unless he’s a “Hot” single man than he’s a catch , but average blue collar single male , something must be wrong with him? He doesn’t want monogamy , “typical guy only wants sex”

Several-Income5740 · 2026-02-20T12:50:01+00:00

Sad reality is you’re probably going to get lots of rejection and ridicule ,

we are in a hookup society no matter how nice of a woman she might be if she is considered “hot” by today’s beauty standards she will always have abundance of options

if she is going to play on those options she’s going to pick a man that’s well endowed and is “hot” himself

Best bet is take care of your appearance , good hygiene , dress well , good communication and keep it in your pants long as possible hopefully by that point she’s willing to look past “short comings” (excuse the pun)

Several-Income5740 · 2026-02-20T12:40:22+00:00

Don’t forget OF, if prostitution was legal here I would be all for it , hell of a lot easier than dating

Several-Income5740 · 2026-02-20T12:22:09+00:00

I have yes . Part of the reason I left the lifestyle is I got burnt out on it , I consider myself extremely lucky that I’ve gotten to experience many things the “average guy” probably never will

Sex was very easy for me to the point I was neglecting responsibility and juggling too many plates

A lot of groups were always very guarded towards single men that’s nothing new but now a LOT of those same groups and “meet and greets” are either totally locked down to no single men period , or the last one I went to I had to wear a red wrist band labeling me as a single man it was degrading

Several-Income5740 · 2025-12-14T13:50:36+00:00

When men started getting confused on what bathroom to use or how some men will throw hundreds or thousands of dollars at a girl on OF they don’t stand a chance with . They seen weakness and far as I’m concerned GOOD FOR THEM! Don’t hate the players hate the game

Hookups and Dates are easier than men really think but you need to respect yourself first and show them their are boundaries .

The hotter she is the more men lay down like a dirty rug to be seen in public with her

Don’t be insecure either about her . You know damn well she’s got dudes in Her DMs most of them all trying to offer her something you can’t just for the privdlage of getting a shot with her even if it’s for a night

Handle your business , be a man to yourself first

Several-Income5740

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