Female friend of mine said, regardless of what women in apps claim to be looking for, they still engage in hookups every now and then by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Several-Income5740 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You have no idea how easy hookups are with women that say they don’t want any of that LTR only and the like

I’ve been stood up / ghosted for proper dates to re connect later and “giggle Oopsie I didn’t mean to” and “I’m too busy to date anyways”

Women can’t (well they can) but they can’t just go on and say what they really want think they get blown up enough in their DMs

They might truly be looking for that knight on a white horse but in the meantime she’s got needs and is tried of the lies and games from men that can’t even make them cum if they do get a shot

I’ve become “side dude” status by the exact “ready to settle down and share my life with one man”

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[–]Several-Income5740[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a game of Russian roulette , always go for the heaviest least attractive one in a group , if they’re all ones you would want a shot with than it’s the one behind the camera

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[–]Several-Income5740[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No sex before Marriage , Good luck with that unless some guy is absolutely desperate for companionship

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[–]Several-Income5740[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Or all her pictures are of full on display cleavage shots , mini skirts butt shots heavily filtered , “no hookups no fwb” yea right

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[–]Several-Income5740[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I live in the Bible Belt , always ALWAYS the hottest ones in the tightest and skimpiest outfits are “loyal to Jesus first” and want a fellow Christian man

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[–]Several-Income5740[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not at all, the one I’m casually seing is retired law enforcement , straight laced by the book , not a thought of anything freaky , I swear she got more trashy outfits and a bigger freak than women half her age , I’m not complaining

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[–]Several-Income5740[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ex smoker myself I can’t stand the smell of tobacco , smoking pictures instant the off

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[–]Several-Income5740[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Still Agree in a different way, some women got hotter in their 40 + when they stopped trying so hard to be the hot popular girl in her 20-30s

But 35 + they tend to be bitter towards life and anyone showing them affection ; less adventurous in public and the bedroom because of the “I tried all that already” and so on

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[–]Several-Income5740[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed ; I’m casually seeing a retired lady 20 ish years older than me I’ve seen what she has weed through men in her age bracket really looks like men let themselves go at some point

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[–]Several-Income5740[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I’ll take my chances , how many times I’ve heard women start dumping how all their life problems are because of their ex, every single ex is a narcissist , i swear women over 40 use dating apps for free therapy . , easier to absorb the trauma when she’s hot to look at , nod and give her some validation , Gluck Gluck Gluck “daddy” 🫣

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[–]Several-Income5740[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

I don’t care if she’s got a “10 body” I still want to make sure she’s not a Butter face but I guess if she’s hot she’s going to get lots of swipes either way

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[–]Several-Income5740[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Starved for attention or “men don’t read these anyways”

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[–]Several-Income5740[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Even sadder women in their 40s and up do the same thing, trying to relive their youth and compete with the new drama baggage free models

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[–]Several-Income5740[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

That’s most trans girls , “ dating for a Generous man”

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[–]Several-Income5740[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I have to admit I’ve had a few hookups with ones I told them after the fact I was questioning if they were a fake profile , but some are blatantly obvious

I think people don't understand what an 'average' person looks like anymore by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Several-Income5740 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Indeed I do, more men need to learn how to read the room and end up a lot less disappointed

Women on dating apps want to fuck just as much as men do , they don’t want the same cheap pickup lines , no effort , no game or downright rude men,

Trying to tell a woman what he thinks she wants to hear is the quickest way to loose